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I’m really really confused about how to walk up and talk to women. Women are usually very cold, aloof and not often very friendly to me and I don’t really understand why. I look nice, I’m not a jerk nor an overly nice guy. And I look and dress nice. I want to get over my fear of approaching women I don’t know, but I’m afraid women will be weirded out, since that’s how they often act if I ask them out.
Let’s say I’m at a nice mall, or on campus at my school, or a festival, just somewhere a lot of people are where it’s not unreasonable for a man to approach, but not a club or a bar. What is the best way to approach if I’m decent looking and dressed well?
The idea I had was if a girl is walking somewhere, to ask for directions, and if she in a friendly manner and I sense she won’t blow me off I’ll smile and say "Oh I know where it was, I just wanted to talk to you. But I had to see if you were friendly first!" and introduce myself. How would you respond to an approach like that? The other thing I want to do is just go up with a smile and say "Hi… you are just so cute, so of course I had to come talk to you."
I’m pretty shy so it’s going to be difficult for me, but I’m dead-set at getting over my fear of approaching attractive women. I hear from time to time that I’m handsome and should have a girlfriend but I just never approach anyone! I don’t want to meet girls at parties or bars or clubs because I’ve had nothing but bad luck with that. Any advice would be appreciated! 
I know the obvious things, like hold eye contact, don’t stare at her breasts, smile, ask open ended questions, have a sense of humor, don’t be needy or beg for her number/a date, don’t talk about myself too much, etc. What else needs to be there for there to be chemistry?
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I do agree with you, even coming from a woman.. we can be kinda tough on guys that try to talk to us. I totally ignore the guys that shout hey as i walk by, or the ones that have the nerve to grab my arm as i walk by. I do talk to guys that can easy into a conversation without complements at first. If a guy can start a conversation and I am interested (even if he isn’t good looking) I will chat and consider exchanging numbers. Confidence, being genuine, and funny are big helpers!
Good luck and if a girl is too stuck up for a simple conversation – move on to a girl that is friendly, has a personality, and down to earth.
a great smile on your face (not a creepy one though)
walk right up to her and talk but be polite use manners
and if she doesn’t seem interested try some one else
and if you like her ask her out ;D
Well…….first off,you don’t just go up to a girl and call them cute(that will make them VERY uncomfortable). I believe approaching a woman is NOT the way to get a date. But if you ever bump into a girl and you guys end up in a conversation,be funny,make sure she notices you. And look her in the eye when your talking to her. Be her VERY best friend,and always be there 4 her (even when she’s in a bad mood). Be yourself,whether your goofy,a bad boy (mostly recommended),or smart. But here are the don’ts : don’t ever hit her butt,call her cute(or any other names),DON’T be a jerk,DON’T play hard 2 get,or anything else stupid. Keep your hygiene up,don’t were co-lone (srry but it stinks). Thats all iI have 2 say,GOOD LUCK ,and GO 4 IT ,BE BRAVE!!!!
PS:don’t be a know-it-all !