Why should I be happy that I just can NOT attract women?
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I’ve looked everywhere online for an answer, but the only thing anyone has is that I should live for God. As far as I can tell, I’ve been doing nothing BUT that my entire life. I can’t listen to advice on how to meet women because it’s contradictory on every level and only applies to people who want pointless sex, and the only advice I can find on why singleness is a "blessing" is all handed out by religious zealots (I hate using that word, but they’re not even TRYING to reach a secular audience) who don’t have anything to offer up but "live for God". I’m constantly trying to make sure that everyone I talk to is as happy as possible, I try to make the world a better place, I worked painstakingly for my former church (with little recognition beyond belittling mockery)… THAT is how you live for Him, and I can’t even reap the benefits of doing so. I want romance in my life, but I can’t get advice on how to get it that makes sense or why I should be happy that I’m hopelessly single.
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You are not hopeless, but if you believe you are, no woman will be interested. Meet a wide variety of women, and when you find one you fall for, then you’ve won 50% of the battle. Next is to make her feel the same. That part is up to you!
Just thank your lucky stars you dont have to deal with our b****y moods.Hahahahahah
First off you should try dating women from your church, I know many churches have singles nights, so if your’s doesn’t find one that does (I personally don’t attend church). Next, it is great you live for God, but I think also living for yourself will help you the most. If you live for yourself, are confident in yourself and your appearance no matter what, this will make women attracted to you and it will be easier to meet them. Do what makes you happy. P.S. You have to get out and go places to meet women, the mall, art gallery, concerts etc.
Okay, I hope this helps. Dont be so negative on yourself I am sure you are a wonderful person. A good way to get to know a women is to go do activies that you enjoy. For example if you like to play pool, go to a pool hall with a buddy and if you see a nice girl you like casually walk up to her and say hi, i think your shirt is beautiful or compliement her hair. It a little nerve racking but after a few times youll be alright. Any girl that acts stuck up towards you isnt worth your time anyways. I hope this helps and good luck in your love search.
That is your first problem, it sounds like your whining alot to me. So I’m assuming you don’t have much confidence. Hey here’s something to consider, ever seen a drop dead georgous girl with an ugly ass guy and think to yourself if shed go out with him then I defineatly have a chance. Well he has something you probably lack…Confidence, personality. Go be yourself, talk it up, flirt with who ever you see. Start with the ugly one’s and work your way up. Dont forget what I’m about to say. It is all a game you need to learn how to play and what works and what doesn’t work for yourself then and only then will you be happy with a girl by your side. You don’t need people to tell you this on the internet it’s common sense am i right? Hey, I could be wrong………
Ignore "truelove", she obviously has her cranium in her rectum.
The advice from "owl" was right on.
look my fellow human, dont worry, there is no doubt that out there is a perfect match for yourself. just keep on searching… sex isnt the most important thing in human life, as you mention! on the other hand, true love as god said is the greatest thing! for your fulfillness you need to find the right person to settle down!!! the only advise i can give is do not stop hoping…. be single have also some benefits!!!
i wonder how old you are? that might help to know cuz age would help me "answer" your question. i’m 27. i’m not sure what kind of answer you are looking for? i’m christian, but i’m sure anyone christian or secular could give you advice. i remember when i really liked this one guy, and he didn’t have the same feelings for me. man i fell deep for him too. well, i was in such misery, i just wasn’t getting the answers i needed, and i ended up just confiding in God. i thought that it was stupid to ask, but i asked him if he would stop this heart break i was feeling and bring someone else along. and wouldn’t you know it, not that much longer i met the man i married. i din’t think it was going to happen that quick. just ask him to bring someone or something into you’re life to make this feeling of loneliness go away.
i hope you didn’t mean it when you said that you can’t reap the benefits from doing all you do in your church and no recognition. you should know that as a christian, you shouldn’t do the good deeds you do just so you reap benefits. you do it to please god. your obedience will count more.
it’s kinda funny, but enjoy the single time while you have it. i find myself missing it once in a while because sometimes its frustrating always taking into consideration what your partner will think of a choice/action you want to make/take.
you’ve probably heard this also, but have patience. when someone does come along, you’ll be laughing at how at one point you didn’t think anything would ever happen. then i can say "i told you so!" ha ha
hang in there buddy
Just think of all the relationship games you get to skip. Wow, my life would have been so different.
Once again I have to go into my tirade about loving yourself. Loving yourself in that healthy way that attracts a partner. Loving life so much that it is not necessary to have someone, but it becomes additive when you do. Broadcasting love in such a way you have a multitude of friends.