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i’m 21 and i like older women that are like basically 21-30 but it seems hard to attract them cause they think i want a one night stand. I really don’t to be honest i’m not bad looking either i got compliments the only girls that have an interest in me are like girls who are 15-20. Any ideas on how i can attract an older women like at clubs or bars of even college?
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Every women is different so what I would like in a man, some other women might not…In my personal opinion if I dated a younger man he would have to be mature for his age (and I don’t mean too serious, stuck up, or boring) I just mean he needs to be honest no high school kid games. Being funny is always a plus, and confidence not cockiness or conceited but confidence in yourself and who you are. No one wants an insecure, jealous man who thinks because he’s not this or that you will go else where, or one that thinks he is god’s gift to all women on earth because that is Big Turn-Off and a REAL women has been there, done that and will tell you to GTH and not think twice about it.
woa thats really sad.
So hard. I am 30-40 old woman. And I have a lot younger man show their interesting. I always think they want a one night stand.
The only chance you will have: if you can start from a real friendship and get to know for long time.
Talk to them, rather than trying to flirt with them initially, they will realise that you are mature and that you’re looking for something more than sex.
Younger/same age girls are better though. Just an opinion
well basically older women have more experience and they like mature guys…you probably don`t look and act like one so chances are that`s the reason. You should sound confident and educated when speaking to them it should help. Don`t just talk to them as you talk with 16 year old girls.
For godsake dont lie about your age!!
Just be you there are plently of "older" women who like the idea of a younger guy. Besides 21 is not super young and I am sure anyone could look past it.
smack their behind…that’ll get their attention LOL…
no but really…just be yourself and talk naturally i guess…all i know is that as long as u dont sass n sweet talk em like crazy, they’ll figure out that ur not goin after some poon…
haha i’m kinda the same way…i’m 22, and i seem to attract high school and early college aged girls…but that’s the way i like it…as long as they’re 18…
I would say stop trying to meet them in bars. Approach women at other venues you have an interest in, like museums or festivals. That way you have a way in, so to speak. A common (mature) interest…not just drinking.
wow, can’t help you there. At 18-21 I had more trouble with girls my age than 21-40. Those cougers are aggressive!
Try a different bar I guess.
Good advice Jason S!
Re-evaluate the way you dress and your swagger. You might come off as childish or showing your age. Try focusing on being sexy. You also have to be stable in your job, having an apartment helps, and brush up on your conversation skills. The main thing is being physically appealing so they will give you the time of day to get to know you. Don’t rush into sex. It’s all about conversation with an older female so you have to be intellectual.
ask around campus, like in phoenix, everyone knows if your looking for a cougar you go to BARcelona, and they come up to you. Living off divorce settlement hell yeah