where to meet and how to approach women?
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im 18 and i havent had much luck with women, mainly going on dates,
i dont know where to look, and mainly how to approach complete strangers and ask them out, i am pretty shy so approaching women is hard for me, thanks
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I can’t agree with "wait for them to come to you" type of advice because even in these "modern" times, it’s still up to the guy to cross the room and make the approach. Plus, waiting for a girl to approach you limits your choices, dramatically, and you could be waiting a long, long time.
Where to meet: try places where she’s alone and her guard is NOT on red-alert mode: coffee shops, bookstores, mall department stores, yogurt shops, even the grocery store. Those are not "pick up spots" and it’s natural and normal for you to be there. She’ll be alone without friends to intimidate you and she won’t be in a defensive posture, she’s just shopping, getting coffee, looking at books or CD’s etc., plus you have built-in innocent conversation starters about coffee drinks, books or CD’s she’s looking at, etc. You can get results right away with those types of places – taking a dance, acting or yoga class is great too, but a much bigger investment of your time, so don’t take that route unless you’re already interested in dance, yoga, etc.
How to approach: all communication studies show that non-verbal communication is the majority of what influences another person: Sloooow down! You said you’re shy, so you might be a little nervous which means you’ll probably gesture erratically and speak too fast and that conveys nervousness and does NOT put her at ease or make her feel like she feels good around you. If you keep your face calm and with an easy little smile, gesture slowly and purposefully, stand or sit straight up, and speak slowly and calmly, you’ll come across as in-control and confident, and you’ll even start to feel more in-control and confident. She’ll feel that and feel more secure around you then. Forget about cheesy pick up lines and stupid strategies, just make innocent comments or compliments or ask questions, don’t over-think "what do I say?" because what’s more important is HOW you say it.
Finally, don’t put anything "on the line" meaning don’t have any expectations. Just be calm and easy going and lighthearted and enjoy yourself – you’ll do best by not being overly attached to the outcome.
Hope that helps!
Stop looking, she will come to you. I found the perfect woman when I gave up looking.
Well there are women everywhere. The best place to go to meet girls is the beach…but im only 14 so it might be a lil different. But trust me, be confident on dates and just be yourself. Thats a turnon. Try not to be shy. And hey if they turn you down or something, don’t get discourged or anything. Go find another girl. Approaching women is just something you gotta have fun with. Have a nice conversation with a chick and then ask for her number or something. Just have fun with it:) Hope this helped and good luck!:)
just compliment then
! and let them start a convo like "Thanks your sweet, whats your name". if they just say thanks walk away. or if u like start a convo 
, and if they there not interested walk away 
saying "no problem" and give a gentle smile 
!