Whats the best way to approach a woman at a bar if you actually want to be friends with her?
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Sounds weird, but after spending alot of time at bars approaching women with the intention of picking her up, how do I just get into the friend zone without her thinking I’m a nerd who’s just practising on her?
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Now this line may take a bit of time to be fully effective, BUT, the numbers say it will work "once" out of ten shots. OK. (as the father of
and 3 wife’s, I’m not trying to say I know THE best line in the world. bit I do know the #1 thing about women the "most" women are concerned about.
Let’s think class… Who in the Bible can give us a clue ? Noah? Thomas ? or how about Mary ?
Who was the best of the best but became normal when something was cut off? And… who did not know they were Superman again until there was a need ? Another clue… he/she was "blind" but STILL did something that even today some folks have a hard time understanding. (Wow—this is fun !!)
Hey, I could drag this on for two or three more days. Should I stop for now then plug back in next week and drive half the people reading this crazy?
Nah… that’s just plain mean… O.K. kid’s… who lost his "hair’ and was made blind, but it grew back and he kind of "pushed" his way around anyway ??
All you have to do is kind of "drift" over in the general direction of the woman in question (look her in the eye for 1/2 a second) and say, "Wow… I really like your hair that way !!"
(Then slowly kind of drift about 20 feet away and start singing softly along with the music — but DON’T LOOK AT HER ANYMORE !!!!!!!)
"If" SHE wants conversation, SHE will come over to you and start some small talk.
Only try this line about every 2 hours or the word will get out what your doing.
I’m so curious to know y u want to be ‘just friends’ with a chick at a bar… But anyway, here’s my guess:
Friends have something in common, right? Not necessarily something to do with each other, but let’s say you’re at a sports bar and she’s cheering on a team, cheer with her. If she’s totally not into the game, tell her your kind of embarrassed that you’re a guy and you’re not into it either.
If you’re in a regular, drunk off ur ass bar, it doesn’t matter what you say or do that’ll make her your friend. Otherwise, letting her know you’ve got a girlfriend and not doing or saying anything that contradicts that, you’ll probably squeeze into the friend zone smoothly.
But if you really are a nerd and you really are just practicing on her, give it a try and just say it. "I’m playing the friend field tonight. Hell, I’m a nerd and I need practice, lol"… it could work. Chicks love volunteer work, friendly ones anyway…
I wouldn’t want to be serious with ANY woman that could be found in a bar. If you’re in a bar, you’re not looking for good girls.
Might sound weird, but church is actually a place to meet women.
First off, you don’t want to meet a woman at a bar. Drunk bitches probably aren’t worth it, and are most likely easy and skanky. If you think you are a bit nerdy, go somewhere else, like a bookstore if that is your interest, or a record store…whatever is your interests, and meet someone there. She’ll probably be more down to earth and have the same interests as you.
Good luck!
if the woman is sad you can make a plan to make her happy or to comfort
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Well just comment on her looks and clothes but nothing personal dont act to interested and if she has friends talk to her and her friends girls love when guys like there friends
just talk to their friends as well as them, and make jokes but not dirty jokes.
Pick the most cheseest pick up line you can think of and go with it to be funny. Example" excuse me? did it that hurt? you falling from heaven" then say right after ward "just kiddin my names ???" ask if she wants to play pool. and the #1 thing woman will go for is called the "rebound". and you go on to say you would rather be there than at home. if she asks why then you have just hooked a fish. without to much detail you can say "i broke up with my girl and she trashed the place, took me awhile to clean it up and change my locks" o some thing to keep her attention. the point is girls like to play hero just as much as guys.
Avoid being drunk, try straight talk, DO NOT offer her a drink straight away, think about some neutral but interesting subjects of conversation do not make it about ‘her’ nor ‘you’ but rather the place or ambiance. If she thinks you are weired, then that’s not the friend you are looking for I guess.
through bread at her and ask her if her puenanny is clean always works-
If you want to be just friends with her, don’t make too much move that could hint her that you like her and want to do other than making friends with her.. you know your limitation.. u know that!!
Talk to her without giving her any compliments. Just act like a friend would by not getting overly attentive or anything. That is my best guess.