What to do when you like a girl that just got out of bad relationship she was in for 4 years?
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Hi all,
I need your help. I like this girl that just got out of a bad relationship she was in for 4 years. It has only been like 5 days that they have broken up. We used to hang out like a couple years back and she know that I like her and still does right now.
I always think about her from time to time and then a week ago while I was walking home. I saw here sitting there with her shoulder slouched and was just very emotional and depressed. The only thing that was going through my mind was that I was so very happy seeing her and just gave her big warm hugged. As we were sitting and talking. She told me she moved in right there, which is just a couple of walk from my place. She also said she just broke up with her boyfriend of 4 years 5 days ago.
As we went out to eat, she was telling how bad her ex treated her and that she’s always crying, even at work, constantly. She wrote me a letter after, thanking me for making her feel beautiful and appreciated. because she said she hasn’t felt that in three years. I really do think she very beautiful inside and out. We hung out a couple of time and it felt very nice. Feels like we were couple. I hugged her and she did the same. We hold hands. We kissed, etc.
So yesterday, she told me that she feel like we were rushing things and that she just broke up with her ex and didn’t have time to herself to reflect and heal. She said she really want that and hope that I can respect that. She know that I liked her alot.
Right now she is struggling with everything, emotionally, financially, and health. I do care about her very much and don’t want to be the rebound guy. I really want to start a long term relationship with her, because I really care about her, even more than myself. What should I do. How often should I call. How often should I check up on her. Can someone let me know step by step on what I should do to make her my girlfriend. I really like her and care about her deeply and it just feels natural for me to make her happy, Thank you for taking the time to read my story and any advice will help.
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Well it seems she at least feels a little towards you if she returns the hugs and stuff, since she has been in a relationship for that long and it’s really getting her down you need to let her know your going to be there not just as a guy who has feelings for her but also as someone who is a good friend, i think you should give her some time to really repair her self and then start moving in a little closer. give her a call a couple of times in a week bring her out to get her mind of the break up and try to make her feel good about her self, also show her you respect her and i mean if you have any urge to kiss her or hold hands don’t, cause she’ll think your only doing it to try to get with her just wait a while and if you notice she is getting a little better try to move in closer to her, i really hope i helped in anyway i wish you the best of luck with her and hope for the best for both of you:)