What is the concept of the “Alpha” male? Can any man be an alpha male?
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women are drawn to the "alpha" male. I’ve never really gotten a hold of that concept. What is it? Is it a man that is physically appealing? Or is it a man with strong self-confidence? Or is it both? Can it be achieved by any man no matter how attractive or how ugly they are? How can a guy tell if they have the qualities of the "alpha" male? Can those traits be hidden within the man? I’m assuming when women say they are looking for MEN they are looking for the alpha males (guys with their heads on straight, take care of themselves) and Beta males are the boys. Or is this just a looks thing and if you’re genetically not attractive you are considered a beta male? If anyone of you have the time to explain it, would be greatly appreciated
Do alpha males need no approaching women? Or do they still need to do the work
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While looks help, Alpha Male concept is more of energy type thing. I have seen men who under society’s definition of good looking really don’t meet the good looking requirements but they simply ooze alpha male. It’s personal strength, self-confidence, loyalty, intelligence and masculinity all mixed together. They seem to have a strong sense of family and a need to protect what they consider their own. But there is a feeling of gentleness there too. Can they be hidden in a man? Yes I think that certain situations and maybe even certain women can bring them more strongly out in a guy. To give you an example from my own family: My hubby and youngest son are both very alpha male but my oldest didn’t seem to be until one day we were at a local community function where my oldest’s wife and her mother were being mugged out in the parking lot. My oldest attacked the two young guys—broke ones nose and nearly killed the other so quickly that no one else even had a chance to help. Then he quietly stood over the two idiots until the cops came and arrested them. I know that this could be probably be thought of as something on the extreme side but it kind of illustrates my point. Some are alphas when they need to be. If a woman sees the flash of alpha male in someone who appears to be beta, she would be smart to know that he might just be who she is looking for. Some women aren’t smart enough to see it though.
Alpha male in a wolf pack is the leader of the pack. As is the alpha female. The concept in humans is an individual who is a natural leader. That is all. Don’t read too much into this. And don’t apply it to people. We are more complex than that and it isn’t about survival of the pack.
To quote Gene Simmons
"I walk into the room, grab the most beautiful girl and act like the coolest guy there."
An alpha male or alpha female is the individual in the community to whom the others follow and defer. Humans and their nearest species-relatives, the chimpanzees, show deference to the alpha of the community by ritualized gestures such as bowing, allowing the alpha to walk first in a procession, or standing aside when the alpha challenges. Canines also show deference to the alpha male in their pack, by allowing him to be the first to eat and the first to mate. …
Being the Alpha male is very important. An awesome book that explains all the Alpha male stuff and how not to be a push-over and to get what you want (without beating anyone up) helped me a lot in my life. It is called "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Dr. Glover. You’ll never regret having read it.
Alpha Males refer to the social structure of APES, not humans.
Alpha males know how to approach women if they have to – and if they want to… I don’t go for all this. Women just want a man – a real man – one that is decent looking, takes care of himself, treats her well and treats other people well, that is funny and intelligent. It’s pretty simple.
When you apply this to humans, I think that an alpha male, just has a tremendous amount of self-confidence about him! That’s one thing that attracts girls! Of course it does help to be good looking, but not necessarily always, just look at all these attractive women hitched up to these ugly guys! (It’s the self-confidence,and the personality that goes with it that attracts girls!)