What are good way to approach women at a gym?
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I have started working out at a gym, there are a few girls that i see there a lot that i want to talk to but im not sure if they would even want someone approaching them. what is a good way to break the ice but not come off as desperate?
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A few girls… not just one? first, don’t make yourself a gym whore. I despise the guys that I see flirting around with all the girls. One guy in particular is way too friendly and has tried to strike up conversation with me… nope. Girls watch everything. no – we don’t go to the gym to find a guy – that is for sure, but if just the right situation comes up… maybe a chat in the sauna… not intruding conversation
well, dont act desperate. go about your workout routine, and if you make eye contact, smile, and see if you get a smile back, then start a conversation. otherwise move on.
personally i dont like when ppl come up to me at the gym. but the best moment for me would probably be when i leave, when i come in, or maybe when you see the person taking a ‘break’ or drinking water or something
Start out small like hi and how are ya. After a couple times seeing her ask her if shes been coming there often. Wait a couple days just let her know she is pretty and you would like to go out with her. I promise she wont shoot you. All she can do is say no. If so leave it at that and be nice. Go on to the next one. Just don’t come on too strong.
I hate when guys talk to me at the gym……..I am always dressed down and I don’t want to meet anyone when I feel all sweaty and gross and in workout clothes!
maybe, as ur walking past one of the girls who is resting, "drop" ur water bottle, and say something like "oh, im so sorry!"
they’ll say something like "oh its ok!" and u could respond by saying "well, i guess i can be clutz sometimes" they’ll probably laugh… then say "i should let u get back to ur workout now…"
if they like u, they’ll say something like "oh, its ok! im just taking a break." if they dont, they’ll let u walk away.
good luck! =)
well like they said up top, most women dont go to the gym to meet guys. that said, if you looked at what they wear, you would not think that. a fully matching outfit doesnt say "not interested" So take it slow and dont be to annoying, but women also need to realize that there arent many place to meet them so where ever they are is a good place to approach them. to not come off as desperate than act like you dont care what happens( its even better if you really dont care, though that would imply that you arent desperate in the first place) than just move forward. remember what they say about beautiful women, often times no one approaches cause they are intimidated by the looks, so who knows what might happen. and i mean hey, you already go to the same gym so i mean you have that in common. just get the clue if they say no and just move on.
A girl probably has "losing weight" on her mind when she’s at the gym…not a sexy thought. And on top of that, she might be self-conscious because she doesn’t have make-up on, is sweaty, etc…things that might seem sexy for guys, but a girl probably dosen’t feel so sexy.
I don’t think the gym is the best place to approach a girl, but if you must, then don’t start it off as if you’re trying to court her…start off by becoming her friend! Having a gym buddy will probably be fun for both of you, and maybe a relationship can bud off from there. Make set routines to do together, or just show up at the gym at the same time. Afterwards, you can start branching out from the gym and going out to lunch or movies together. Of course, in order to begin a gym buddy relationship, you start by asking her questions about her routine…
i love guys checking us out, but sometimes they come when we are all sweaty, or are just way too friendly, and sometimes we don’t like people flirting with us at the gym because we will get all embarrassed seeing them everyday while we exercise. Try out talking as a friend first and if she gets closer to you, then do this. Don’t fret, or be too serious, be…..cute. talk to her for a little bit, but not too long.( Do this twice) Let her want you more. Then after the second time, run into her,(you know two people at the same place at the same time) but somewhere other than the gym if you can find her, but don’t like stalk her, and say something like: "Kate, we have to stop meeting like this, a guy might think he’s being followed"…something like that…and if she happens to laugh and say"cute" u can say with ease and flirtation with a cute smile "i…. get cuter".
(remember not to sound fake because, youre not…:) i hope not! haha
and then try to see if she is interested in you. I she sounds kind of flirty everytime, try asking her out, but don’t catch her at the wrong time…(if she says yes, u say you’ll pick her up at her place…..but something comes up and she cant go all of a sudden when you are there to pick her up, just say "its okay, i’ll keep trying" or something. HOPE THIS HELPS!!!