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I have problems approaching women. How do I start? Do I just walk up to them and say hello, simple as that? Or do I need to come up with some line to make them smile?

Lines are easy but using them at the right time, with the right tone, and the right vibe is just nearly impossible if it’s not sincere.

My question to you ladies. How would you like a guy to approach you if you see him across the room? If you are at least somewhat attracted to him, how would you like him to approach you without having feel minipulated?

i notice i do not do anything and yet they flock to me or think im a lesbian (close, i am bi but i like men more now). i dont know what makes them think im interested. i notice whenever i meet a new girl-friend (dash intended) they tend to act cute towards me and cuddle as if im a guy!, i have no idea how to react.. 2 girls have already confessed to me this year. I mean, do i exuberate some sort of masculine vibe that makes women believe im a man or even interested in them? Ugh. Is it my natural assertiveness?The avatar is me, i mean do i look like a transsexual? Its not my fault that most guys nowadays are metrosexual puss*ies. :)
yes read my profile description. my contact and i were playing a game.
" like i am the guy and they are the weak girls who need to be protected!" exactly. most of my girl-friends in high school tend to act that way around me. lol xD we have the same life, same birthday mai!
Capricorn: lol. sure :D
NavyBlue: haha XD i like video games… doesn’t make me a guy!! lol yeah many say i look like a Spanish-Asian… which my grandma is… strong blood she has :D

I think a reason why I am not good with women is that I’m generally quiet and shy around social settings (where you’d usually meet women) and I project the wrong vibe. I know women can really pick up on a guy’s confidence, but how? I mean, I think I’m good looking and that I have a lot to offer, it is just the talking/flirting with women is what I’m not smooth at. I wouldn’t say I get nervous around attractive women, I just am worried that I’ll seem less confident. I’ve been able to go up to cute girls in my college classes and ask them to work on school stuff etc. But they all end up acting distant and not very social afterwards, like I’m a creepy guy or something. They would never really say hi if I saw them outside of classes etc. It seems the girls I meet never get a good impression of me. I’m not sure how to improve myself when interacting with women so this stops happening, and I become the kind of guy girls like to be around, not just romantic interest but for friends too.

thats pretty much it. Im a straight guy with not so much luck with women as far as relationships go. i have many female "friends", but gay men seem to adore me. is it a vibe i give off or something?
As far as i know i am straight. i mean there are attractive men out there, but i couldn’t see myself dating any of them.

Sometime when i talk to women i feel that i’m desperate or give off the vibe of being desperate and i don’t know it. When talking to a women what are the best things not to see so you wont seem desperate?

I have problems approaching women. How do I start? Do I just walk up to them and say hello, simple as that? Or do I need to come up with some line to make them smile?

Lines are easy but using them at the right time, with the right tone, and the right vibe is just nearly impossible if it’s not sincere.

My question to you ladies. How would you like a guy to approach you if you see him across the room? If you are at least somewhat attracted to him, how would you like him to approach you without having feel minipulated?

  
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