how do i get balls to talk to random girls?

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Me and my buddy who is an expert on getting girls, were talking during lunch, and me mentioned to me that the reason why he is so good at picking up women is because he just doesn’t care about the outcome. basically, he’s not scared of rejection. i don’t think i’m scared of rejection nessessarily, but my main problem here is, i don’t have the balls to just go up to any random girl and talk to her. i know how to talk to girls in general like at bus stops or an employee somewhere, but i want to explain a couple situations where i just wanted to kick myself in the head afterwards.

the first situation was yesterday when i was sitting at a park on a very nice day reading my book on a bench under the shade. a girl was laying on the grass alone with one of those headphones that hug your ears on. she was drop dead gorgeous and i wanted so bad to go up and talk to her but there were several things stopping me. first of all, she was laying right in the middle of an open field of grass so i figured if i walked up to her, she would get the hint that i was trying to get with her and my main thing i avoid is not to look so desperate because that’s creepy even in my mind. secondly, she had headphones in her ears which would mean that i would have to make it obvious that i was talking to her because i would have to give her a signal and she would have to take them off to hear me. but she was alone, wasn’t with anybody.

the second was when i was walking around campus and saw this girl sitting at a bench by the pond. of course, she was drop dead gorgeous too. but again, i just didn’t have the balls to go up and talk to her and get her number or whatever because i figured if she saw me walk across that field towards her, she would get the hint that i’m trying to talk to her and to me, that sounds like desperation.

can anyone give me some help on this? thanks in advance.

-joe

how does this sound for a book name for men about meeting and attracting women?

"The Complete Guide To Attraction: Get The Love Life You Want". I tried "The Complete Guide to Pickup" before but for some reason, some women got offended at the word "pickup" which is ludicrous. So what do you think of the title? Do you think the "pickup" title would have been better? Thanks in advance

Can men pick up the morning after pill/"Plan B" over the counter?

The reason I’m asking is because my boyfriend needs to go get them for me, because of other personal reasons [no way I could back out from them unless I confessed, and that'd defeat the purpose]. So, I need to know if a guy [18+] can purchase the morning after pill?

It says on the website that it’s for women to pick up, but it says nothing about how men cannot buy it.

Thanks in advance!
Also, how much does it cost?

Esspecially in Massachusetts.

Thanks!

Can men pick up the morning after pill/"Plan B" over the counter?

The reason I’m asking is because my boyfriend needs to go get them for me, because of other personal reasons [no way I could back out from them unless I confessed, and that'd defeat the purpose]. So, I need to know if a guy [18+] can purchase the morning after pill?

It says on the website that it’s for women to pick up, but it says nothing about how men cannot buy it.

Thanks in advance!
Also, how much does it cost?

Esspecially in Massachusetts.

Thanks!

How can I decorate my room to attract women?

First off let me give you a background. I’m a 22yr old male that is an only child & still living at home for 1 more year. Recently I have realized that I have been babied most of my life, leading me to not be a very mature man at the moment. However, I know I will be moving out relatively soon and I want to get the process of becoming a more mature person started before it’s too late. Obviously that entails a lot of areas of my life, but the specific question I have for everyone is how can I re-decorate my room in order to be more attractive to women? Basically when I have a girl over I want to make her feel safe, comfortable, attraction, and for her to think I’m an interesting mature man who is comfortable with himself. I really do mean this, so any help would be great!
As a side note to help those who are answering this question- my style typically is very sporty. I’m a college student & majoring in PE which is very fitting because I love to take charge and love sports. My current assessment of my room would be that its very clean & organized, but still very young boyish (my PS3, Super Nintendo.. lol). Also that it’s probably too over the top sports wise (trophies, posters, autographed pictures, etc.) I know that change is something that I really want, so thanks in advance for any well thought out and brutally honest answers!!! =)

How can I tell a dog owner they do not pick up thier dog's mess?

I am having a problem with someone in my neighborhood letting their dog poop in my yard and then not pick it up. This woman is highly obese and makes a big deal about having to pick it up when I am around to witness it. The problem is that I work very long hours and I can not be there to guard my yard against the onslaught of pet poo from her and her pet….

I do plan on confronting her but have not been around when she is walking her dog lately. Tonight I came home to a fresh pile right where I take out the garbage cans for the morning pick-up. I am a bit fed up at this point.

Does anyone have any ideas on ways that I can get my point across when I am not home? A sign that says that I appreciate pet owners picking up their dog’s crap?? I am frustrated and hope that someone can help me a bit here. Thanks in advance.

How to approach women in public places like bookstores, coffee shop etc?

Do women like to be approached by decent single men in public places like Bookstores, Coffee shop, Gym etc? If yes, then what is the best way for guys to approach them without freaking them out. The type of women I like are hard to find in clubs and bars, however its difficult to tell if women in other public places are open for relationships. So wondering if its okay to approach them in public places.

1. If its okay, then how to approach women in a public place?
2. If the person is interesting, how to ask for contact information for future meet-up?

thanks in advance for all answers! really appreciate it!

How to approach women in public places like bookstores, coffee shop etc?Mainly in universities?

How to approach women in public places
How can u approach a girl whom i had never met.
In a place like universities (I am an Uni student and i want to talk with girls whom i don’t even have the slightest relation i mean they are not in my classes)
Do women like to be approached by decent single men in public places like Bookstores, Coffee shop, Gym etc? If yes, then what is the best way for guys to approach them without freaking them out. The type of women I like are hard to find in clubs and bars, however its difficult to tell if women in other public places are open for relationships. So wondering if its okay to approach them in public places.

1. If its okay, then how to approach women in a public place?say something that i can start a conversation!!
2. If the person is interested, how to ask for contact information for future meet-up?

thanks in advance for all answers! really appreciate it!

Best bars/clubs to pick up women in New York City, no BS?

Anyone know the best bars and clubs to pick up women in Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens?

Looking for specific places, not just "walk down second ave. and check out bars there". There are 100,000 bars in NYC, I don’t have time for ‘em all.

Looking more for the type of place where older (late 20′s-late 30s) women hang out who know what they want, not some trendy place where spoiled baby girls go to meet lexus-driving cash-flashing "cool" guys, as seems to be the theme at soooo many clubs.

Also, best hours to go to said places, in anyone’s experience?

And girls, thank you, but I don’t ned you to respond with what a pig I am and how disgusting random sex is, and how desperate I must be. Thanks in advance.

In need of advise. How to approach women?

I need advice on how to approach a woman. I am confident, but when it comes to women, the confidence disappears. I’m well off, I mean I’m 6’5", in decent shape. I’m a nurse, I’m currently in medical school and I have a business. I think maybe I have focused on my success too much. The problem is that when I go out with my buddies I get looks from women, but I can never get the courage to go and talk to them. I really need help, I’m not getting any younger. Any advise would be greatly appreciated, thanks in advance.

How can a girl permanently get rid of unwanted facial hair?

My friend has stubbly facial hair on her chin that she really really despises and wants to get rid of for good. She has been taking birth control pills for a month to get rid of it but hasn’t seen any real changes. First, is this long enough, and if not how long should she continue before it goes away? Or, if this doesn’t work, what can she take to get rid of it? Serious answers only please, this is a touchy subject! And thanks in advance

How can I get a girl to like me?

I’m 15 years old. Theres this girl in my history class who I like that sits right next to me. I barely know her, I’ve only talked to her a couple of times. I get too nervous to even say "hi" to her. I’m usually not this shy around girls and I’ve dated before but I don’t know what to say to her.
Please help me out, thanks in advance. (:

How should I approach and talk to women?

Hi, all –

Well, I’ve been out of the dating game for about 2 years now, partially due to a recently-ended relationship, partially due to a hectic life. Now that things are slowing down a little bit, I’ve realized I’ve kind of forgotten how to talk to and approach women.

Anyone have any advice/tips for me? I’m mostly looking for feedback from the gals, but guys are welcome to post too. Thanks in advance all!
To add a small detail in regards to what Linz asked: I generally prefer to meet women outside of clubs and bars; generally not my type of place.

How to flirt with a girl?

What are some sure fire ways to flirt with a girl to let them know you like them? I’d kind of like more ways to flirt by talking, not by physically touching her ’cause she’s on vacation right now. Thanks in advance.

Do the pheromone products advertized to attract women really work? ?

I am interested in finding out if anyone has had any experience with the various mail-order pheromone products used to attract women. I did some internet searches, but I just got websites with ads for pheromone products. Thanks in advance!

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