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First off, I am 21 and never had a girlfriend, I have never been on an official date. I am really shy, but when I open up, I talk alot more. My problems is that when I like a girl, she tends too only see me as a friend. I can respect that, but there is this one girl that I have liked for 6 years, and my feelings for her is unlike any feelings I have had for any other girl. I want to be with her, but she dont feel the same way. For more details, read the next paragraph

About 6 years ago, I met this girl on a fieldtrip, and I have been crazy for her since. I was shy at first, we talked but I eventually asked her out. She said no, and went with her exboyfriend. They dated for about 3 years, and then they broke up. At that time, I still talked to her, and my feelings for her never went away. When she was single, I felt like I should tell her how I felt again. I pussied out, and I wrote a letter expressing my feelings, and I gave it to her. A couple days later, she wrote me back, but on facebook, telling me that her feelings have not changed. A couple weeks later she went back with her ex. Since writing her the letter, we did not speak, until about a year later. She broke up with her boyfriend, and has not been as avoidant, because she becomes more avoidant when she is with that guy. When she told me, she said that Im the only guy she feels like she can hang out with, because I am not expecting anything. Through our interactions, my feelings have grown back. She also told me that, she does not want to get back with her ex, but still texts him from time to time. My car broke down, and when I called her to come help me out, she came with that one guy she always ends up with. I decided then I need to tell her how I feel again. So I texted her telling her that we needed to talk. We made plans for it the following week. When the time came, and I told her, in person, that I always liked her, and that I was thinking about breaking off our friendship, but I decided not too. I told her that I would prefer continue liking her and just being her friend than not talk to her at all. When I gave her a chance to talk, she didnt really say anything about it. What does that mean?? I told her this about a week ago, and I have not been in contact with her since, but I really miss her. I want to see her again. I know that it is best to move on, but I dont want to move on. Is there a way that I can still make all my dreams come true, and be with her. Because she is the only one I really want.

So how can I get girls to like me? Is there any way to get the girl I talked about in the above paragraph to like me? Any help will be appreciated, I am tired of being single

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this guy asked me out after we chatted online duirng college summer break. I said "no" BECAUSE I WASN"T READY…he told me to tell him when I was. i did/do like him though! i was just in a bad place atm.we stay friends, he gets a g/f. they break up. i tell him how i feel (this is all within a year). he said he’s still heartbroken over the girl and has things he wants to work on so HE ISN"T READY lol. he says he doesn’t want me to be his rebound but finds me very attractive (note he NEVER SAYS HE actually wants to date me/is interested). i tell him the door is open and he thinks me for that. I think my flirting can be too blunt for him, so he pulled back and became distant, so i stopped then he started giving me more attention. i treated him like a normal friend and now he’s much nicer lol. yet he looks at me a lot and sometimes can’t look at me in the eye when we talk. we chat online and sometimes he texts me now (before he ignored them) but he does that with friends so…we went on break and came back…he seemed really happy to see me and when he came over my friend;s dorm while i was there i answered and his face lit up and he said hi to me in this really low/sweet voice, but much more animated and goofy when he greeted my friend, but he hugged her and not me! he seems more "serious" with me) lol i don’t know…then when I mentioned how i wouldn’t be around our senior society that we are in all that much, he seemed upset. WHY!? If he wants to hang out he knows where to find me lol.

edit: oh once i told him it would be "radical if he dated a black girl" only as a joke and he seriously said "that wouldn’t be radical, unless Iw ere racist.. haha. last night i was tipsy with a friend and thought it be a joke to text him that i wanted to make out and my friend added to it that i needed my sugar daddy (we kid like this…) he didn’t respond, but today i saw him and he was really nice and we all were hanging out watching football and he gave me his last beer and everytime he would talk he looked only at me, even when answering someone else’s question! He said i should watch the game with him next week. oh and he kept saying my name and looking at me when making fun of our friend in the room who called me the wrong name. sorry, i know im reading wayyy too much into this ugh
if u don’t have the time get off the fuking internet b itch

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First off, I’m a sophomore. There is this girl Danielle who i really like. No joke, she is the most amazing girl i have ever met. she is smart, funny, athletic, one of the prettiest girls that i have ever seen. i think about her a lot, but not in a creepy way. okay so i don’t know how close to get before i should ask her out. i don’t want to become too close to her i don’t think because then she might think of me as just a friend. one of my friends likes her too though, but i don’t think she likes him that way because she already turned him down once. (is that wrong to like someone that your friend likes?) and i don’t know how much to talk to her. i don’t want to seem like some creep that talks to or texts her all the time. and another thing is the "touch barrier" what kind of touching is kinda flirty but not awkward for the girl to show that i care about her? o, and what kind of compliments and how often is it good to compliment a girl? and at what point is it not weird to hang out just one on one because whenever i hang out with her it is with a group unless if it is walking with her to class alone or after school to her car. any help on this is great. i need as much advice as i can get because sadly, i have never had a girlfriend, but neither have any of my friends really. (no i am not a geek, i am athletic, smart, and decent looking.)
o and for the record, i know her already and talk to her at school every day basically.
o update!!!!:
she told my friend who also liked her that she doesn’t like him that way.

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last year i was a little bi curous, so i decided to look online for a girl to talk to and expiriment with my feelings. I started talking to this girl and although she lived states away, i really fell for her and after a month we became girlfriends. We dated for about 5 months and she even flew to me a few times to spend the weekend. But the cheated on me so I broke up with her and slowly realised that alough i am a little bi, I prefer boys and it was just a live and learn kind of situation. Only problem is, she is still MADLY in love with me. She has a really hard life. Her parents neglect her, she is dirt poor, her friends dont talk to her, she doesn’t have much going for her. She talks about how much she hates her life and before we dated she tried to kill herself before so she has a history of depression. She texts me and calls me all the time crying, but when i try to be her friend she calls me "baby" and says "i love you" and stuff like that. It makes me super uncomfortable and bothers me that she can’t respect that my feelings towards her no longer exist. I just don’t know what to do because I feel bad for her and I want to be her friend but she can’t get over me and its been almost a year. she went on one date and left crying because she says all she wants is me. I feel so guilty for making her feel so terrible and i shouldnt have guilt about this because i have done nothing wrong. I am a very sensative person and I don’t know what to do about her….????? HELP

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I text this girl I like everyday and she likes me but she barely ever texts me anymore. I wanna ask her out once school is over. How could I get her attention and get her to talk to me more often?

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