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Im talking to girls a lot more this year, but how do I get to have more like, lady friends? I hang out with people, I’m not an outcast. I’m just confused about sh*t since my dad passed almost a month ago. And I was just wondering. I talk to girl and sh*t. Any advice

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Eh I’ve basically never had a gf in my years of living. I’m going to be going to university nxt year and still haven’t had a gf in my life. I just don’t know why. At first, I thought it’s cause of the zits. I had loads in my middle school yrs and early high school yrs, took ‘em off. I’m clean now. Don’t have ‘em anymore. Next I thought I was too scrawny, started working out more and way bigger than I was in my early high school yrs. Still nothing…then I thought it was my short hair and my wide forehead so I grew out my hair and have it curly (i’m going to a salon or a barber for them to make it wavy. i know it sounds weird since i’m a guy but curly sucks)

but nothing works! i get some girls attention from other states or so. i’ve developed pretty much a horrendous reputation as the class weirdo from when i was younger. i’m not like that anymore. i changed. but you can’t get people’s views about you to change. i’m certainly not ugly. i’m a good looking guy (mind me i don’t want to have a huge ego).

is it because im shy? i never am comfortable in talking to girls at my school, EVER. i just don’t know why. i try and try and just completely forget what i say or just smile and don’t say nothing and i don’t know how to keep my discussions going on in tlking to them. i really need help on girls. i’m really clueless.

i guess its the shyness that turns them off eh?

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im 21 and Iv never in my life had a girlfriend nor have I ever talked to girls before and I want a girlfriend so bad but Im afraid I will look like a creep and scare her away if I approach her. What would you tell someone like me with no experience talking to girls or approaching girls? Girls especially answer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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im 21 and Iv never in my life had a girlfriend nor have I ever talked to girls before and I want a girlfriend so bad but Im afraid I will look like a creep and scare her away if I approach her. What would you tell someone like me with no experience talking to girls or approaching girls? Girls especially answer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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im 21 and Iv never in my life had a girlfriend nor have I ever talked to girls before and I want a girlfriend so bad but Im afraid I will look like a creep and scare her away if I approach her. What would you tell someone like me with no experience talking to girls or approaching girls? Girls especially answer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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ok so I am in high school, eleventh grade to be exact. I don’t have a problem talking to girls, I dress nice, and I look OK. what I want to know is how come som people just walk in the room and the girls don’t know him, but he automatically gets noticed. I wonder what I’m doing wrong. I walk in to class confident, but I don’t get noticed. I am not too popular but I am known around the school, just not the way I want to be. I don’t mean like a loser, I play sports and am pretty good. Like this has always been a big question to me. do I have to talk in a special way? what does it take for girls to respect you,think your a cool guy.

please answer girls with helpful info

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I am fine with talking to girls. In fact most of my friends are girls. The problem is i cant ask them out
When i was in 6th grade i asked out a girl. 5 days later i dumped her and it was so akward. I never wanted to go thru that again. I like a girl but i dont have the courage to ask her out. How can i emotionlly prepare for this then whats a good way to ask her out

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I am trying to learn how to get my swag in terms of talking to girls and picking up girls?

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I’m 27, is 23 too young? I’m not sure if I look good or not, and I’m awkward talking to girls. How do I break the ice, and ask them out?
I’ve been deployed three times, and I never felt any fear. I don’t understand why I am more terrified to be rejected by a woman, than I am to die….Strange, isn’t it?

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i enjoy meeting new people and im great at talking to girls if i have a reason to talk to them. i feel that if i just walk up to a random girl she will think im a creep so im stuck always getting an employees number at the mall or something because that way i have a reason to talk to them. so my question to you ladies would be: what would the best thing be for a guy to say if he were to try and maybe get a date with you,or a number. ive heard to compliment them about something but that still seems like a creep move. ive heard to say cheesy pickup lines but i think thats immature and creepy to the girls too…so i would appreciate a little help here. im 16 if that makes any difference at all. hope you all can help because ive been searching for a good way to talk to a random girl for probably a year. by the way i can do fine talking to the girl its just the icebreaker. thanks

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I wanna start talking to girls and getting with girls more, I’m pretty sly once I know a girl likes me but how do I start to talk to them and get them to want me….. I’m a sophomore in high school fyi

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There is a totally cute girl at the gyms I go to. I have caught her smiling at me a couple of times and I know she has caught me checking her out. I am generally a confident guy but can be a little gun shy when it comes talking to girls or people I don’t know. Any tips or ideas or things I could say or do to strike up a quick conversation with this girl?!?!?!

Any advice would be appreciated!

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Whenever I am talking to girls for some reason they dont really contribute to the conversation. I try to talk about anything that is interesting. Movies, music, life, traveling, goals, dreams, themselves, school stuff, crack some jokes(these jokes arent memorized i just come up with them at the spur of the moment), etc.

I’m starting to think that I am boring. I mean almost none of the girls contribute.
What do I do to change my dilemma?

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ok so my parents dont like me surfing the net much. i can understand that.

but the thing is what the hell is wrong with me chanting or talking to girls.

and they dont get angry because i talk to girls they get angry cuz they think those girls might come out to be boys. just making fun of me.

i mean i only know saya , queen salma ,kiran , nuz and safiya and i can bet anything on that they are girls.

on the other hand what even if they are not. it is not like i flirt with girls like my cousins do.

and just to tell you he showed me and my sister that he is pretending to be a girl on orkut. and has made atleast 10 guys stupid.
i respect that cousin of mine cuz he thought me how to fight. but that thing is cheap.

and i mean why do they say they will be girls even if they will be what does it have to do with me.

and now especially my sister is pissing me off. giving that evil smile every time she passes by.

i mean why do they think i will do anything wrong. if i want to do some thing wrong i do it in front of every one. (just like my cousin) i am not afraid.

WHY THE HELL ARE THEY PISSING ME OFF. WHY ARE THEY MAKING FUN OF ME.
i am muhammad AHMAD siddiqui not
muhammad HAMMAD siddiqui or muhammad JAWAD siddiqui or muhammad IBRARr siddiqui or muhammad MOAZZAM siddiqui.

I AM MUHAMMAD "AHMAD" SIDDIQUI. I AM THE RELIGIOUS ONE. I AM NOT LIKE MY COUSINS.
@mashreql…
exactly from where do people get the idea that we cant even speak to girls? i never get that.

any ways i dont talk to anyone behind anyone. i am not afraid of anyone.

and they are only teasing me on this thing that they might be boys.

i mean what the hell what does it even mean?
@kiran , saya ,safiya ,queen salam , nuz (if they are gonna answer)

look i know you are girls. but i just got pissed of cuz they are making fun of me with no reason at all. i mean why would any of you pretend to be a boy. it is not like i flirt with you guys i talk to you just like i talk to all my friends.
@saya
hmmmm!!! lets see

1- cuz allah siad so. and cuz it cost too much. and i dont like to break some ones heart
2- because allah said so . and because i believe those who cant speak to women like they should they are not men.
3- cuz allah said so. and cuz it is cheap anda lowly thing to do. and makes your mind dirty.
@MUHAMMAD YOU
look who is talking the guy who left islam in Bangladesh. i think i know islam more than you.
and i will remind you of some thing.
"ina mal aamala binniyat"
the deeds depend upon the intention.

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The only time I ever make out with a girl at a party is basically if they come up to me and take me to some place and start making out with me .

I’m super shy and don’t like to approach girls and talk to them. But sometimes I am talking to girls and they are not the kind that will just start doing that. Is it ok just to straight up ask them if they want to make out? Girls have done that to me, but I don’t see that being ok for a guy…

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I have trouble talking to girls because I keep worrying that they will perceive me as weird and like a stalker. I’m afraid I’ll weird out a girl if I flirt unless I know them.

How can I flirt without looking like a fool?

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