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So I really like this guy. I only have one class with him, and we don’t sit next to each other (assigned seating). I’m a sophomore and he’s a junior. From a scale from 1-10, 1 being super dorky, and 10 being super popular, I’m like a 5. I’m in band too. I also get fairly good grades. I’m super shy, and he’s this varsity football (back-up quarterback), basketball and lacrosse player. He’s way more popular than me. I’m not usually into these types of guys, but this guy is the one of the best-looking and nicest guys ever, and is hilarious and smart. I don’t think I’ve ever liked a guy this much.
I also don’t like saying this, but he kinda knows my name. He said it once, and pronounced it wrong.
1)Main question: How do I get him to notice me?
if you want to:
2)what you look for in girl?
3)What do you like her to wear?
4)what’s the first thing you notice about the girl (honest)?
5)does how popular the girl is really matter?
6) for those football players out there, would you want to go out with a band person?

o.k., so we’ve only been going out like 3 and a half weeks, but I’m not some crazy, jealous girlfriend. My boyfriends a football player, and was really "popular" with like the entire female population of the school, not like he dated everyone of them and was a player (he’s only had one girlfriend before, at his old school), but like every girl thinks he’s hot, and flirts with him and everything. This bothered me when we first started dating because I thought they all should immediately back off once he had a girlfriend, but I thought once we had been going out for a couple weeks it would definetly stop. But all these random, desperate and just ANNOYING (you can tell this is irritating me) girls are always trying to talk to him, hanging all over him, giggling stupidly whenever he says something, etc. And its not his fault, he doesn’t encourage or flirt back, but he doesnt want to be rude or something. I havent told him it bothers me, because I don’t want to make myself seem like a crazy, jealous girlfriend, and i know he’s just trying to be nice.
The last straw was today, when some little sophomore and her scantily dressed friend came up to US (i was right next to him!) and asked, all giggly, if he was going to homecoming in a couple of days and if they would see him there. He just kinda put his arm around my waist and said yeah, we’re going. :) …but they just ignored the hint and kept flirting! so please, advice on how to make this stop? i wanna have an amazing homecoming without other girls coming on to my boyfriend :(

i am friends with this girl that i would like to get to know. we are both sophomore’s in high school. she goes to a different high school. we have talked in chat for a couple minutes a long time ago. what should i do. how should i follow up. please be specific.

i’m a sophomore guy in college. i skipped a lot of my econ classes, in the first few weeks of this semester because it was all review and the teacher is really slow, but i’ve just recently started going to class regularly. i’ve noticed that there’s one girl in class who is really attractive to me, including her personality, but she’s attractive to the point of being unapproachable. i don’t have any idea what i can even do to meet her. i’ve never spoken to her, and as far as i can tell i think she books it out of class every time. any advice? i’m getting really depressed about the fact that i don’t even have any girl friends at this point, like girls that i talk to, just my group of guy friends. partly because i just recently got out of a long term thing with a girl back home, but it’s still depressing. i haven’t been with a girl at all this year in college, or even last year, so i don’t even know how this sort of thing usually works in college.

o.k., so we’ve only been going out like 4 and a half weeks, but I’m not some crazy, jealous girlfriend. My boyfriends a football player, and was really "popular" with like the entire female population of the school, not like he dated everyone of them and was a player (he’s only had one girlfriend before, at his old school), but like every girl thinks he’s hot, and flirts with him and everything. This bothered me when we first started dating because I thought they all should immediately back off once he had a girlfriend, but I thought once we had been going out for a couple weeks it would definetly stop. But all these random, desperate and just ANNOYING (you can tell this is irritating me) girls are always trying to talk to him, hanging all over him, giggling stupidly whenever he says something, etc. And its not his fault, he doesn’t encourage or flirt back, but he doesnt want to be rude or something. I havent told him it bothers me, because I don’t want to make myself seem like a crazy, jealous girlfriend, and i know he’s just trying to be nice.
The last straw was today, when some little sophomore and her scantily dressed friend came up to US (i was right next to him!) and asked, all giggly, if he was going to homecoming in a couple of days and if they would see him there. He just kinda put his arm around my waist and said yeah, we’re going. :) …but they just ignored the hint and kept flirting! so please, advice on how to make this stop? i wanna have an amazing homecoming without other girls coming on to my boyfriend :(

So I really like this guy. I only have one class with him, and we don’t sit next to each other (assigned seating). I’m a sophomore and he’s a junior. From a scale from 1-10, 1 being super dorky, and 10 being super popular, I’m like a 5. I’m in band, but band isn’t considered super nerdy in my school. I also get fairly good grades. I’m super shy, and he’s this football and basketball player. He’s way more popular than me. I’m not usually into these types of guys, but this guy is the one of the best-looking and nicest guys ever, and is smart. I don’t think I’ve ever liked a guy this much.
I also don’t like saying this, but he kinda knows my name. He said it once, and pronounced it wrong.
1)Main question: How do I get him to notice me?
if you want to:
2)what you look for in girl?
3)What do you like her to wear?
4)what’s the first thing you notice about the girl (honest)?
5)does how popular the girl is really matter?
6) for those football players out there, would you want to go out with a band person?

So I really like this guy. I only have one class with him, and we don’t sit next to each other (assigned seating). I’m a sophomore and he’s a junior. From a scale from 1-10, 1 being super dorky, and 10 being super popular, I’m like a 5. I’m in band, but band isn’t considered super nerdy in my school. I also get fairly good grades. I’m super shy, and he’s this football and basketball player. He’s way more popular than me. I’m not usually into these types of guys, but this guy is the one of the best-looking and nicest guys ever, and is smart. I don’t think I’ve ever liked a guy this much.
I also don’t like saying this, but he kinda knows my name. He said it once, and pronounced it wrong.
1)Main question: How do I get him to notice me?
if you want to:
2)what you look for in girl?
3)What do you like her to wear?
4)what’s the first thing you notice about the girl (honest)?
5)does how popular the girl is really matter?
6) for those football players out there, would you want to go out with a band person?

So I really like this guy. I only have one class with him, and we don’t sit next to each other (assigned seating). I’m a sophomore and he’s a junior. From a scale from 1-10, 1 being super dorky, and 10 being super popular, I’m like a 5. I’m in band, but band isn’t considered super nerdy in my school. I also get fairly good grades. I’m super shy, and he’s this football and basketball player. He’s way more popular than me. I’m not usually into these types of guys, but this guy is the one of the best-looking and nicest guys ever, and is smart. I don’t think I’ve ever liked a guy this much.
I also don’t like saying this, but he kinda knows my name. He said it once, and pronounced it wrong.
1)Main question: How do I get him to notice me?
if you want to:
2)what you look for in girl?
3)What do you like her to wear?
4)what’s the first thing you notice about the girl (honest)?
5)does how popular the girl is really matter?
6) for those football players out there, would you want to go out with a band person?

Ok so this year has started out great. Ive met a girl in my chem class.I’m a Junior shes a sophomore. We kinda already started talking.a bit. I dont know why but i cant stop thinking about her. How do I get her to like me,How do I know she likes me. And how do I ask her out at that point. Btw. Shes amazingly pretty.

I’m a sophomore and I know this Freshman who seems pretty nice, but a lot of people hate her. She’s popular with the boys but not so much with the girls. She gets called a slut and told she likes to suck dick. These girls in my grade and a few juniors are wasting their time talking shit about her and calling her names. I told the junior who has the problem with the girl to stop talking shit about a freshman and to pick on someone her own size because it’s pathetic to devote your time on a girl two years younger than her. She called me pathetic for getting involved in her problem with the girl but I like the girl and I’m trying to defend her and she told me I was just trying to look cool. It’s so annoying because they were once Freshmen and they talk like the freshmen girls are pile of crap. They talked about the girl being slutty for dating a junior and how it was pathetic for juniors to date freshmen, but one of the girls dates a sophomore when she was a freshman so she’s being hypocritical. These girls won’t stop harassing the girl on Facebook and they won’t listen to me. What should I do?

I am friends with a beautiful girl that is a junior in high school. I am a sophomore at a different high school. We see each other at church events a lot. We have become pretty good friends. How can I get her to like me as more than friends. When is a good time to ask her out, and where should we go.

say in a library/computer center at school?

how can i approach them or get them interested in me?
as in im a sophomore in highschool

I wanna start talking to girls and getting with girls more, I’m pretty sly once I know a girl likes me but how do I start to talk to them and get them to want me….. I’m a sophomore in high school fyi

First off, I’m a sophomore. There is this girl Danielle who i really like. No joke, she is the most amazing girl i have ever met. she is smart, funny, athletic, one of the prettiest girls that i have ever seen. i think about her a lot, but not in a creepy way. okay so i don’t know how close to get before i should ask her out. i don’t want to become too close to her i don’t think because then she might think of me as just a friend. one of my friends likes her too though, but i don’t think she likes him that way because she already turned him down once. (is that wrong to like someone that your friend likes?) and i don’t know how much to talk to her. i don’t want to seem like some creep that talks to or texts her all the time. and another thing is the "touch barrier" what kind of touching is kinda flirty but not awkward for the girl to show that i care about her? o, and what kind of compliments and how often is it good to compliment a girl? and at what point is it not weird to hang out just one on one because whenever i hang out with her it is with a group unless if it is walking with her to class alone or after school to her car. any help on this is great. i need as much advice as i can get because sadly, i have never had a girlfriend, but neither have any of my friends really. (no i am not a geek, i am athletic, smart, and decent looking.)
o and for the record, i know her already and talk to her at school every day basically.
o update!!!!:
she told my friend who also liked her that she doesn’t like him that way.

There is a girl in my grade (taylor) and she is considered one of the prettiest girls in my grade (im a sophomore). Concerning me, I am extremely quiet around girls and I get extremely nervous. Girls try to talk to me all the time and girls text me telling me im hot or sexy but i never know what to say. I asked a girl today what she would rate me on the 1-10 scale (she said 10) and she ranked me top 5 best looking guys in the grade. Im not bragging im just telling you what im working with. My problem is that i have never even spoken to her and she does not know I exist. What the hell do I do?

I am also extremely funny if that helps me at all.

I am not bragging. I have no reason to brag to random people on the internet i just want truthful advice.

I really like this guy, ive liked him since about the 6th grade….he is a senior….im a sophomore. He recently found out that i like him, But i think he likes the low key behind the scenes type flirts, And not the OVERLY flirty girls, what are little things i can do to shyley flirt with him and make him notice me in a big way?

Im a sophomore in high school and i want to know how to get this girl to like me. I liked her at the beginning of last year but i never did anything about it and I’m pretty sure she knew i liked her and it lasted for about 4 weeks, hopefully i didnt ruin my chances already. So this year i sort of l like her and i can actually talk to her more. Were good friends but not great friends. I want to know if i should tell her i like her or just forget about it. If you have any ideas theyd really help!

I’m a sophomore in high school. A few days ago I met a cute freshman. I think she can tell I’m interested in her, but I can’ t tell if she’s interested in me. Is there anything I can do to kind of get her interested in me? I’m not talking about like changing, but subtle things I can do that will make her crave my attention. thanks!

I’m 15 and a sophomore and I like this girl that sits next to me in a class. We talk and mess with each other but I haven’t even gotten her number yet. I need some help getting her to like me and I need help telling her I like her. Please help!!!

  
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