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well me and my friends and him were hang out drinks and having fun. The topic of sex came up and one of my Friends ask my bf if he was guy and when is he going to come out of the closet. we a laughed at first but he did not find it funny .

Here is a little back ground , he told me he had social anxiety for most of high school and I was never real good at picking up women until college. He just work on it and push him self to talk to people. he did this with out meds so it must of been hard.

he did have a gf until he was 20 years old they did not have sex or any think put they fooled around but did not have sex they did not date long.he ask a few girls out but nothing clicked He lost his virginity at 24 to a girl he was Friends with. then he had sex with one other girl.

so people though he was gay and because he could get a girl for the longest time.

so he got up and he told me and my Friends that we are stupid and he does not heed this right now. he just got up and left . he went for a walk cuz i drove and i found him and we talk but he told me that is I can not accept me for me then i do not know what to tell you. he did not talk to me for the rest of the night.

he does not like to talk about him feelings much so it just got to him i think.

how do I mike it up to him? I do not want to lose him.

I am 33 and single, and am still generally too shy to approach women in most situations, unless they are introduced to me. I have only had a few girlfriends over the course of my life and I am tired of being single. Would self-hypnosis be an effective way of reducing my social anxiety? My buddies all tell me to just "suck it up and go talk to such and such girl" but my buddies are all naturally outgoing and I don’t think they understand or appreciate how hard it is for me to do.

I seem to have problem connecting with women in clubs/bars. I have a lot of social anxiety as it is, and some confidence issues. I just freeze up when talking to women, especially attractive women. I think it stems from fear of rejection, and just being to self consious. I am a very good looking guy, a little short at 5’9 but i have abs, green eyes, nice smile, a tan. Girls usually think im attractive off looks, but I just seem to have problems being myself. I feel just completely different, nervous, anxious when I go out on the weekends. I go to a college in san francisco, and there are no house parties so I have to go out with my fake to party. I just always feel too young and have trouble talking to people I meet, especially women. I have had a few girlfriends, all of them attractive but i would say in the last year i havent had many successes with women and its messing with my head. I hang with older guys but I feel left out in convo and attnt wise when we approach girls

  
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