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What is the one thing about the opposite sex that gets you all tingly inside. Mine would be the way a guy looks at me – his eyes and his smile!
Lulu, I think you are really weird – don’t bother answering if you are going to be a freak.

I seem to have problem connecting with women in clubs/bars. I have a lot of social anxiety as it is, and some confidence issues. I just freeze up when talking to women, especially attractive women. I think it stems from fear of rejection, and just being to self consious. I am a very good looking guy, a little short at 5’9 but i have abs, green eyes, nice smile, a tan. Girls usually think im attractive off looks, but I just seem to have problems being myself. I feel just completely different, nervous, anxious when I go out on the weekends. I go to a college in san francisco, and there are no house parties so I have to go out with my fake to party. I just always feel too young and have trouble talking to people I meet, especially women. I have had a few girlfriends, all of them attractive but i would say in the last year i havent had many successes with women and its messing with my head. I hang with older guys but I feel left out in convo and attnt wise when we approach girls

I work in a very large office building and I really want to meet this very attractive woman. Every time we walk past eachother, we look at eachother and smile. We have not said anythting to eachother besides hi. This has happened many times. How would I go about introducing myself to her without be too forward? I really want to meet her.

Okay. I’m just wondeing from guys what’s the moat irresistable form of flirting for you: brush up against you "accidentally", bite the top lip, a quick glance and a smile????? What to you is irresistable???

I like this girl i have gone out with her in the past, but i moved on from that and i now realize that the old crush, butterflies in the stomach, and all the other feelings are there for her. I would like to give it a go and try and get her to feel the same way for me, but not sure how to do this. Should I be completely forward and flirt it up with her like telling her she beautiful and giving her little gifts and notes. Or should I make it not so noticeable and just lay low and say hey and smile to her? If you have any other suggestions other then these kind of things let me know anything will be appreciated. :)

For example I picked up a pizza tonight and noticed one of the clerks had a nice smile. After wards I decided I’d like to ask her out but I had already left. Whats a good way to (re)approach a woman in a situation like that without coming off as a crazy stalker? (women’s answer particularly appreciated) I’m a good date so I just need to get to that point. Thanks :)

I really like her, but I’ve only known her since the beginning of the month. I don’t even know if she likes me. I think we’re friends, but does it mean anything if she always says hi to me in the hallways and gives me a big smile? She laughs at my jokes, too. I have long hair, is that a turn-off? Keep in mind we’re teenagers, not adults who are going to go out on a major date and have sex.

I like this girl a lot and im pretty sure she likes me and i try to talk to her she just plays with her hair and kinda gives me one worded answers and every time I look at her she gives me a smile and I always smile back and im real nervous so I go scared just trying to talk to her

Heres the problem I got a number from a 22yrs women, she had to ask this older women for permission which I’m guessing she lives with her grandmother. Here are the issues.

1. I called twice the next day at 3:45pm then 5:45pm.

2. I cant leave a message, instead a automatic voice messanger comes on saying "Sorry voice message is unavilble, please call back later thankyou"

3. She is 22 so I figure since during the day "propably at work" she didn’t pick up maybe I should call around 8:45pm or 9pm is that alright?

4. Sorry if I may sound ignorant, but this women is Mexican American and I’m African American. I serious wonder if her Mother or Grandmother is not telling her that I’m calling. NOTE: The older women she was with seemed kind of mean, The reason why I say that is because I said by and have a nice day to both women and the older one just stared at me without a reply back or smile….propably she felt as if I was only "acting" like I was a gentlemen and judge me by my look "braids, gucci reading glasses, timberland boots and erring on the side ETC"….I had a cotton botton to the top polo shirt, the pants where justa little bit baggy not too baggy but I came up to her with nothing but respect and even told the older women sorry if I caused any interruption.

What do you think and When should I call this beautiful young women I met?

ive like this girl for about a year. She is now single and ive been there in her worst moments to brighten her day and make her smile. We used to have feelings for each other a while back. She has told her friend im too far in the "friend stage". How do i get out?

  
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