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Eh I’ve basically never had a gf in my years of living. I’m going to be going to university nxt year and still haven’t had a gf in my life. I just don’t know why. At first, I thought it’s cause of the zits. I had loads in my middle school yrs and early high school yrs, took ‘em off. I’m clean now. Don’t have ‘em anymore. Next I thought I was too scrawny, started working out more and way bigger than I was in my early high school yrs. Still nothing…then I thought it was my short hair and my wide forehead so I grew out my hair and have it curly (i’m going to a salon or a barber for them to make it wavy. i know it sounds weird since i’m a guy but curly sucks)
but nothing works! i get some girls attention from other states or so. i’ve developed pretty much a horrendous reputation as the class weirdo from when i was younger. i’m not like that anymore. i changed. but you can’t get people’s views about you to change. i’m certainly not ugly. i’m a good looking guy (mind me i don’t want to have a huge ego).
is it because im shy? i never am comfortable in talking to girls at my school, EVER. i just don’t know why. i try and try and just completely forget what i say or just smile and don’t say nothing and i don’t know how to keep my discussions going on in tlking to them. i really need help on girls. i’m really clueless.
i guess its the shyness that turns them off eh?
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I am a 37 year old man who has never had a girlfriend in his life due to shyness and insecurity. I was made fun of as a child/early teen and I was put down a lot when I was in my mid teens to early twenties. I do not go out much and when I am invited out, I never go because I feel like I am not worthy of anyone’s company. Recently my attitude has started to change since I talk to more and more people. Some days my confidence level is medium to above average compared to being at a low in previous times. I never really asked out a woman in my life because I am afraid of rejection. If I do start to come out of my shell for good, how hard will it be for me to pick up women? I am average to above average looking (so people say). Keep in mind I am also a virgin with a high sex drive and am willing to have sex and do anything a woman commands in that category. My personality is said to be that I have dry humor, I am laid back but can have a hot temper when provoked after awhile. When I go play the field, how hard will it be for me to pick up women with all these traits?
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I am a 37 year old man who has never had a girlfriend in his life due to shyness and insecurity. I was made fun of as a child/early teen and I was put down a lot when I was in my mid teens to early twenties. I do not go out much and when I am invited out, I never go because I feel like I am not worthy of anyone’s company. Recently my attitude has started to change since I talk to more and more people. Some days my confidence level is medium to above average compared to being at a low in previous times. I never really asked out a woman in my life because I am afraid of rejection. If I do start to come out of my shell for good, how hard will it be for me to pick up women? I am average to above average looking (so people say). Keep in mind I am also a virgin with a high sex drive and am willing to have sex and do anything a woman commands in that category. My personality is said to be that I have dry humor, I am laid back but can have a hot temper when provoked after awhile. When I go play the field, how hard will it be for me to pick up women with all these traits?
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Hey guys how are?
I am actually very flattered to see that many girls on that site are REALLY committed to trying to help all kind of guys to get over their shyness and start meeting the women of their dreams it is really sweet now it is my turn to get some advice!
I met more than one women in bookstores or shopping centers and most of the women are really nice and polite some interested some not, no problems. However, I have a hard time approaching in the bus because there are many people around and on the street because I hate creeping out girls, I am not a creep, I am not a stalker so I want to know what approach scares you and what approach doesn’t scare you, I am not interested in what to say as it is different from girl to girl as long as it is not a pickup line but I am interested in knowing how to make her feel comfortable when I approach in those scenerios thanks?
Guys thanks for answer, it was great! However I am interested in the positive aspects of approaching not negative, I don’t ever go on the bus or in the street and use sexual comments or shower a woman with a compliments. Also I am talking about approaching a woman on the street in the day time when there are lots of people around (City and shopping streets)! Thanks. One more thing I am interested in the answer of girls who are Comfortable talking to strangers, not the answers of the ones who get freaked out by it.
Sorry for what I wrote in the additional details, just ignore it and say whatever you wanna say! Again I am sorry for writing it.
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I just got over all awkardness/shyness with them. I don’t care if I get a no anymore if I ask one for a date because I feel that even if a bunch say no one is bound to say yes and then I win.
So how do I do this most effectively?
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It’s not like I’m ugly or a dork i just don’t have many opportunities to meet women. I’m middle aged, work alot and don’t know how to approach a women for instance at the grocery store. The main reason i’m shy towards women is fear of rejection of coarse. i’ve scanned online dating services but am not to hip to putting my picture up for the whole world to view . IE the shyness
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I just started high school and im a freshman.. theres this guy and after school we both happened to be in the same pizzeria. aparently he was whispering to his friend and said i "had beautiful eyes" which is weird because my eyes are a boring brown… so i was about a bloc away from said pizzeria and his friend comes up to me and tells me this and says "will u please talk to my friend? hes so shy.." so im thinking, well alright, whatever… little did I know it was the guy I thought was cute earlier that day.. he is shy, we introduced ourselves to eachother and his friends were cheering him on.. we were also a little awkward, but it was sweet.. now its been a weeek.. we have no classes except lunch together… i want to get to know him but im so intimidated.. he is so cute, and the shyness is a major plus.. hes also athletic on the football team.. i dnt want another girl to catch his attention but hes a guy and we only talked that one time. HOW CAN I APPROCH HIM AT LUNCH? I GET SO NERVOUS… I DONT WANT TO COME OFF WEIRD AND DESPERATE.. PLEASE HELP..!!
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