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I’m 18. I admit that there’s a girl that I like who won’t give me a chance. I’m respecting her wishes and I’m not bringing this up to her, but I still can’t get it out of my mind. I mean we connect so well and she told me I was cute. I don’t know if I’m ever going to try to pursue this relationship again. But I’m just curious if it is actually possible to get any girl to like you. Is it? Did you ever find somebody you didn’t like at first who somehow won your heart?

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i know i have to leave my relationship…. he is a cheater and liar and has abused me in the past…. but when i leave i miss that love (even if its just sex) and i want to go back…? and i think all guys are like that anyway? i am so destroyed inside and i dont know what to do i always get told im attractive and have my whole life ahead of me but i am not ok!!!! how do people get out of this??? how do girls let go????

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While I would much rather meet someone with whom to begin an actual relationship, the fact that, despite my best attempts, I have been unable to attract the romantic interests of a girl in over three years has convinced me that it is illogical for people like myself to hope for such a thing.

Based on this observation, I have recently begun attempting to meet women in bars/clubs but have had no better luck there.

Other guys seem to be able to easily approach women in these establishments, introduce himself, and the girl immediately lights up and begins socializing with him.

On the other hand, when I walk up to girls in these establishments, say ‘hi’ and ask them how their doing, they usually appear to be either annoyed that I dared to talk to them or just uninterested.

I was wondering if any of you might have any advice on how to approach and talk to women in bars.

The more specifics you could provide, the better.
I’d appreciate it if only individuals offering legitimate answers responded to this inquiry. I posted it earlier and only received answers from sarcastic individuals.

Also, if any information about me would help in this assessment, I’m 23 years old (24 in a month), Caucasian, 6’3, average build, clean shaven, well groomed, and suffer several physical defects including a genetic hearing impairment which requires that I wear hearing aids.

I always try to dress well when going to one of these clubs and, while my emotions don’t automatically show on my face, I always put on a pleasant deposition.
The only response thus far is nothing more then an advertisement for a commercial dating web site that is little more then a scam.

I’m not going to select it as a ‘best answer and would appreciate it if anyone who rates this post select ‘no best answer’ if no-one else posts.

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There’s a girl that I’ve liked for 2 years so far and this year end will probably be 3rd. She’s Canadian and I’m brown guy. She’s around 6 feet or a 6.2 and I’m like 5.5. So far all I know is she wants her partner to be a taller guy. How can I get her to be interested in my throughout the year so that I can finally tell her that I like her at the end of the year and it works out and we become together? I’m not that good looking either and she’s pretty. Please give me advice, don’t say things like be confident and general things like that. Please be specific, how can I get her to like me and interested in me ?
I’m not even good looking. I’ve got acne scars all over my face. What do I do? There are so many disadvantages against me…
I don’t want her to know I like her in the way I do, I will tell her that myself end of the year. So I don’t want to take any actions or use words that might give it away but please advise me on what I can do to get her attention and also like me, I can’t just go up to her everyday and say hi or how are u doing becuase that’d make her think I’m weird becuase I haven’t done that before.
Please understand, I really do like her very much and I’m not one of those guys that just can get another girl after one is over with in a relationship, I don’t really pay attention much towards girls but this girl for some reason just means a lot to me and catches my attention adn I really realy want her.

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I am married and want to meet when who just want a one night relationship with no strings attached..

Like at the mall or store, How can I pick one up?

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I just started dating this guy casually and I’m really digging him. A friend of mine got back together with her boyfriend of 3 months recently. We both wanted to go on double dates with our dudes, but I was wondering when would be a good time. I was thinking about 3 months into my relationship and that I should talk to him about it first. Thanks for any answers I get!

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Is it for a long relationship, friends, flings,etc? And how can u be successful with it step by step?

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i have a problem, i like this girl, she likes me, but she broke up with her ex like a month or a month and 2 weeks ago. i really liked her, but i want to jump in a relationship her but i know i cant. how can or how do i be friends with her? my plans is to be her friend 1st. how can i do that.

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My daughters mom died in a car accident when she was a baby. Now every girl i start dating ends up breaking up with me because they seem to think i want them to be "mommy" to my daughter? My daughter knows what happened to her mom, and partially understands it. I’m not looking for anyone to replace my daughters mother, more or less to be a friend to her, while we see where our relationship is going? Am i wrong for this?

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A while ago I joined a sports club and met a bunch of girls through that. In July one of the girls had a party and invited the entire team. I was pretty depressed that day, so I was just sitting around by myself. Then another girl, "Marge", came and sat beside me. She asked me what the matter was and I told her my boyfriend had broken up with me that day, on our anniversary. She said she was sorry and asked if she could tell me a secret. I told her of course she could, so then she mentioned that she had been in a relationship with another girl from the team but no one knew. Since then I’ve been fascinated by "Marge".

Up until very recently I thought it was just a little girl-crush. But I’ve started to realize that I really her. However, a few problems; she thinks (I’m guessing) that I’m completely straight. Another "problem" is that she’s a few years older than me. Couple weeks ago we were sitting down talking and I asked her "what’s up?" ; she answered with "listen, I’m 25 years old and you’re 18.. " (dialogue was a little different as there’s a bit of a language problem as well- she speaks French and I speak English; we both understand both languages though so it isn’t really a problem, just a bit strange I guess)

Also lately we haven’t really been talking very much, today she even said I was a total introvert. It’s just because I’m so in awe of Marge so I don’t always feel at ease to be completely myself. I’ve heard a bunch of girls bitch about her but then they still hang out with her more than I do, I get so jealous but know it isn’t right to tell her..

Haha okay I think I’ve gotten my point across. Question is; how do I let her know I’m interested (without being too direct) ?
How do I find out if she might be a little attracted or something?
etc etc, how do you think I should generally deal with the situation?

Alright any help would be appreciated.. thanks

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I’m just curious. Males out there: If you normally "do it" in relationships, what if a girl came along you were really enamored with and had great chemistry with this person, but she had made the decision to not have sex, whether for religious reasons, or she just wants to make sure she has found "the one?" I know that is kind of a long question, but would you still want to be in a relationship without sex? Or, if you were dating someone casually, then suddenly found out you weren’t going to get any tail, would you drop the girl like a hot potato? I’d appreciate your thoughts.
Blix, I love your answer.:)
Blix, I love your answer.:)

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I strictly want to have sex…I know(…..). I don’t want to be in a relationship because it’s work. I don’t deal well with work. I have all the traits necessary to attract women. However, I can’t seem to get the panties off (which is my goal). I am very good looking. Insanely Intelligent. I am a sweet guy. I just don’t want to deal with depending on someone or someone depending on me. Frankly, I am unreliable in a very real sense.

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I am a guy who has never had a girlfriend, never been to a dance with a girl, never dated, never kissed, nothing. I have been focusing more on career, but I want to be in a relationship. I at least want to date a girl. Whenever I see girls I try to make eye contact with them, stand up straight and look confident but it never works! I don’t think i’m hot or anything, in fact I think I may be a bit ugly. Now I want to try flirting, any advice?

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Known her for a couple months. She’s in a shaky relationship. I’ve given my 3rd person perspective on it. I know the "friend" category is damn hard to get out of (I’ve tried before) but… suggestions?

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All the women I talk to just want sex from me. I’m 29 years old good looking and successful. I’m a player. I usually have 5 girls I see and talk to at a time. I want to change! I have woman that send me nude picture messages on my cell phone. All they want is sex from me! How can I attract women that want a real relationship? Not just late night booty calls.

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Why would you be scared to have a relationship with her?

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I know this girl I really like, and I know she’s sexually attracted to me and wants to have sex. She touches me, says sexual things, and basically has flat out told me she’s interested in sex. Now, not to say that I wouldn’t have sex with her – because I most certainly would, but I would really want to date her and start a relationship instead. What should I do? Should I have sex with her? Should I not? Is there anything I can do to get her more interested in a relationship than just sex?

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Is the fact that society frowns upon a relationship between an older man and a younger woman rooted in women’s rivalry over picking alpha-males? Men seem to have no problem with the concept.

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i love this girl very much..but somesay she just broke up with her boyfriend..so im willing to take this opportunity to flirt her..but she told me she wish to be single because dating has cause her so much pain..she just want to have a single relationship..but i really really like this girl..i hope if anyone could give me some advises of tips how to get this girl to me..

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The girl i wish and want to be really talking to and dating came out of a relationship late last year like in september or october and she is not ready to start dating again becuase she is not over this guy 100%. i have been talking to her pretty much everyday since like early december. i have asked her out numerous amounts of times and personally think i should give up. the second she is ready to start dating againt i want to be the guy she thinks of first. she knows im interested and i think i should back off or should i stay strong and keep doing what ive been doing? any advice would be greatly appreciated!
what about whens shes ready to date and i am in the friend zone? is there anyway to get out of the friend zone?

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Has anyone read Double your Dating? Its a relationship E-Book by David D’angelo a supposed dating expert. any takers? I am trying to decide if it is worth the money.

Thanks!

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