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I tend to have a lot of trouble approaching women when I am at clubs or bars during the weekends. How should you approach a woman at a bar or club? I always make some excuse in my head and then go with it. F.ex.:"Nah, she is not that good looking anyway" (even though she is)

Have you ever felt depressed cuz you thought you blew it with your dream guy/girl?

Have you ever just been really sad about losing your crush because you messed up some how? I cant stop beating myself up over it, i know people say "oh you learned from it" but i cant stop getting mad at myself ….

Poll: how can I use my middle name in a cheesy pick-up line to meet women?

My middle name is "Eaton"….should be easy…

Movie Suggestions Please – Girl gets captured / Guy saves girl?

Looking for movies kind of like Hitman, where a girl is taken hostage and later falls in love with her captor.

Or just a classic "Guy saves girl" movie (those are always cute)

Please don’t suggest any "superhero" movie, my fiance made me sit thru ALL of those already.. but the only "hostage/love story" type movie I’ve seen was Hitman (and I really loved that movie, I just wish the acting was better) so if anyone knows of anymore like that, I’d really appreciate it!

Thank you!

What's up with all the "ugly guy gets beautiful girl" movies?

My take on it is that it gives hope to all the average joe’s or something. But while I don’t mind when fat or ugly guy’s meet or date beautiful women in movies (Hitch for example), I get really grossed out if they show them kissing. In real life, I find it kind of disgusting when big, greasy guys actually have sex with beautiful women. While I know you all are going to judge me with the "it’s not all about looks department", I just find it hypocritical when these men date these women in the first place only because they’re beautiful. And it’s not common to find movies about "ugly girls getting handsome guys." Why do you think people like these movies so much?
Crying Tear of Geek Joy – I assume you’re not one of those intelligent, witty women.
Box of Truth(?) – Ooo, seems I’ve struck a nerve. Perhaps you’re one of those Average Joes that I was talking about? But anyway, I don’t care about your opinions and
I’m not going to argue about what I think of your rant. I’m just going to ask you if you can find 5 celebrity couples that feature a fit, handsome man in a stable relationship with a fat, ugly woman. Having trouble? Well, then my point is proved.

Does my Aries moon & rising tend to attract women (i am female)?

i notice i do not do anything and yet they flock to me or think im a lesbian (close, i am bi but i like men more now). i dont know what makes them think im interested. i notice whenever i meet a new girl-friend (dash intended) they tend to act cute towards me and cuddle as if im a guy!, i have no idea how to react.. 2 girls have already confessed to me this year. I mean, do i exuberate some sort of masculine vibe that makes women believe im a man or even interested in them? Ugh. Is it my natural assertiveness?The avatar is me, i mean do i look like a transsexual? Its not my fault that most guys nowadays are metrosexual puss*ies.
yes read my profile description. my contact and i were playing a game.
" like i am the guy and they are the weak girls who need to be protected!" exactly. most of my girl-friends in high school tend to act that way around me. lol xD we have the same life, same birthday mai!
Capricorn: lol. sure
NavyBlue: haha XD i like video games… doesn’t make me a guy!! lol yeah many say i look like a Spanish-Asian… which my grandma is… strong blood she has

Why do men approach woman in the dumbest ways?

Like guys who say "hey sexy, hey ma, or hey beautiful." How is a girl supposed to respond or react to that. And I don’t know if guys using lame pick up lines are being serious or just having a laugh.

Why can't I meet Women!!?

This is really getting me down. I can’t ever seem to find any girls that will even give me a chance. I have dated people, but it is almost impossible for me to meet women! I have some really good qualities. I play a couple of instruments, I can cook, I am thoughtfull and described by girls as a "really sweet guy". Physically I don’t know how I rate myself on looks. People say I am a good looking guy, but I am not sure if I am or not. Still I can’t meet anyone or get someone to show intrest. It is very fustrating when I can see everyone else pick up women yet I can’t.

I need help on how to approach women?

Im a little rusty
This is what I got "U cute…whats your name…U should give me your number so we can get to know each other" (In a cool dont care voice)
So what do you think any suggestions

Why can't I get a girlfriend or even a female friend? I go to bars, but I'm deathly afraid to approach women.

I’m 27 years old and I’ve never had a girlfriend. In fact, the most contact I’ve ever had with women was with prostitutes. I don’t want to spend the rest of my life this way.

In a nutshell, this is my life and how I got trapped in this rut: I grew up in an abusive household(Not toward me, but mother and father always fighting), then I would go to high school and get picked on by everyone(girls and boys). I had an acne problem so dating me was the big "in-joke" amongst the girls.

Following high school, I lost my father to cancer and my mother, suffering from numerous disabilities(physical and mental), I was thrust straight into the workforce at 18, where I’ve been since. I tried putting myself through college but bills and my hectic work schedule forced me to withdraw.

So here I am now, nearly 10 years later, still working in an all male environment, I’ve never had a girlfriend, I don’t have any female friends, none of my male friends ever come through with introducing me to anyone.

Guy/girl duets?

I just posted, like a day ago, about solos and group songs for a competition.
and I got amazing feedback (I now have to choose between like, 8 songs for a solo to do….lol)
But I was wondering, are there any great guy/girl duets out there that I could do at this thing?
Thanks for all your guys’ help so far!
thanks for suck quick feedback
but I am looking for something with a little more broadway style….
like grease(I love the suggestion of "You’re the One that I Want"…that song is amazing)

Where could I get pictures of how girls in Harajuku do their makeup?

I want to start doing my makeup like the Harajuku girl in Gwen Stefani’s "What You Waitin For" music video, with the starish thing around the eye and everything. Where or how could I get pictures of Harajuku type makeup?
Yeah — I googled it and there weren’t very many answers.

And I definitely can’t afford Japan! :p

how do i get girls numbers? got a plan, will it work?

Im planning on going number hunting at the mall tomorrow. So far my plan of action is to ask them a question, get their opinion (what haircut should i get, where to get some nice jeans, etc), and hopefully close by saying something like "anyways i thought you looked pretty cute, can i have your number"?
Ladies, would this work? what can/should i change up to make my shpiel more sucessful?
well i’d be descrite about it, i wouldnt ask one girl and immediately walk 20 feet and ask another, i’d probably wait 10-15 minutes between numbers and change up locations. And ya, i’ll keep complimenting in mind.
why not daughter of the king?

Could women tell me if what my girlfriend told me about how to approach women is true?

First, let me clarify that my girlfriend is a friend that is a girl. She is a hot chilean model that has win several beauty pageants. I was kind of sad and decided to ask her, how to approach women. She told me that the secret is not to show interest. But by not showing interest, it does not mean being a snob. It means not showing her interest in a physical or provocative manner. I should show her interest in friendly manner and I should not talk that much. For example, if I see a beautiful girl working in a store or maybe being a host in a restaurant, a perfect way of winning her heart is the following. Just go towards her, calmly give her a chocolate and tell her "You look tired, I hope this can brighten your day!." She will be thrilled with the gesture, even if she responds to you or not. If she does not respond, walk away. If she does, STAY QUIET! and let her do the talking. The secret at this point, is not talking that much and let her do the talking. If you get her phone, call her after a couple of days, but do not let a whole week pass. In conclusion, just advance to a woman and give her a nice compliment that reflects friendliness. Do not mention her clothes, or how her smiles makes you happy, or how classy she is, or how seeing her has brighten your day. Anything that has to do with her body, clothes or gesture ignites her defensive mechanism. After reading this, could anyone answer the following questions"
1) Is this true,?
2) Could the previous example actually win the attention or heart of a woman?
3) Would you please give more examples to win the attention of woman in the following scenarios: a) working in mall
b)party or club
c) gym
d) university
4) Could you please give me your personal input and advice?
Thanks!
Please, give me input without using CHOCOLATE. I do not carry a candy bar wherever I go! LOL!
I suggested that maybe I could give a girl that I have seen that is working all day a bottle of water and tell her " You look tired, I hope this helps you cheer up a little bit!"

how to get the balls to talk to the girls that i like?

i guess is just CAN NOT talk to girls that i like, i always avoid them as much as possible and sometimes try to catch their eyes but thats all i can do, im unconfident about conversations with attractive girls even when they like me and i know it. but talking to unattractive girls is no problem… sort of…

im just trying to get rid of this "phobia" type thing i have. im not really asking for a pep talk, just looking for ideas or excercises or whatever worked for someone who had this problem once also.

Question mainly for women but some guys should look in?

It’s about this whole "metro-sexual" fad.
I hear lots of women around me talk about how they are sick of the men who think women like a guy who acts too feminine, aka metrosexuals. And no matter how many women I hear say this same thing, there still seems to be a lot of guys who aren’t getting the hint.

I’m sure there are some of these guys who are this way because that’s honestly just how they are. But it’s obvious that many only do it to try and pick up women.

Can we PLEASE get the record straight?

why do men have to be so perfect to attract women for sex?

this is what a female GS poster suggested when asked how can a man make himselvf attractive to women for a casual affairs and sex

"Well, you want to be well-groomed, smell good, be dripping with confidence, and develop that lovely art of being charming. It helps if you are good looking…
Basically, don’t let them get to know you, but focus on charming them and turning them on with how good you look and smell and sound. And never show fear or nervousness. Always be in command of yourself and the situation. Take any rejection with a laugh and a smile. Also, being able to make a woman laugh will help you there…"
My ANswers Suck
fcuk you. even regular looking women have no problems getting guys for just sex. and confidence and personality prolly doesnt even matter for women. they can get sex so easily.. go fcuking figure

Is the Chevrolet Cruze a guy or girl car, or both?

I’m a 16 year old guy, and my mom wants to get me a Chevrolet Cruze because it is safe and gets good gas mileage. Is it considered a "girly" car? If so, do you have any other suggestions that are safe and get good gas mileage? Thanks!
It’s because I went on foreign study for a year and had to go back a grade because I missed a year of school, jerk. The Cruze was a suggestion and I’m just curious.

What should you do if you boyfriend / girlfriend sees a picture of you with another guy / girl?

What is the best way for someone to go about this? When there is a picture of you leaning back on someone so that you can get a picture taken…..but it was on your friends birthday at a club, and the person you were with ment nothing to you. (plus you have not even talked to them since that night).
Ok, but it was found on the computer in my pictures, and my boyfriend flipped out on me. But I already told him I had it there so I could get a copy of my face from it to put on my "My Space" page. Now he doesn’t seem to trust me at all. What should I do now???

GIRLS!! how do i get girls to actually want to go out with me?? Help PLEEASE!!?

im 14 going on 15, and im in 9th grade and im overweight, but i have a great sence of humor and i shower twice a day, and i think i dress good (polo shirts and nice jeans?) i have asked girls out but i get a constant "NO!" i get good grades, i dont wear jewlery, all i wear is a nice seiko watch, whats up? it seems like im the only guy without someone to love, i dont play sports, although im thinking about football, or baseball, i have a ton of hobbies including hunting and fishing to model rocket competitions and building every kind of air or hairspray cannon (spud gun) imaginable, do i just have to loose weight? HELPP!

Hey is this a good way to develop confidence with women?

Make a book of all the good things that the women who were interested in you said or did

Choose a woman you like (out of all the interested women) and write a fantasy short story

and read a "How to attract women" book and do one step at a time (don’t do all at once)

Work out; groom yourself

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