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Im kind of having a hard time building confidence to talk to a girl. I mean Ive gotten alot of comments on saying that "Im cute" lol and things like that but I cant seem to get enough confidence to go up and talk to a girl. Its more of a problem I dont really know how to approach them and what to say. Any help?

How to get a girl to open up and talk?

Alright so I have liked this girl for a while but never got the opportunity to really talk to her until lately… Lately she has been on Facebook and I have talked to her for the past couple of days and she has stayed online for hours talking to me so I think she is sort of interested although when I ask her questions her answers are only one words and I feel like the convo is one sided some of the time.. At school I am in no classes with her which sucks, and when I want to approach her she is always with a group of friends that are girls and I don’t know how I could. So if anyone can help me with this dilemma it would be greatly appreciated. Also my other question is what do I talk to her on Facebook chat to get her more interested in the convo and have her talk more..
So basically my questions are:

How do I approach her at school when she is around all her friends?
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How do I say something on Facebook chat so that she will respond with more then a. "yes" "no"…etc.
@BadAl…I don’t have my license and I won’t get one for at least 3 months…how would I go on a date with her when I can’t drive..I am not gonna have my parents drive me…

How to hint (in fiction story) that the girl was abused?

This girl stumbles upon another girl and sees that she has been physically abused. How would I imply this with certain signs?
How’s this? "I saw the bruises on legs and the burns on her arms. And I understood." Sorry for my ignorance I just want to turn in a good story!

Just started dating Army guy, friends are warning me he’s going to be an Alpha male… is this always true?

We have been dating for just over a month now. He’s been talking about me moving onto post with him. My friends are warning me that all army(armed forces) men are "Alpha" males and I better be prepared to listen and do as asked. I’ve never been in that kind of a relationship. I mean, I respect my boyfriend and I think I would do most things he asked of me, but is it true that things that turn bad? I’ve just heard bad things. Any advice from other girls who have dated army men or are married to army men!? thanks!

How do I get as thin as the girl in ‘Gives You Hell’?

How do I get as thin as the rocker girl in Gives you hell? Serious answers, please. Please answer!!! I am 5’1" and 108 pounds. my thighs look to big for me and I have a little stomach fat and my arms are a little flabby too. Please help!

Why Are Guys Who Approach Women Disrepectfully Convinced That Their Approach Will Work? Or Does It Sometimes?

What are examples of a "disrespectful" approach compared to a "respectful one"?

Do you think these guys are often times successful in picking up women, that they don’t have incentive enough to want to change?

Could some women actually prefer this approach & think its cool & consider a more gentemenly approach "corny"or "lame".

In need of advise. How to approach women?

I need advice on how to approach a woman. I am confident, but when it comes to women, the confidence disappears. I’m well off, I mean I’m 6’5", in decent shape. I’m a nurse, I’m currently in medical school and I have a business. I think maybe I have focused on my success too much. The problem is that when I go out with my buddies I get looks from women, but I can never get the courage to go and talk to them. I really need help, I’m not getting any younger. Any advise would be greatly appreciated, thanks in advance.

How to approach an older woman, or “cougar”?

For a while now I’ve found mature women in their late 30′s and 40′s to be really hot. I just turned 21 and feel my chances of interacting with one are way more likely now that I can go to bars and clubs.

But how do I go about getting one interested in me? What things do I have to do and say differently? Are there any of these "cougars" out there that could lend some advice?

Men how do you react to a girl you don’t like?

So I’ve been asking about this guy before..

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmCX3uyxou8qgVEma2gOMlzsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090830140822AAnmTsa

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So I finally said hi on facebook chat, and he did not respond and went offline. The next day, it was ackward because I saw him in person, we were like a few feet away and I saw him stairing at me, then we got an eye lock, and then I broke it by looking away. The guy I was with, who is just my FRIEND started stairing at him, the guy I like looked away..

So an hour after that happened, he came on facebook chat and was like "yo i know you feelin’ me, so here’s my number #, give me a call.." I didn’t respond to him because I was in lab. then he went offline. Then half an hour later I was still in lab and he came online facebook chat and was like "yo you got dat?" and I was like yeah I’m in lab.. then he went offline.

Later on in the night, same day I texted him and I was like hi, how are you? and he was like what are you doing? and I told him that i was watching a movie with my friends. and he was like i’m poppin in a movie now, come watch it with me. and i said i couldn’t because i was with my friends.

then he was like what are you doing toamrrow? and i said i was volunteering, studying for music, and going to a play. and i was like don’t you have to play tomarrow? because he’s n the football team. and he was like fuck it fam. so i was like what movie are you watching? and he didn’t answer.

then saturday, i texted him hi again and he didn’ respond until like 11pm and was like come to my room. and i told him that i was studying for my music class, and that it was late, and he said what? late? waht late? and i told him that by the time i’m finished studying with my friends that it would be like 1 am and he didn’t respond. then i said i know it seems like i’m ditching you, but i’m not diong it on purpose.

but agh.. idk it seems as if he just wants to sleep with me, what do you think?

How do short guys attract tall women?

I’m 5′ 6" and i know there are short guys that date women who are taller than them i see it everyday to. I admit i like tall girls my self to but the thing is how do i know if tall girls don’t care about height? On top of it to i’m a mixed race and i know white girls tend to date there own race. How do these other short guys get tall women and i know for a fact it is not money.

Ladies- how would you react if a man who approached you at a bar refered to himself as an “alpha male?”

As for me, I’d want to laugh…but I’d be kinda afraid that he might be insane. I’d probably just throw on a plastic grin, say "oh! ok then!" and scurry back to my girlfriends to warn them about the freak.

Guys- in general when you have your eye on a certain girl you'd like to get to know, do you tell your friends?

As in, ‘hey, that girl is really cute. I’d like to get to know her." or something like that so they can encourage you or help out? or do you just not tell them?

Who has worse pick up line guys or women?

not having a pick up line=worse. Ive heard some girls with the "what are you doing tonight line?" Cant tell you how many times ive heard "Can you teach me how to dance?" i guess i think women have the lamest cause they feel like they dont have to try as hard, whats your thinking?

And you can have something different than mine. Probably the funniest with the best argument why they think that sex is the worst will get an easy 10 points.

why do they think like that. i DONT flirt girls?

ok so my parents dont like me surfing the net much. i can understand that.

but the thing is what the hell is wrong with me chanting or talking to girls.

and they dont get angry because i talk to girls they get angry cuz they think those girls might come out to be boys. just making fun of me.

i mean i only know saya , queen salma ,kiran , nuz and safiya and i can bet anything on that they are girls.

on the other hand what even if they are not. it is not like i flirt with girls like my cousins do.

and just to tell you he showed me and my sister that he is pretending to be a girl on orkut. and has made atleast 10 guys stupid.
i respect that cousin of mine cuz he thought me how to fight. but that thing is cheap.

and i mean why do they say they will be girls even if they will be what does it have to do with me.

and now especially my sister is pissing me off. giving that evil smile every time she passes by.

i mean why do they think i will do anything wrong. if i want to do some thing wrong i do it in front of every one. (just like my cousin) i am not afraid.

WHY THE HELL ARE THEY PISSING ME OFF. WHY ARE THEY MAKING FUN OF ME.
i am muhammad AHMAD siddiqui not
muhammad HAMMAD siddiqui or muhammad JAWAD siddiqui or muhammad IBRARr siddiqui or muhammad MOAZZAM siddiqui.

I AM MUHAMMAD "AHMAD" SIDDIQUI. I AM THE RELIGIOUS ONE. I AM NOT LIKE MY COUSINS.
@mashreql…
exactly from where do people get the idea that we cant even speak to girls? i never get that.

any ways i dont talk to anyone behind anyone. i am not afraid of anyone.

and they are only teasing me on this thing that they might be boys.

i mean what the hell what does it even mean?
@kiran , saya ,safiya ,queen salam , nuz (if they are gonna answer)

look i know you are girls. but i just got pissed of cuz they are making fun of me with no reason at all. i mean why would any of you pretend to be a boy. it is not like i flirt with you guys i talk to you just like i talk to all my friends.
@saya
hmmmm!!! lets see

1- cuz allah siad so. and cuz it cost too much. and i dont like to break some ones heart
2- because allah said so . and because i believe those who cant speak to women like they should they are not men.
3- cuz allah said so. and cuz it is cheap anda lowly thing to do. and makes your mind dirty.
@MUHAMMAD YOU
look who is talking the guy who left islam in Bangladesh. i think i know islam more than you.
and i will remind you of some thing.
"ina mal aamala binniyat"
the deeds depend upon the intention.

What does it mean when a girl always calls out to you whenever sees you?

I mean it literally. Every time we encounter she always says hi even though she’s already said it earlier before. Even from a distance, I’ll be walking with my friends, talking to each other, when out of the blue she she shouts out my name! Does she like me or is she being a little "fuuny"? I haven’t "hinted" that it bothers me yet. I’d always shout back… Lol.

I know women genrally like tall guys, but at what point do they become too tall?

Just wondering, I’m 6’7" and sometimes it seems to be too tall for some women. I’m in great shape and fairly good looking, but sometimes they seem intimidated by my height, or they just seem to think I’m too tall. So at what height does a guy become too tall for you do date?

I know women genrally like tall guys, but at what point do they become too tall?

Just wondering, I’m 6’7" and sometimes it seems to be too tall for some women. I’m in great shape and not ugly or anything, but sometimes they seem intimidated by my height, or they just seem to think I’m too tall. So at what height does a guy become too tall for you do date?

How do you get a girl's number in a cute, sly, funny way?

can you say something like "i can’t find my phone, can you call it so i can hear it ring?" while your phone is right in front of you. She’ll say it’s right there laughing, and then you say "i was trying to as you for your number" with a smile on your face? or what?

What is a cheap, scientifically proven method to attract women?

I have the worst luck with women. None of them seem interested in me aside from a "just friends" status. I’m not gay or anything. Perhaps I don’t emit enough pheromones. I don’t know. I heard about pheromones of course and the various expensive men’s fragrances that do the job but I cannot really afford that kind of thing right now. Is there perhaps a less expensive or natural way to increase my pheromone output? I’d like to know.

How do I pick up women at the health club?

I’m 40 and married but my wife is sexless and I would like to date some of the women I see at the health club. What are some ways I can get closer to them? Do I need to move slowly and just make little comments like "wow, you’re really working that yoga ball", or can just brush past them and say "wanna exercise together offsite one of these days?"

How can I get a girl outside my race to date me?

I’m black and I have a major crush on this white girl (sorry I had to put details) but we still have some race that is majority stuck in racism. She very friendly and every time I ask her about us…she give me the"I don’t know" what is she trying to tell me?

Then I have a sister who have a thing for this white guy but I can’t give her advice if I don’t know what I’m going through so can someone help me out.

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