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Me and a few friends were talking about this the other night, one of our friends has some issues with picking up women, and he was trying to get advice on how to talk to girls and what not. No joke, he’s pretty bad at it sorry too say…but a guy was telling him how to be confident, and just talk to them no matter what, and start flirting right off no matter if she’s with her girl friends or not.

My friend got a little alcohol in him, and tried talking to a few girls, and to be honest it was a little awkward to watch, I think he was honestly trying to be more confident and just try and make them laugh, but it didn’t really end that well. Is there really hope for every guy?

Would you break up with a guy who acted like a PIG online and INSULTS women ?

I finally patched things up with a guy Ive been dating for five months.

I was feeling very good about a long conversation we had last night.

Now I noticed on an RSS feed off his blog (he told me about his blog repeatedly) that he has been posting very degrading remarks about women on a ‘pick up artist / guide to women’

At first I tried to convince myself that he was just trying to be witty.

But his comments come off as quite mean spirited.

He says women under twentyfive have much nicer skin and are firmer in certain parts (Im nearly 30)
He says women over size 10 are slam pigs and how bony chicks are bonergrowers and hottness.
That attractive men like him should have a special guide to picking up women.
Then he comments that he is sorry his last two chicks weren’t misbehaved because then he might’ve rubbed their faces in wet spots (i think i knows what this means -eww)
And lastly he has a few posts asking how best to pick up semi drunk chicks.
aND WORST of all i think he was talking about ME in a post.
saying how he was dating an amazing chick who was sweet hot old fashioned not a slut with a lovely face BUT how could he talk ‘her’ {me} into losing 25 lbs so ‘she’ would be size 4 instead of an 8.

ugh/

I actually called him on all this stuff and he tried to spin it as just being funny and joking.

How do I handle this ?
he is a great friend and very sweet to date BUT i ve noticed after 5 months he still hasnt moved things along to be exclusive and now im horrified
that either he IS a player and/or he is waiting for me to lose weight (i actually am slowly losing it for ME and a new job as fitness manager at a spa)

im so forlorn.

Would you break up with a guy who acted like a PIG online and INSULTS women ?

I finally patched things up with a guy Ive been dating for five months.

I was feeling very good about a long conversation we had last night.

Now I noticed on an RSS feed off his blog (he told me about his blog repeatedly) that he has been posting very degrading remarks about women on a ‘pick up artist / guide to women’

At first I tried to convince myself that he was just trying to be witty.

But his comments come off as quite mean spirited.

He says women under twentyfive have much nicer skin and are firmer in certain parts (Im nearly 30)
He says women over size 10 are slam pigs and how bony chicks are bonergrowers and hottness.
That attractive men like him should have a special guide to picking up women.
Then he comments that he is sorry his last two chicks weren’t misbehaved because then he might’ve rubbed their faces in wet spots (i think i knows what this means -eww)
And lastly he has a few posts asking how best to pick up semi drunk chicks.
aND WORST of all i think he was talking about ME in a post.
saying how he was dating an amazing chick who was sweet hot old fashioned not a slut with a lovely face BUT how could he talk ‘her’ {me} into losing 25 lbs so ‘she’ would be size 4 instead of an 8.

ugh/

I actually called him on all this stuff and he tried to spin it as just being funny and joking.

How do I handle this ?
he is a great friend and very sweet to date BUT i ve noticed after 5 months he still hasnt moved things along to be exclusive and now im horrified
that either he IS a player and/or he is waiting for me to lose weight (i actually am slowly losing it for ME and a new job as fitness manager at a spa)

im so forlorn.

if you are new to the city, don't know anyone, and perhaps not very good at picking up women in public …..

If you are new to the city, don’t know anyone, and perhaps not very good at picking up women in public, how am I supposed to make friends and possibly find a date? What are my options?
I am bored.

how to pick up a girl if you're a girl?

I am bi-curious and am not sure how to go about picking up women

i don't know what to say/ keeping a convostion when picking up women?

i know saying hi my name is, or compliments or using the setting that we are in as an advantage…

but sometimes when i say it i just don’t know what to say after

can someone give me any tips or advice of what to say when picking up women on how i can keep the conversation going?

From zero skill, to total pro. How long does it take to be able to pick up women in a club setting?

Ok so me and another single guy friend went to a club to practice our "Ahem" game… But we both got shot down, hard, that night. Its always discouraging, i have a harder time than my friend putting myself together and trying again. I think the whole time we were there, about 3 hours, i only managed to work up enough nerve to try twice (and nearly got my ass kicked on one of those try’s). Something has to be seriously wrong here.

As a man i feel that i am obligated to have at least some ability in seducing a woman on the dance floor. I say seduce because the goal is strictly sex, nothing more. I would never look for a girlfriend in a club.

So how much training or time does it take to be able to do this like the other guys i see on the dance floor? Some of those guys clearly don’t look like they deserve to dance with such beautiful women.

Also, for bonus points: Are there any other social settings besides clubs that work just as well for picking up women for a night? Of all social settings, i feel the absolute least comfortable in a club.

Sorry to sound like a creep. I’m usually not, but when your manhood is challenged like this, well, it makes you take progressively more drastic measures.

How do I use a hot chick [friend] to pick up other women at a club?

hi I’m really new to clubbing. I consider myself pretty good looking, but I still have a lot to learn when it comes to picking up women especially at a club. I have a good friend luckily who’s pretty hot. I’m not going for her, because I’m not good enough yet , but I think she’d be willing to help me if I asked.

How exactly can she help me, besides just introducing me to friends [which she can't do right now because we're both in a foreign country right now]? I know that girls often find you more appealing when when you’re with another hot girl, but it’s got to be more complicated than that. How do I exactly use her as a pivot [is that the right term for it?] at a club to make me appear more attractive?

Any particular strategies or anything I can follow? I greatly appreciate any help!

Has anyone actually studied to pick up girls? How did it work out?

Have any of you actually devoted time to picking up women and getting it down to a science? How did it pay off? Can you really increase your game by studying it like an art?

WOMEN'S OPINION…Would you fall for any of the pick up methods used on VH1's the Pick Up Artist?

I just got a quick question for all of the women. Would any of the methods for picking up women used by Mystery work on any of you? If an average guy in a club/lounge used them how effective would they be with women?

Also, what is the best way for a guy to pick up a woman? Please do not say "Hi, my name is……" that is so lame. What is a good conversation starter with women to spark a conversation (fashion, clothes, dental products, ect)?

Do women appreciate men who learns how to pick them up?

if a man goes for etc.classes on picking up women….do u think women will like the fact that the guy is trying to improve himself and be better & more alpha or is she going to think otherwise??

Why Are Guys Who Approach Women Disrepectfully Convinced That Their Approach Will Work? Or Does It Sometimes?

What are examples of a "disrespectful" approach compared to a "respectful one"?

Do you think these guys are often times successful in picking up women, that they don’t have incentive enough to want to change?

Could some women actually prefer this approach & think its cool & consider a more gentemenly approach "corny"or "lame".

I’m a nice guy, how do I approach women in public???

I am horrible at picking up women, or at least I think I am horrible… I really never try. I think its mostly I’m afraid of rejection. Any ideas on how to get over that fear??

What do feminists think of those programs that help men “approach” women, get women into bed, etc…

Y’know, those seminars (books, etc..), similar to Tom Cruise in Magnolia, where a guy inspires and teaches men about how ineffective their natural instincts & logic are for picking up women. They teach how to become an alpha male and use techniques that take advantage of more lamentable parts of women’s nature. I’ve heard that there’s a disproportionate amount of men that grew up without a father involved in that kind of thing. My feeling on it is that the techniques might work, but what kind of woman are you going to end up with?

is it possible to pick up women at the grocery store?

what are some good pick up line and secrets to picking up women at the grocery store? and would it be ok to ask a women out in the grocery store?

Old xbox game where you try to pick up women?

I remember a long time ago, when the xbox was new, a game that involved picking up women. Any ideas, or am I crazy? Thanks.

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