Need help with women?
Here are 3 things that you must know about meeting women:
1. You must learn to act with complete and total confidence... Even if you aren't naturally confident around women, it CAN be learned, and a lot faster than you might think.
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I am 21…and always seem to attract women around the ages of 29-35. Is it my personality? I am sort of serious and shy.
Ok i know the all the secrets of attracting women…and its all about personality and good self-confidence.
My problem is that I have very low self-esteem, low self-confidence, very shy, introverted, and come across as angry and embittered. So what is necessary to change my behavior (which I should not have to do if life were fair) to attract women. How does one gain self-confidence and self-esteem, when I have always thought low of myself? What sorts of thoughts and/or actions work in the realworld. I am lonely (no pets allowed in my apt, moving is not an option for at least another year), and i need help. I also could use some pointers on how to not think about women at all.
It would help if I could learn how to make friends (of either sex) again too…
What is St John’s Wort?
I am downright ugly. I have a big nose, a skinny face, a long neck, balding, out of shape, and hairy all over my body. I am an utter loser. But it bothers me a lot that I can’t go up to women. I am 33 and still a virgin. This is making me depressed more and more each day. How can a girl find me remotely attractive? If I were a woman, I wouldn’t go out with a guy like me, no matter how great my personality is. I hate feeling like this. I don’t want to be alone for the rest of my life, but maybe this is what I am destined to be. I want to be happy. I wish I had the confidence to approach women.
what can you do… besides becoming like ‘confident’… what I mean is like I’d like to retain my shy characteristics of my personality… because that’s apart of a very elaborate personality I’ve developed over the years… should I dress ostentatiously? Some thing in that regard liek give me some tips about what catches a girl’s attention…. a 16 year old girl.. on the more ‘less popular, more genuine’ side, to be more precise.
I’m 27 m. never had a girlfriend ever, but at least i want to start meeting and connecting with women now. I’ve met women at work, … went to dance classes sometime ago. went to school for years and there was never any girl that would care about me. Well i never talk cause i’m quiet but still. I don’t feel anyone is ever interested. They may just interact with me BECAUSe they have to( example: group project at school) but doesn’t seem they have any interest in friendship or more.
Recently i met a girl at work. She’s really attractive to me, personality wise. But she’s one of those outgoing people.. she has a life already. and i’m only meeting her now cause the boss told her to come and help us temp workers. She is a permanent worker for years there.
So that girl really attracts me when i talk to her. She’s awesome but there’s no way for that to turn into anything. It’s just a temp job and it will end soon.
What else can i do? Is it just up to luck in getting friendships?
Im a 21 year old virgin and i hate it. However While I can get fatties, and fuglies, I know the only way I’ll get the hot, athletic white 18 year olds – the kind of girls who drive men of all ages crazy – is by paying. Trying to get these girls is a whole different ball game. It’s like the difference between making your high school basketball team and making it to the NBA. When I approach the former, I can see their faces light up. When I approach the latter, I get treated like a leper. Im not good looking either, i have no personality, and no confidence, so its understandable that i can only attract ugly fat desperate women. (i know i want what i cant get) Im a nice guy and that seems to only attract ugly women. So i have several questions; first, How do i get rid of the ugly fat chicks? Second, would going to a high class hooker be my only real chance of having sex with a hot chick? Third how do i cope with being out of the league of the women i want? I cant get confidence, i cant improve my looks, and i cant build personality. Am i doomed to die a virgin?
im having problems attracting women im not that good looking btw im also 21yrs old and never had a real gf i just need to know what can i do i got the personality and im very sweet and shy
I don’t seem to attract the type of women I like personality wise as well as women who share the same interest and, taste I do. It seems I only attract complete opposites that i have nothing in common with.
Im pretty and i have a nice personality. i just wonder what it takes to get past the friend thing. its seems that when you walk pass a white boy they dont seem to notice. its probably because im black and most black girls are not that interested in white boys so maybe they assume im not interested…..idk……but i am…..im not pretending to be something im not but i do love rock music and another part of me is preppy…..but its who i am . i just want to know how does someone like me meet and date a hot white boy?
I just finished reading an article about Wilt Chamberlains alleged claim of sleeping with 20,000 women and it got me thinking, wow how does he do it? I mean he is 7 foot, athletic, and rich, so I suppose that is his main ingredient to get women. But here I am a 20 year old college student, struggling with academics, money, and so forth. I know I can’t compete with Chamberlain’s league and I’m not really interested with sleeping with 20000 women. So my question is before I start digressing even further, what is the proper trend of clothing to wear today? How should one style his hair to attract the proper attention from females? Personality, self-esteem, confidence are all inner self characteristics so I know many of you cannot help me with that, but I am interested on what I can do to improve my outer surface to get the female attention.
Guys. Imagine this situation-how will you act around a girl you are absolutely smitten but still barely know?
You see a girl you’re head over heels for (personality, looks, etc.) You talk to/interatc with occassionally about work stuff.
What subtle things in your behavior show you your true feelings (when you can’t be obvious and work)? Details are very helpful!
I’ve been on double dates before, but my dates have always been quiet and not as responsive as I’d like them to be. It seems like I would carry the personality for the both of us. My fear is to go on a date where she’s all quiet, making both of us feel even more awkward. What can I do or talk about to easen up the tension if any and what should you do on double dates in general?