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I’m in my late 20s and I often find older women in their 40s, and 50s attractive. I like their fully bodies and huge bubble butts. I like theri mature facial features. I love feeling like that little boy.

However, I find it hard to attract them. Most just seem not interested in younger guys my age, married, thinking i’m BSing them, etc How can I meet them? How can I talk to them? Where can I meet them?

I’m in my late 20s and I am attracted to older women in their 40s,50s, and 60s, and i’ll go for 70s as well. When I see them, it’s usually a short time walking in the mall, store, or wherever. How do I make use of that time and get their attention…and number? I also feel that the vast majority of older women do not like younger guys.

I attract very young women 25 and younger. I am an articulate, well educated, confident guy. I am fit, groom myself well and know how to attract women. Since my divorce 2 years ago I’ve been struggling with lingering emotional attachment with my ex. lately I’ve been going out. My issue is I am more comfortable to approach younger women. When they respond by showing me clear interest or allow themselves to be seduced I can’t do it. This noise in my head shouts "WRONG"
so I back out. I am sexually stranded currently and long for a feminine soft body next to mine. I see older women as judgmental snobs, too formal and demanding. I know I am wrong here but that’s how I feel for some reason. So not easy to approach them. What do you guys suggest? Is it wrong for me to date say a 22,21,20 year old ladies?
My God ppl, you don’t know how much you helped. Thanx.
For those who asked, Yes I have a daughter, she is 6.

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I’m 34, but the only women that seem to be attracted to me are very young… usually 18 to 25. I don’t want to date older women per se, just women my age; which would be older than the younger ones that usually think I’m closer to their age.
I’m an Electrical Engineer and have financial security. I’m not a little boy in any respects, I just have the face of one. I intimidate a lot of the older women i think. Some would rather I didn’t look younger than them because I am the man. I think a secure woman is the type i will take. In the meantime the younger ones are the only ones with the confidence.

Well I am usually a very nice guy. I go out of my way to be nice to people, and especially the ladies. I mean I am not a suck up, I just am not a jerk usually.

My friends tell me to bulk up etc, and act like an ass to attract women, but when I tried that in the past, I ended up feeling as if I was trying to live as someone who is not me. Usually I am alittle quiet, but I am always smiling and extraverted, and get along with people just fine, but when it comes to picking up women and getting somewhere with them, I get lost in transition, and nothing happens. I have had encounters with women in the past where I was almost able to find someone, yet at the same time in a moment’s notice, everything changed, and she lost interest in me (Bar scenario).

Usually older women find me more attractive for some reason, yet I can never get anywhere with girls at my age. Here are some pics and transitions I have went through. Sometimes I think it has to do with my race and sometimes I think it has to do with the way I look or dress up. Personality wise the only bad thing I might have is strong headedness, but that rarely ever comes into play.

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Pics of my room for all it’s worth. Maybe you can judge my personality by that.

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I want you to tell me, what to do and how to fix it. If it can’t be fixed, i’d like to know that too (good to know where you stand), I can update info or answer anything through the details feature.
I am 21, and a virgin! see I have an issue.

I see Alot of beautiful Older Women(30s, 40s) at the gym And I Would Like to Approach them.
How do I Approach them at the Gym?

I want to figure out how to attract an older woman, maybe at around 40. I am 20 years old, and I am a cute college kid. I am also very smart and sensitive. But I am very interested in attracting women of that age, 40ish or so. Many times the problem is I don’t know how to go about it. In a way, I do not know how these women think or how they feel. They just seem different than people my age and I can’t fully understand them. My question is, how do I start when trying to attract a woman of this age…and also what are the needs of a 40 year old, as well as what would she see in a cute 20 year old college kid (who is smart as well)… Some guidance would be appreciated, especially coming from the perspective of older women out there that want to provide comments.
Thanks a lot,
Ken

Hi, im 21/M and i like older women but im curious how to attract them. 25 + is what im going for. Any ideas as far as appearence and dates?

Alright I’m 18 and I know two women who are over 20 who are attracted to me. Also my ex girlfriend is 20. Why would older women be attracted to me. Is it because I look older? (most women who don’t know my age think I’m atleast in my 20′s).

sexy looking guys and guys who look young and childlike can flirt with women in public they think are hot. i’m not talking about stalking or sexually inappropriate coments, just showing a woman that they think she’d hot. women are usually not annoyed and are flattered by the attention.

i am not exactly sure where i stand on the attractiveness scale, because i’m completely confused about what women find sexy. but i think i’m average or little below. i’m 19, but i don’t look very young and childlike, i look like i could be in my mid or even late 20s.

i’m not looking for how to attract women or anything, i’m just don’t want women to get annoyed with me and i’d also like women to be flattered like older women usually are when guys my age flirt with them.

are there any steps i can take to make sure women are flattered instead of annoyed or is that just for sexy guys and cute boys?

I’m a 21 year old caucasion male and I’m looking for the best way to attract older women. By older I mean late 20′s through 30′s. I think I’m a fairly good looking guy. 5’10”..brown hair brown eyes..What impresses them? Money, cars, looks?

i’m 21 and i like older women that are like basically 21-30 but it seems hard to attract them cause they think i want a one night stand. I really don’t to be honest i’m not bad looking either i got compliments the only girls that have an interest in me are like girls who are 15-20. Any ideas on how i can attract an older women like at clubs or bars of even college?

I’m a single 21 year old man. I want to go to the bar and pick up older women, but I’m completely new to the bar scene. How do I do this?

I kinda find it a little harder to approach older women than younger women. Like when im out somewhere what do you think I should say to older women? Im 21 but wouldn’t mind approaching women in their late 20′s early 30′s.

i’m 21 and i like older women that are like basically 21-30 but it seems hard to attract them cause they think i want a one night stand. I really don’t to be honest i’m not bad looking either i got compliments the only girls that have an interest in me are like girls who are 15-20. Any ideas on how i can attract an older women like at clubs or bars of even college?

I always seem to attract older women in their 30′s upwards.

I am in my twenties and have been told I am handsome/good-looking by a few women but I don’t believe them!

What I want to know is: Why do I seem to attract older woman?

Not that I’m complaining – it’s great!

Im 18 and a single dad with a 7 month old son. I think I might like older women. Any help? (I’m not trying to ‘hook up’ or anything) I really just think maybe finding a woman with a child or someone a bit older would be nice.
Women in your 20s and early 30s.. would you date an 18 year old dad?

Heres the problem I got a number from a 22yrs women, she had to ask this older women for permission which I’m guessing she lives with her grandmother. Here are the issues.

1. I called twice the next day at 3:45pm then 5:45pm.

2. I cant leave a message, instead a automatic voice messanger comes on saying "Sorry voice message is unavilble, please call back later thankyou"

3. She is 22 so I figure since during the day "propably at work" she didn’t pick up maybe I should call around 8:45pm or 9pm is that alright?

4. Sorry if I may sound ignorant, but this women is Mexican American and I’m African American. I serious wonder if her Mother or Grandmother is not telling her that I’m calling. NOTE: The older women she was with seemed kind of mean, The reason why I say that is because I said by and have a nice day to both women and the older one just stared at me without a reply back or smile….propably she felt as if I was only "acting" like I was a gentlemen and judge me by my look "braids, gucci reading glasses, timberland boots and erring on the side ETC"….I had a cotton botton to the top polo shirt, the pants where justa little bit baggy not too baggy but I came up to her with nothing but respect and even told the older women sorry if I caused any interruption.

What do you think and When should I call this beautiful young women I met?

Many of my friends, older and younger and my co-workers and boss tell me that i am more mature beyond my years. I am 20. I find with most of the girls in my age group are selfish, superficial, and only know how to say i want this or give me that and only want to talk to a guy on his payday. I have talked with older women between 30′s-40′s and found them to be more appreciative and intelligent. How should i approach older women and where can i go to meet some?

This also applies for the men in their 30′s as well.

I notice that approaching women in places like clubs, bars, grocery stores, and etc, only seem to work for men in their young twenties.

By their mid 20′s and older, women seem to ignore the public approach.

  
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