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Im a 21 year old virgin and i hate it. However While I can get fatties, and fuglies, I know the only way I’ll get the hot, athletic white 18 year olds – the kind of girls who drive men of all ages crazy – is by paying. Trying to get these girls is a whole different ball game. It’s like the difference between making your high school basketball team and making it to the NBA. When I approach the former, I can see their faces light up. When I approach the latter, I get treated like a leper. Im not good looking either, i have no personality, and no confidence, so its understandable that i can only attract ugly fat desperate women. (i know i want what i cant get) Im a nice guy and that seems to only attract ugly women. So i have several questions; first, How do i get rid of the ugly fat chicks? Second, would going to a high class hooker be my only real chance of having sex with a hot chick? Third how do i cope with being out of the league of the women i want? I cant get confidence, i cant improve my looks, and i cant build personality. Am i doomed to die a virgin?

i started talking to this girl in january and we talked and got to know eachother and i had flowers sent to her house for vday and we finally met . ive seen her around out school and was deeply attracted 2 her and we met and we stated hanging out and kept talking but shes 16 and im 19 and her parents thing tht im too old and want something else which isnt true but her parents like me especially her mom so we started hanging out more once summer started and kissed a couple time s and i fell in love and i told her tht and she felt it too but about 4 weeks ago she found out tht i told her 14 year old sister she was pretty and tht kinda freaked her out how i flirted with her but they r close sisters and im friends with her but i dnt have feelings for her sister but she didnt like it and said this isnt working maybe when we r older .but i dont wanna lose her cause im in love with her and i cant just throw tht away and im pretty sure she still likes me but we do still talk but its not the same kind of talking cause she said shes not gonna go so fast this time and shes puting her walls up ..idk what to do cause shes very pretty and shes a good girl she can get anyone and idont wanna lose her to another guy i know i screwed up and theres other fish in the sea but she is my sea…can anyone help me with this
i told her sister tht cause she things shes ugly and me being a nice guy had to open my big mouth

Ok. Im a nice guy, not fat, but i have big frame, and I’m nice to be around. Any small tips on just how to muscle my way into the social scene?

please serious answers only. that whole be a nice guy thing doesnt work at all.

Do you take the aggressive and bold approach and just say whatever’s on your mind approaching as many women as possible knowing it won’t work all the time but eventually it WILL work on some girl or do you take the nice guy, gentlemanly, take it slow approach? And I know it’s best to just be yourself but when approaching you do need a plan right?

I’ve never had any luck with women. Like they say I’ma nice guy, sweet, funny, but they never seem to like me or at least pick me as their man. What am I doing wrong or not doing? I try to be their friend but sometimes I do tend to come on too strong.

Okay, so I’m a really nice guy with some very good qualities, and i like this girl alot, as usual. But i’m just friends with her and for some reason I believe she only wants to be my friend and nothing more. Now I really like her but I want to be more than friends with her. So besides just asking her out, how can I get the girl i like to notice me as a potential boyfriend who is really kind, generous, and respectful and instead as her good friend. I like her as a friend and I wouldn’t mind just being a friend, but it’s just that i want her to notice me as a great candidate for an excellent boyfriend. Can anyone help me? (serious answers please) Much help is appreciated.

  
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