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Many experts and wannabe experts claim that men are different when it comes to relationships, dating, and romance, but I don’t see a whole lot of differences.

Don’t we all want a relationship with someone who’s…

reliable/dependable
honest/trustworthy
loyal
supportive
confident
fun
generous
respectful
willing to share
considerate
affectionate
and at least a little bit adventurous?

These experts claim that men are visual creatures but don’t women enjoy eye-candy too? Some of them look at height, physique, skin tone, eyes, smile, hair, and "package" also.

But, all men don’t look at women as sexual objects just as all women don’t look at men as sexual objects. Some people are just "addicts" and lustful whether the individual is a man or a woman.

Some men are sensitive and emotional just as some women are sensitive and emotional.

Some women want a man who can support them financially and some men (the one’s most people in society call "lazy") want the very same thing.

Many men want to be independent just as many women want to be independent.

Men and women rush into relationships, but there are men and women who like to take their time.

Both men and women abandon relationships.

A lot of men play romantic head-games and many women play romantic head-games.

Men cheat because of their "desires" and women cheat because of their desires. Either one might cheat because he or she feels neglected – even the man.

Some men love to talk and share their feelings (with someone they trust or maybe interested in) just as some women love to talk and share their feelings.

Some men want marriage and children and a lasting relationship just as some women want those things. Some don’t want to get married, just as some women don’t want to get married.

Some men are nurturing just as many women nurture.

Some women don’t want kids just like some men don’t want kids.

Some men are shy and are afraid to approach women just as some women are shy and afraid to approach men.

Because of their personality, some good men are often misunderstood just as some good women are often misunderstood.

Men like to look good every once and awhile to attract pretty women just as some women like to look sexy to attract a handsome man. Sometimes we both just want to look good and feel good about how we look (I know many men don’t realize that a woman just wants to look and feel sexy sometimes, but there are men out there who understand this point of view.)

Some men will hang onto a bad relationship and try to make it work just as some women will hang onto a bad relationship and try to make it work.

Some women are dominant in a relationship (and can be abusive) just as there are dominant abusive men in relationships. Likewise, some men are submissive in a relationship just as some women are.

And there are more similarities, but what are the real MENTAL (or EMOTIONAL) differences when it comes to relationships? Can you really think of any?
I would like to offer you more than 10 points for the best answer. I would like to work on a book project to discuss this and publish it. If you have a blog or would like to study this more, I would like to work with you.
ajal, many women want to date, want sex, and no commitment. I’m sorry someone gave you a thumbs down, but you deserve it.
Rob, I agree with you that women are always right and men are always wrong, but I’ve some women say that their man "thinks he knows everything" or that "he always thinks he’s right" too. Thumbs up, because I forgot to include that one.

While many men state that they love women, are attracted to women, etc… why do women think (or pretend to think) that men are unattractive? Is it foolish pride on women’s part to hate to admit they find men attractive?

On one response to another question, one woman said she only finds 0.1% of men to be "sexy". Is that true?

Why do women hate admitting that they’re attracted to the opposite sex?

My theory:

It seems like a lot of women try to act like men are unattractive.

I think this has something to do with a "power" move by many women, as women want to hold the upper-hand and the position of power regarding sex & attraction, so they act like most guys are disgusting and unattractive. To many of these women, suggesting that a man is "sexy" or "gorgeous" is a means of submission to the opposite sex.

Men on the other hand do not care about this power ploy, as they find it trivial; and readily state that many of these women are "hot" and attractive.
Here’s the other question:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnuE2oCWySP3e19MtOJng1cYxgt.?qid=20070730111744AAxvtME

moxie_slacker: You seem annoyed and upset. Perhaps because I told the truth and struck a nerve? Instead of making personal attacks against me like a child; how about addressing the issue instead?

I’m a "random dude online", and you’re a random chick online. Your point?

I’m not talking about "all women being interested in men"… I’m talking about so-called heterosexual women that hate to admit they find men attractive. Moxie, it’s safe to say that you fit the description in my question, as you are also an arrogant narcissit that feels insecure about stating she finds men attractive.

You mad? LOL
Let me also state the premise:

Men like to feel desired… just about as much as women.

Many women fail at the ability to make her man feel desirable. Truth. Men continuously go on about "hot" women, and women enjoy this attention, despite the fact that many women pretend this attention is unwanted. She likes to feel desired.
Delicious: Wow! The first truthful and honest post on this question so far!

As far as men being called "players" and "studs" when having sex with many women, whereas a woman is seen as a "s.lut" and a "ho" for doing the same — well, that is something I want to go in to later (perhaps a different question). However, I will say that this notion is fair? Why? For one, with all of the perks and advantages a woman gets in the dating/sex scene, why do women want to keep all of their perks, yet want to "even out" the few perks men get? Is that unfair?
The reason why men are congratulated and admired when they have sex with many women, is that MEN are the ones that have to WORK HARDEST for the sex, have to almost always initiate conversation and make the first move… this is a lot of pressure put on the men. A woman that wants sex is guaranteed to get sex and she doesn’t have to work hard for it, other than drop a few hints. Since it’s so much harder for a man to get sex, it’s only fair
moxie_slacker: Why would I not "like" you. I don’t even KNOW you. This is the first time I’ve ever seen your screen name, and you’re already saying I have something against you. I think you put way too much importance on yourself. As far as you being a "s.lut", well that was TMI on your part, since I never asked. But, alas, that description of you is not at all surprising. Also, no one said anything about whether you’re "smart" or not. The fact that you have to announce such a thing speaks volumes of your own insecurity.

I have no problem with women, just the misandry from women that goes on.

Yes, I was going to respond because I always respond when false accusations about me are made. I stand up to lies and libel. That’s just who I am.

  
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