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Okay for me I have a hard time trying to figure out what to say to a girl to begin with. For example the other day I saw this girl working at a food joint that I went to get something for lunch. She did not look to happy. I wanted to say, "How comes you look upset?" It ended up with me never even opening my mouth, due to me thinking to myself, come on man use something original. I notice every time I see someone in that situation I use the same boring ass line. For some reason I have these thoughts all the time. Can’t seem to be original or have an enjoyable conversation or interactions with girls that will lead anywhere.
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Me and my buddy who is an expert on getting girls, were talking during lunch, and me mentioned to me that the reason why he is so good at picking up women is because he just doesn’t care about the outcome. basically, he’s not scared of rejection. i don’t think i’m scared of rejection nessessarily, but my main problem here is, i don’t have the balls to just go up to any random girl and talk to her. i know how to talk to girls in general like at bus stops or an employee somewhere, but i want to explain a couple situations where i just wanted to kick myself in the head afterwards.
the first situation was yesterday when i was sitting at a park on a very nice day reading my book on a bench under the shade. a girl was laying on the grass alone with one of those headphones that hug your ears on. she was drop dead gorgeous and i wanted so bad to go up and talk to her but there were several things stopping me. first of all, she was laying right in the middle of an open field of grass so i figured if i walked up to her, she would get the hint that i was trying to get with her and my main thing i avoid is not to look so desperate because that’s creepy even in my mind. secondly, she had headphones in her ears which would mean that i would have to make it obvious that i was talking to her because i would have to give her a signal and she would have to take them off to hear me. but she was alone, wasn’t with anybody.
the second was when i was walking around campus and saw this girl sitting at a bench by the pond. of course, she was drop dead gorgeous too. but again, i just didn’t have the balls to go up and talk to her and get her number or whatever because i figured if she saw me walk across that field towards her, she would get the hint that i’m trying to talk to her and to me, that sounds like desperation.
can anyone give me some help on this? thanks in advance.
-joe
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Well, I remember back in the summer, when I was getting ready for college at orientation, I found out only after going to it from one of my friends that some girl was checking me out heavily during it, and that bugged me. I am planning on avoiding relationships and sex my whole life. I don’t like making eye contact with anyone unless I am speaking to them and generally avoid it. I don’t like anyone looking at me without me giving them any indication that they have my permission and I feel insecure being watched when I don’t know it. Yesterday, another one of my friends told me at lunch after these two girls left that one of them was staring at me almost the whole time after we sat down to the time they left. On one of the first days, a really attractive girl started to flirt with me, and I didn’t even pick up the signs until after, when I was told that is what she was doing. One of my female friends told me that I am "very handsome" and told one of my friends that she has always thought that I am good looking, yet I think I am just normal looking. Another one of my female friends told me that I am "sexy" and told me after I promised her that I wouldn’t think badly of her that she wanted to have sex with me.
I don’t even know how to describe myself. I guess I could say I am tall, I have short and soft dark brown hair, green eyes, broad shoulders, etc, but that can only help so much. I would say I am noble looking, but not necessarily handsome.
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Well, I remember back in the summer, when I was getting ready for college at orientation, I found out only after going to it from one of my friends that some girl was checking me out heavily during it, and that bugged me. I am planning on avoiding relationships and sex my whole life. I don’t like making eye contact with anyone unless I am speaking to them and generally avoid it. I don’t like anyone looking at me without me giving them any indication that they have my permission and I feel insecure being watched when I don’t know it. Yesterday, another one of my friends told me at lunch after these two girls left that one of them was staring at me almost the whole time after we sat down to the time they left. On one of the first days, a really attractive girl started to flirt with me, and I didn’t even pick up the signs until after, when I was told that is what she was doing. One of my female friends told me that I am "very handsome" and told one of my friends that she has always thought that I am good looking, yet I think I am just normal looking. Another one of my female friends told me that I am "sexy" and told me after I promised her that I wouldn’t think badly of her that she wanted to have sex with me.
I don’t even know how to describe myself. I guess I could say I am tall, I have short and soft dark brown hair, green eyes, broad shoulders, etc, but that can only help so much. I would say I am noble looking, but not necessarily handsome.
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I often see women that I think are cute and nice out at the store (either as customers or workers) or in the library or just walking down the street, and I want to know how to approach them for like a date.
I also have considered going out to bars (if I can get in I’m only 19) to get some dates. I have wanted to start dating (yes start as in I haven’t been on a real date before unless eating with a girlfriend alone at lunch in high school counts)
At first it was a confidence issue but now I’m okay with my confidence enough to want to try asking for a few dates. I’m just not sure how to do the asking.
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I mean i dont have one but my Dad has a mercedes 550 (very nice!) and he asked me to take his car to the car wash today.. I’m 20 and when i pulled up there were 3 other girls (same car) waiting for their car to be finished. Its like when i pulled up they couldn’t keep their eyes off the car.. I went to have a seat and grabbed at magazine to read, one girl comes up and says hello (In the back of my mind i was like oh yeah ******* right you want to chat with me because you saw me in that mercedes) anyways she ask how old me i! I told her i’m 20 then she goes, wow thats a nice car, i just nod ok.. And kept reading, she ask where i’m from, then she just GIVES me her number and says to call her for lunch.. Yeah freaking right.. I’m not going to even bother to call because as soon as i tell her the car is really my dads,she’s going to be gone. What would you guys do? Would you call?
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i like i girl but i cant provide a pic (sorry)!!! ive had like 8 accounts banned from yahoo awnsers so..yeah meh anyway what should i do? like i sit by here in 2 classes but like i cant look at her cuz i dont wanna look like im staring and if i have to i look like a freak id rate but this is a new account so ic ant do any thing ok tyvm!! btw yahoo awnser didnt give me a warning sooo cheap =[
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i just like the color black especially w/ red and she likes glasses with british sorta flannel type frames..lol i am getting glasses cuz my eyes are bad and note im not a pervert so that out of the way i cant rlly talk with her much cuz her friends are always there and at lunch she sits with ALL her friends so yea…and im in 7th grade so..and theres nothing to do unless you go for an hour drive to a place lol
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also she always has her nose in a book so im kinda nervous to walk up to her when shes reading and disrupt her
Ok this will be kinda long,
I really like this girl. she is perfect, smart and absolutely beautiful shes so funny and outgoing too. Anyway when i say smart I mean brilliant beyond beleif shes taking college classes right now and let me tell you we are nowhere near college right now. She always hangs out with those nerdier guys because she has so much to talk about with htem blabbing on about quantum mechanics and so on. I know of at least 6 guys who are obsessed with her right now not including myself yet she just hangs out with her dorkie boys. I really really want to get to know her but I can’t think of what to say! I’m definantly not the brightest kid but if I may allow myself to brag I am awesome at sports and guitar. what can I do to get her to like me or notice me. Please help I really really really like her! How can i talk to her
I can’t get over her she is the most amazing girl that has ever walked the earth!
She does know my name I’ve sat by her at lunch once shes not shy at all she doesnt seem to care what people think of her so she just walk up to random people and sits by them and her friends just follow
She loves guitar! She want to learn! would it be to cheesy to offer to teach her? I hardly know her
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I want to ask this girl out tomorrow at school. Its a really small high school only about 250 kids go there. At lunch she is either in a group of friends or sitting on a bench with a friend. I am shy and I dont know how to get her by herself so I can ask.
How do I do this?
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I just started high school and im a freshman.. theres this guy and after school we both happened to be in the same pizzeria. aparently he was whispering to his friend and said i "had beautiful eyes" which is weird because my eyes are a boring brown… so i was about a bloc away from said pizzeria and his friend comes up to me and tells me this and says "will u please talk to my friend? hes so shy.." so im thinking, well alright, whatever… little did I know it was the guy I thought was cute earlier that day.. he is shy, we introduced ourselves to eachother and his friends were cheering him on.. we were also a little awkward, but it was sweet.. now its been a weeek.. we have no classes except lunch together… i want to get to know him but im so intimidated.. he is so cute, and the shyness is a major plus.. hes also athletic on the football team.. i dnt want another girl to catch his attention but hes a guy and we only talked that one time. HOW CAN I APPROCH HIM AT LUNCH? I GET SO NERVOUS… I DONT WANT TO COME OFF WEIRD AND DESPERATE.. PLEASE HELP..!!
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I’ve been casually running into this one girl who goes to my school and everytime we talk we flirt alot! And I’m pretty sure she likes me. The only time I can really ask for her number is when we’re hanging out during lunch and her boyfriend is there. How do I get it without her boyfriend thinking that something is up?
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