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hi peolpe ive been dating for a long time know and with no luck
at all im 32 years of age .all the girls i seem to date start out ok at first
then after one or to date they don’t answer my calls any more
or simply lose interest in me

i also sometimes try texting too but with very few results at times
what is it that women look for in a man ?
what type of attitude should i assume when im on dates ?
is there any way that i can be a better talker on my dates ?
any information you can give would be good thanks for your time

I’ve been told that I’m attractive and I’ve never had a problem meeting women in the past, but things have changed. I’ve been out of a 3 or 4 year relationship for almost a year now and its hard to meet women my age. I’ve cleaned up and stopped drinking and so the party life bar hopping club scene is out of the picture. I never really was a guy who picked up women in the bars or clubs anyway and usually met women through friends somehow. All my friends are now married and have kids and rarely do I see any of them. What can a guy like me do or where can I go to meet women. I like all types and the age range I would say is probably approximately mid 20′s to mid 30′s. I would like some advice on this please and I may or may not be looking for anything serious right now, but I certainly want to get married and have children some day. How would I go about meeting a nice, honest, loving person that would be wife material? I’m not just going to marry the next women I meet, or I would’ve been married a long time ago probably multiple times, but I would like to start meeting some new people. Who Knows?

I’m 19 and i’ve never been on a hot date. I watched meet the fockers and i saw gaylord focker lost his virginity at 19 to isabelle at that point bernie focker said he was a late bloomer. then it struck me late bloomer wtf? is this just a retarded movie or am i uglier than gaylord focker. what a goof he was i cant believe he got laid before me i’m so ashamed. when my friends ask i just say "im saving for marriage" as an excuse cuz i don’t want to be pathetic in their eyes. but i really don’t want to save it because i am not going to get married because i don’t know any ladies. i’m nervous when talking to chicks i did it before and i got embarrassed by her……… in front of the whole class a long time ago ahhh that was so embarrassing! and what if she is not single will she get offended? please give me an in depth answer step-by-step i’m not desprite or anything just lonely lol

i am friends with this girl that i would like to get to know. we are both sophomore’s in high school. she goes to a different high school. we have talked in chat for a couple minutes a long time ago. what should i do. how should i follow up. please be specific.

I am a young female, and I do sketches. I haven’t done a sketch of someone in charcoal for a long time, and I absolutely love to sketch the female body. So, being a bit rusty, I want practice again, and I don’t exactly know how to approach someone I know or how to word an ad asking for someone to pose nude for a sketch. I’d imagine most people don’t pose for those things anymore because of the time it takes, when they can go to a photographer and get their photo taken and have it heavily photoshopped for a shorter amount of time.

So, how does a young female ask another female to pose nude for the purpose of a sketch that may require her to pose for up to an hour or so? I haven’t really asked a girl to pose nude before, when I was younger I just kinda sketched people when they weren’t looking… ^.^;

I decided a long time ago I was going to wait for sex and make it something special but I also am extremely confident (not to the point of thinking I’m better than anyone else) in myself and can approach women fearlessly and calmly even though I only do it when I really want to meet a girl. I’ve also been told I’m good looking so I don’t think that helps lol but I don’t know to get girls to believe that I’m genuine because I am but they think it’s all bullsh|t and that I say it to every girl and idk how to get it to stop.

As a teenager growing up I was pretty good looking and confident with myself being healthy and athletic. As I got older mental problems crept up and then went all out. I used to just tell girls my interest straight up like "you look hot" or "you look really good today" so-and-so.. and then flirt after or whatever. Basically fearless in pursuing people I really liked. As I got older with all the madness I became really physically ugly. Now if I try to do it like I did before I just come off as creepy. I hide me feelings now and I am so unsuccessful with women. People find my disrespectful in general because I am so shy now. How can I improve myself again and get my confidence back? I’ve been alone for a long time now.

I’ll be brutally honest. I have no confidence, or self esteem. I used to have it, i think, a long time ago, but somehow i lost it. Not only am i unable to make friends and meet women, i don’t even know how to approach strangers, and start talking to them.

I am 100% socially inept, and quite self concious about everything to the point that i have become neurotic and paranoid.

With all that, i am willing to pick up a hammer and start fixing this, but before i start whacking away in a aimless frenzy, id like to know some tips to improve myself from you fine folks.

So lay it on me, what must i do?

Thanks

As a teenager growing up I was pretty good looking and confident with myself being healthy and athletic. As I got older mental problems crept up and then went all out. I used to just tell girls my interest straight up like "you look hot" or "you look really good today" so-and-so.. and then flirt after or whatever. Basically fearless in pursuing people I really liked.

As I got older with all the madness I became really physically ugly. Now if I try to do it like I did before I just come off as creepy. I hide my feelings and I am so unsuccessful with women. I tried to redo all whole strategy but people find me fake or I’m not doing it with faith or something. Don’t know. People find my disrespectful in general because I am so shy now. How can I improve myself again and get my confidence back? I’ve been alone for a long time now.

Hi all,
I’m 26, and haven’t had a serious relationship in a long time due to health issues(Chronic muscle pain) And now my self esteem is some what low, so im having a hard time both finding women and approaching them. I’ve met a couple online, but nothing ever seems to work out. How do I find some good single women at my age? And how do I approach them? Thanks!

but the animal stays alive and the internal organs are shown working. It is a movie I saw a long time ago and this is the only scene i remember. please it is bugging me .

i have known this girl for a long time now and we good mates how would i go about asking her out as it would be awkward?

I’ve liked this girl for a long time, but I don’t think she likes me back as more than a friend. What should I do?

okay so theres this girl who ive really liked for a long time. like about 3 months. i got to the all boys school and she goes to the girls caltholic school across the street. we are friends and whenever we see eachother i always go up and talk to her as soon as i can and she even sometimes comes up to me. we’ll talk but whenever i flirt with her she just rolls her eyes and walks away. even when its subtle she knows that im flirthing. shes also way "out of my lege" but im totally in love with her. how can i get her to like me without pissing her off and making her walk away?

I have suffered from depression for a long time, and take seroxat to cope. I have always had low self esteem. I come from a family where everyone is successful, every one apart from me that is. I also have never really had a proper relationship with a woman. Sure I have had many one night stands, but I rarely really fancy a woman (in that I would like to have a relationship with her) and on the rare occasions that I have I never had the courage to ask them on a date.
Now I am massively upset. The problem is a woman called Claire. She was a work colleague of a friend of mine. I fancied her the moment I first met her in the pub arms where her and my friend were having a drink after work. She is beautiful, clever, happy, demure but very done to earth and modest.
Over the years I met her a few times, once I chatted with her in a bar for a while and I liked her even more, but at the time she had a boyfriend. Once I went to her birthday and that was embarrassing I felt she knew I fancied her and all her mates were there.
Then one night in another bar she tried to chat to me before she left but I didn’t say much. Now I wish I’d then had the courage to ask her out. Another time was in a wine bar again she chatted to me, but again I did not have the courage to ask her out.
Each time I did not have the confidence probably due to I was only a student at the time or my job at the time was very low paid, and I felt I had no prospects.
Then she started going out with a guy, first she moved in with him. Then one night came the bombshell, he had asked her to marry him. My friend told me that she told him not to waste money on a ring, this made me love her even more. My job prospects had now improved and I now even owned my own flat.
Finally she left the UK to live with him in Hong Kong. Then my friend dropped the second bombshell that she is now pregnant.
I had always hoped I may one day marry her and now I realise that that is never going to happen. I fantasize, every minute it seems, that we are married, and how lovely it would be, only to brought back to reality and the sense of euphoria to become one of immense depression.
I spend hours wishing I could go back in time and play my hand differently, and asked her out when I had the chance; to the point it drives me crazy. I feel I had the chance and I blew it.
I now feel I will always lead a lonely life as I have no interest in other women as I compare them to Claire and they always fall way short. I feel extremely low even suicidal at times, I feel like a zombie that is just existing not living.

Ok, so I’ve liked this girl at my school for a really long time. I’m a little overweight and have really low self confidence, so I’ve never even talked to her… How can I get to know her?

I remember a long time ago, when the xbox was new, a game that involved picking up women. Any ideas, or am I crazy? Thanks.

  
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