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Im 20 yrs old and I find alot of white girls attractive but have never really got around to dating any. All I ever date are black women but I think white girls are hot. Also im from the hood..lol ..but I have a good job and I know how to be respectful to women. I just dont really know how to approach white women especially since im never sure whether or not she even likes black men
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O.k I’m in grade 12…its kinda sad, I am a quiet kid, im always afraid of looking weird~ but i have sort of passed up that feeling….
Peopl have come up to me and say that I am cute, But again, I just dont have the courage..or some say "balls" to actually go up….and start talking….
I actually do, but i dont know what to say???? Should I just introduce my self, "hi My name is.." or what else can do that will attract attention? A lot of people say im tooooo quiet lol, like how could I change this perception??
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i notice i do not do anything and yet they flock to me or think im a lesbian (close, i am bi but i like men more now). i dont know what makes them think im interested. i notice whenever i meet a new girl-friend (dash intended) they tend to act cute towards me and cuddle as if im a guy!, i have no idea how to react.. 2 girls have already confessed to me this year. I mean, do i exuberate some sort of masculine vibe that makes women believe im a man or even interested in them? Ugh. Is it my natural assertiveness?The avatar is me, i mean do i look like a transsexual? Its not my fault that most guys nowadays are metrosexual puss*ies. 
yes read my profile description. my contact and i were playing a game.
" like i am the guy and they are the weak girls who need to be protected!" exactly. most of my girl-friends in high school tend to act that way around me. lol xD we have the same life, same birthday mai!
Capricorn: lol. sure 
NavyBlue: haha XD i like video games… doesn’t make me a guy!! lol yeah many say i look like a Spanish-Asian… which my grandma is… strong blood she has
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LOOL would you freak out, or be supportive?!
Personally If i find out Key from shinee is getting married I’d probably go hunt the girl… LOL but I’ll attempt to be supportive 
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It seems today that for men to pick up women he either has to work with them, meet them at the club, or join a yoga class lol. but how did men hook up with chicks back in the day? Was there a secret meeting spot or something?
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On the other half … I prefer a woman dressed in soft clothing.
The story begins like this…
The main reason of me asking this question is because there’s this girl I’ve known for a year and a half now. When I started college, she was in my first class. I’m 19 by the way. Are teacher asked us all to get to know eachother. She said, hi my name is …. and I’ll make you laugh a lot this semester.
She did and we meet a lot in the halls of the campus and she still does and I make her laugh. We connect just so damn well. I’m not just infatuated with her I think I fell for her. I’ve put a lot of thinking into all of this. And, the thought of her now is just over taking me. Next time I see her I’m gonna ask her if she has a boyfriend and to hold her hand for that moment.
I’ve dated and gotten played between the time I’ve known her but she hit my heart and I feel like I hit her heart too. I just want are hearts to hit those notes at the same time. I want to be with her and there for her. It’s just so damn intoxicating. I don’t care how long of a distance she lives away from me, I’ve been through that and I’ll do it again. She’s breathtaking. I could write a book and make a song about her.
What should I do? I want my physical attributes to stand strong because what we have psychologically and emotionally and spiritually, I know already connects. I’m getting way to ahead of myself. But I miss her.
The whole clothing thing yeah umm.. I know she gets nervous a little when I put my "strong look on" lol. It’s gonna be a rainy week and I saw her yesterday morning. I was wearing my navy blue hoodie zipped up underneath my black "guess" bomber jacket. I was in my dark blue kenneth cole jeans and nike air maxes I got at a discount. lol. I wasn’t thinking of her that much that day when I decided to dress up. It was just that I had a free day to dress. I didn’t have to go t work after school.
Last time I spoke to her I felt like I numbed her out a little. I dampened my appearance like that. She was still joking and smiling though. I told her family stuff and we talked about school but I kinda kept it limited. Next time I see her though I’m going to tell her how I felt the last time we saw eachother. How I was keeping my guard up and limiting it. Than after telling her that, I’m going to jump boundaries. Asking her if she has a boyfriend and if I could hold her hand. =)
But, any advice just not on the clothing part would greatly be appreciated. Thanks
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A lil heeellpp??
Omg i’m so obsessed with this person I date over the internet.
(: IM SO OBSESSED!! I even dont care about boy bands now I’ve found my perfect person(:
Is this normal? And tell me if you were ever the same with your boy/girl (:
-Peace. x
It’s not Justin Bieber you dumbass ¬.¬
I’m 15 lol.
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i am curious why? i really hate it and move directly on. do any girls not play hard to get? when a girl has to hide there feallings and acts differently just shows me insecurity so i look on. how can you tell if she is not interested or just playing hard to get? and dont you think it pisses people off who is trying to progress. it in know way makes things more interesting typically if someone shows me less interest then my average friend like wont even call me back i just feel time to find some one else who at leasts has a chance to even be a friend let alone worth being in a relationship? can any one explain this to me? do all girls do this? why? do any not do this?
typically when someone is interested in me i would think talking on the phone a few times before the date would be something you do and each calls each other showing mutual interest. just like in a friendship a one sided friendship never works why do people think it helps at all in a relationship? all i can think of is because it save them from some emotion or connection so they keep there distance at first. but doesnt that just express insecurity? and why would i be attracted to that?
is there anything unreasonable about the way i think? i would like to know how i can tell if a girl is just playing hard to get compared to not interested so i can seperate the two signs and maybe still give them a chance but by my gut instinct its really unattractive.
haha i find it hilarious how many girls are saying things back to offend me because there offended girls you should read what i said and many of the guys below says and learn from it lol. and not only do i have a girl friend but i am very attractive and have a lot to pick from. i played 4 varsity sports in highschool. very succesful in engineering in college and very succesful at my track and field records in varsity track for my division 1 college. and i have many girls to pick from. by no way am i a virgin lol. i run a 22.0 for the 200 right now my sophmore year. i am not full of my self a good listner and everyone has fun with me i am just curious if all girls do this and who can explain why? from my experience 89 percent of girls do this especially the ones full of them selves. thats why i picked my girlfriend as a shy girl i met in my engineering major not the rest who liked my athleticism and thought they were everything and needed to put no effort into it.
at least i think quasimoto was a girl if not well that explains a lot about him if he is a guy.
stevie your talking about a different breed. your so wrong those are the guys who are simply desperate they are by not any chance the same people we are so dont think we are the same. your so wrong. just think of this are any of those guys your talking about stay in much of a long relationship with you? probably not because they moved on once they found a girl that they had a better starting foundation with. and you probably think there all jerks. thats why you play games because you have been hurt and are a bit insecure. the fact is the guys who dont hurt girls and now what they are doing find girls they have a lasting connection with because they arent desperate. also we dont wait until we have feallings to break away from you thats to late we can tell before hand it wont work. its the guys who are insecure who do that and then end up jerks because they become players just like you. for the same reason. the non players know when to move on and whats compatible
also i never said i wouldnt chase a girl. i have no problem expressing my feelings and showing them i like them. i do that very easily and make sure they feel secure about that. i am just saying when a girl likes me if she cant reciprocate that because she wants to play games then i move on. and i dont have anything against shy girls i have dated them. but i do have a problem with the girls who date a lot of guys and are not shy but just out to play games or think they have to do that to get a guy that to me just shows insecurity and is very unnatractive all guys here understand that.
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this guy asked me out after we chatted online duirng college summer break. I said "no" BECAUSE I WASN"T READY…he told me to tell him when I was. i did/do like him though! i was just in a bad place atm.we stay friends, he gets a g/f. they break up. i tell him how i feel (this is all within a year). he said he’s still heartbroken over the girl and has things he wants to work on so HE ISN"T READY lol. he says he doesn’t want me to be his rebound but finds me very attractive (note he NEVER SAYS HE actually wants to date me/is interested). i tell him the door is open and he thinks me for that. I think my flirting can be too blunt for him, so he pulled back and became distant, so i stopped then he started giving me more attention. i treated him like a normal friend and now he’s much nicer lol. yet he looks at me a lot and sometimes can’t look at me in the eye when we talk. we chat online and sometimes he texts me now (before he ignored them) but he does that with friends so…we went on break and came back…he seemed really happy to see me and when he came over my friend;s dorm while i was there i answered and his face lit up and he said hi to me in this really low/sweet voice, but much more animated and goofy when he greeted my friend, but he hugged her and not me! he seems more "serious" with me) lol i don’t know…then when I mentioned how i wouldn’t be around our senior society that we are in all that much, he seemed upset. WHY!? If he wants to hang out he knows where to find me lol.
edit: oh once i told him it would be "radical if he dated a black girl" only as a joke and he seriously said "that wouldn’t be radical, unless Iw ere racist.. haha. last night i was tipsy with a friend and thought it be a joke to text him that i wanted to make out and my friend added to it that i needed my sugar daddy (we kid like this…) he didn’t respond, but today i saw him and he was really nice and we all were hanging out watching football and he gave me his last beer and everytime he would talk he looked only at me, even when answering someone else’s question! He said i should watch the game with him next week. oh and he kept saying my name and looking at me when making fun of our friend in the room who called me the wrong name. sorry, i know im reading wayyy too much into this ugh
if u don’t have the time get off the fuking internet b itch
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Like…if I am smart enough and good looking enough, can I basically say whatever I want? I am shy and have never thought about this approach. But, really, it’s her lose if she doesn’t want to talk to a person like me…doing so would surely help her ego..yyeah yah..I know. But I am so shy and now I am thinking like..a women is not going to approach me the way I want a women to. So, I guess I have to do the work. I am not looking for a hook up…marriage is my goal! I just want to have some fun, maybe making out and a little oral LOL..That’s gotta be bad…I can’t help it.
high IQ, good looks…high ego? Maybe..But maybe it’s just the "right" ego. IDK…I don’t act conceited. I just act the perfect way. Besides being shy. Because being shy is insufficient. Right? Aristotle…mean, insufficient, or ? Damn. I should have studied more in Philsophy!
Obviously..I meant everything I would want to say. IQ is the main part of how you interact with people, right? Like, you read and react…it’s simple. I just hate when I have nothing to read nor react. If 2 girls come into the bar, and they start talking…why do they need me? I seem superflous. I hate that.
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How do i attract women?…im freshly groom have a very mature personality but yet goofy, i have goals in life, a job and a car but for some reason i still can’t attract them….im not ugly or anything but its like im not getting looks or if they are looking i never notice until a friend tells me then its too late…what am i suppose to do im out of my mind with this, first i though maybe its the city im in so when my family decides to move to another city its the same thing…when i do talk to some women i get the "I have a boyfriend" line or they just don’t seem interested im a nice dude i have flaws but im not the type who do people wrong or women in that matter…i can talk about anything and listen to what women have to say but still i just can’t get that attraction i see other guys get and i don’t see anything different from what i do expect for some which i see like wow she interested in that dude and he’s a scrub lol what do i do?…..*Serious Answers only plz*
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Every single day I see some really beautiful women in my neighborhood, i’m 20 years old and I don’t wanna come across as creepy so I usually avoid them…. I just feel the urge to talk to them ask them out for their number, for a date.. But I’m afraid they will think I’m some crazy guy who could be some psychopath lol.
What is the best way, because I don’t like missing out on good opportunities, btw these women are usually older than me so is it worth it?
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Every single day I see some really beautiful women in my neighborhood, i’m 20 years old and I don’t wanna come across as creepy so I usually avoid them…. I just feel the urge to talk to them ask them out for their number, for a date.. But I’m afraid they will think I’m some serial killer. lol.
What is the best way, because I don’t like missing out on good opportunities, btw these women are usually older than me so is it worth it?
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Im kind of having a hard time building confidence to talk to a girl. I mean Ive gotten alot of comments on saying that "Im cute" lol and things like that but I cant seem to get enough confidence to go up and talk to a girl. Its more of a problem I dont really know how to approach them and what to say. Any help?
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I’m 17, fit (ish 4 pack lol), alright looking, and currently single. I’ve just moved to Hawaii, and am attending a new highschool, I’d appreciate any advice (regarding attracting women) you can throw at me providing it is useful. Thanks much, this is my first Yahoo Q btw.
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im 18 in this saturday (i live in austalia incase u americans r wondering lol) and i want to go to the casino "star city" in sydney i was wondering if it is easy to pick up women in the casnio or the bar? lol thanks
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im 18 in this saturday (i live in austalia incase u americans r wondering lol) and i want to go to the casino "star city" in sydney i was wondering if it is easy to pick up women in the casnio or the bar? lol thanks
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