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The last 8 girls I’ve dated (no joke) were head-over-heels for me for some period of time…for the first date, for a few months of dating and passionate love-making, and time frames in between as well. Each time, whether I am the ‘nicest guy’ in the world, or if I act ‘rebelliously’ and typically just the same way I’d been acting while we were dating, they either change how they act towards me or completely tell me off and that I disgust them. Some of them I allow to string me along knowing they don’t care about me, but I’m desperate for them because of their looks or how society treats you when you’re in the company of a beautiful woman.

Regardless, why are there tons of guys who breakup with girls and those girls either can’t get over it or ponder what made him do it, yet I am always on the losing end of the stick. Like, if I try to tell a girl that we should cool down a bit because we’re moving too fast, she’ll assume I’m an a-hole when I really truly like her. I’m a good communicator, I’m bright, I’m not too bad on the eyes. I’m always smiling and I have a deep side as well..What could it be?

You psychobabble people, is it mother issues somehow involved? My parents got divorced and my mother was sort of absent as she had to be the head of the household, but I still really love her. I tend to date women who are totally opposite of my mother in most ways. And if I did have a parent who was ineffective in raising me because she was overextending herself or she liked my brother more than me, would this really cause me to be attracted to (and attract) women who are way off their rocker. What in God’s name could be the reason that the night before a woman asks me to "…be her man" and then the next day tell me that I’m a crazy idiot who doesn’t think well or speak well…? I’m at a loss, I really am…You psychologists maybe can help me, cuz I am starting to believe that either "all women are crazy" and those guys who can tame them are skilled craftsmen who know how to keep a crazy in her place, or "most" women are crazy and there are a "chosen" few who date only guys like Derek Jeter and David Beckham…Or, there’s something about "me" that has and will continue to prevent normal relationships with basically ALL women who I encounter more than once. Thoughts? Psychologists? Where are ya?
Sorry I meant ‘psychobabble’ in a completely non-negative light. I’m a filmmaker and I’m shooting a movie right now where the script calls for the lead female character to recite passages that are supposed to help her deal with a loss of a loved one.

She says things like, "The gratitude of the love has conquered the loss" and then she just gets really upset and throws the anxiety workbook down that her psychologist gave her.

I honestly only referred to it as ‘psychobabble’ because that scene that I had written was on my mind. I actually see a shrink and have the utmost respect for LCSW people and psychologists and counselors, it was just a slip up
The girl screams out "Psychobabble!" "BS!" "Psychobabble!" but it’s not how I feel at all…Sometimes people feel this way because counselors (ineffective ones) sometimes don’t show enough empathy but just tell victims to "move on" or "he would’ve wanted you to find someone new" but as my lead character says, "it’s easy to offer advice when it hasn’t happened to you." Ineffective help is worse than no help at all, IMHO.

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This is the type of person i am to a friend
i know when a Friend is felling down and what to say to make thing better
i know when to quit say a joke if it offends friend
when a friend is felling lonely even if i’m having fun i would go and cheer them up
i listen to there problems and care it with them (but many don’t do the same for me)
i’m smart
i say some dirty jokes because i’m a guy
i don’t lie (but i don’t always say the whole truth for a reason)
i don’t get mad easily and i think i look fairly well

http://s1224.photobucket.com/albums/ee373/laryglass/?action=view&current=60175_151968548167543_100000631963777_312942_677986_n.jpg&newest=1

so whats wrong

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First im an American, and my grandparents are from the middle east, Im Greek and lived in america my whole life. Anyway; Most of the Gorgeous women want guys with a high degree and there are alot of guys who either can afford only two years and some can’t afford college. My question is, Why is it so hard for a guy like myself who doesn’t have any friends, live by myself alone or doesn’t have not have no one to talk to, to attract a lady, I alway attract women all the time where ever i go its always just,. Most of them when they see me all the sudden im always being judged where they don’t want to talk. And Im not being the cougar, Talking to a lady is not a problem, The problem it getting her to talk to me so things can go further. My attitude is good and i always keep a smile on my face. I no there are some women who don’t care about how many years of education a guy has but it seems like now that is what every women i have met is out for. This drives me crazy. i have some college and im a great guy but its like they just won’t give me the time and day. And just because im lonely and don’t have any friends or anyone to talk to doesn’t mean im crazy or stupid or something is wrong. I no alot of people like that but in general, I need help seriously, I have worked all my life and nothing good never happend until 6 years ago and finally when things started to come together still nothing with the ladies and im a 30 year old homeowner, and Im just tired of looking. people always told me to keep on looking but its not doing me no good and the concept about how women are looking for a good guy well to me thats bullshit, because what i have see thats just a foolish joke. thats why so many are with assholes that can’t take care of them. So, if anyone can help i would appreciate it because this is serious.
This question, im not making any remarks or comparison to anyone, if you think that then you need to read this again and again. Thank you

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So my friends and I joke with each other a lot and we talked about our plans on going to Puerto Rico. Well, my friend said that a White or Black guy would make the women there go crazy and the women there go crazy for men who are Black or White. Now my friends told me that the women there would probably ignore an Indian guy and they have a negative view of us.

Not that we are going there to pick up women or anything but I am wondering, is it true that Puerto Rican women have a negative view of Indian men and in general would take a Black or White guy over them regardless of personality, how well the person looks or profession?

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I’m 27 years old and I’ve never had a girlfriend. In fact, the most contact I’ve ever had with women was with prostitutes. I don’t want to spend the rest of my life this way.

In a nutshell, this is my life and how I got trapped in this rut: I grew up in an abusive household(Not toward me, but mother and father always fighting), then I would go to high school and get picked on by everyone(girls and boys). I had an acne problem so dating me was the big "in-joke" amongst the girls.

Following high school, I lost my father to cancer and my mother, suffering from numerous disabilities(physical and mental), I was thrust straight into the workforce at 18, where I’ve been since. I tried putting myself through college but bills and my hectic work schedule forced me to withdraw.

So here I am now, nearly 10 years later, still working in an all male environment, I’ve never had a girlfriend, I don’t have any female friends, none of my male friends ever come through with introducing me to anyone.

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I have a guy friend and he IMs me every night starting conversation and we have this inside joke about spanking… and every night somehow we get onto the topic of spanking and I’ll say something joking around and he’ll be like "You’re asking for a spanking… that’s it, I’m spanking you’ etc etc.

It happens every day. Is this normal?

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i cant really flirt at all which is a big problem. i get shy nervous scared what ever you want to call i cant approch girls, talk to em. im basicaly a "shy guy" i have a pretty horrible opinion of myself and get reminded of why im a piece of sh*t so i have a low self esteem. alot of people think im a joke and am weird. i am on the football and wrestling team at my high school so i do have something going for me i guess. and im mocked and laughed at and about by the girl i praticaly fell in love with. so ya thats me. im 17 and im gonna be an 11th grader next year. I have a real good friend whose helping me out but, how can i help my self out with the other problems im having?

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The woman’s sexual desire for the man in this mortal realm is a joke.
When they think of sex, they only think of what he can do, how they feel, they don’t think about him looking sexy and think how lucky they are this sexy guy is doing them.
Isn’t the woman’s lack of physcial sexual desire for the man’s body part of the curse males carry with them as a result of Adam sinning in the Garden of Eden?
Most women are unfortunately bi-sexual and can just turn off their desire for the man(even sexually) as easily as the flip of a switch(this is a mockery of the man’s uncontrollable sexual desire for the woman).

If there is a God, he didn’t design women’s bodies or minds with this extremely strong burning desire to REALLY WANT AND REALLY NEED sex with men as vice versa.

For men, sex is more than just physical, it is also about fulfilling his actual sexual desire for what he finds sexy, a concept that women do not possess for men.

If God intended for women to sexually desire men more than other women both in terms of compansionship and in terms of the visual and God successfully did this, he quickly made the male form ugly to women in the Garden of Eden after Adam sinned as part of all mens’ punishment(for Adam’s mistake), while he let women keep their sex appeal but gave them painful periods and painful childbirth.

But since we’re supposed to be in a different body than the body of a decendant of Adam after Adam sinned, surely women MUST find men more sexually attractive than they do in this mortal realm.

And don’t give this BS about how we’re not going to have sex in the afterlife or Heaven. I think we will be able to and I think we most defintiely will. If we still have our gender and our sex organs, then we still have the ABILITY to have sex, even if it’s just for recreation and fun and pleasure and fullfilling sexual desire. For horny virgin men in their 40s to suddenly die before having sex, they’re going to want to experience this as spirits in Heaven, and if it’s what they want, then surely they’ll get it.
I believe in the afterlife, even in heaven, when men approach women for sex, women will find men so much more desirable in that realm than here, they will almost never say no, and sex will almost always happen between male spirits and female spirits.
Afterall, for this to be the ONLY realm where we can have sex, but then after we die it’s too late and we couldn’t even if we tried, that would be cruel of God, especially on men, since men desire sex with women moreso than vice versa, at least in this mortal realm anyway..
ON A SIDE NOTE,
If there are more exclusively straight men than exclusively straight women, yet, the population between the genders is 50/50, the only ways we can balance this out and make sure all straight get the women they want is by
A) Legalizing prostitution
B) Convincing straight women to be more "easy" and sleep around with lots of men
C) Have more women cheat on their boyfriends and husbands by sleeping with other men.
If there are unfortunately too many bisexual and lesbian women in a society of 50% men and 50% women, then one, two, or all three of those above ooptions are the ONLY WAY to solve this, assuming we don’t legalize rape.

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Ok the problem is this, ive met this girl on facebook through a mutual but we have never seen each other face to face. im 21 and shes 17

we’ve been chatting for a while now, 2 weeks minimum.

i like this girl and ive told her and that i would like to meet her, as a joke i said who ever gets the highest in the theory test we are both going to take soon, will bring the other winner out, where the winner wants to go.

i said to her i like to and i want to get to know you better, facebook and whatsapp isnt the best way to get to know her. i said i dont wana waste your and my time, do tell me if ur not interested, and said so are we kool about this ? she said yes

then i told her a few days ago lets meet up i cant wait for the theory thing and she said she didnt feel comfortable going out with someone she doesnt know.

before i said im going to a strip club for a mates birthday and she said she wished she could come with me, i had another birthday and she was interested in coming with me before.

i told her if shes ever going to come out with me and she said she may spontaneously decide to go out with me one day, i told her tha our first date will be so fun n will have the best time of her life ‘wikid’ lol

whats her problem ? how could i get her to go out with me on a date ?

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unlike your counterparts…

Culture (don’t just say this) /nerves/low esteem/not wanting to be like your counterparts of other ethnicities/respect for women/any other reasons, etc…

They’ll stare, tell their friends, come up and stare, sometimes can’t answer when I try and talk, confess when DRUNK, etc. – no joke!

ON AVERAGE…and this is according to my experiences as well as all my friends and other women who complain.

How do you MEET WOMEN when you don’t approach??

EXPLAIN PROPERLY!

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Me and a few friends were talking about this the other night, one of our friends has some issues with picking up women, and he was trying to get advice on how to talk to girls and what not. No joke, he’s pretty bad at it sorry too say…but a guy was telling him how to be confident, and just talk to them no matter what, and start flirting right off no matter if she’s with her girl friends or not.

My friend got a little alcohol in him, and tried talking to a few girls, and to be honest it was a little awkward to watch, I think he was honestly trying to be more confident and just try and make them laugh, but it didn’t really end that well. Is there really hope for every guy?

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this guy asked me out after we chatted online duirng college summer break. I said "no" BECAUSE I WASN"T READY…he told me to tell him when I was. i did/do like him though! i was just in a bad place atm.we stay friends, he gets a g/f. they break up. i tell him how i feel (this is all within a year). he said he’s still heartbroken over the girl and has things he wants to work on so HE ISN"T READY lol. he says he doesn’t want me to be his rebound but finds me very attractive (note he NEVER SAYS HE actually wants to date me/is interested). i tell him the door is open and he thinks me for that. I think my flirting can be too blunt for him, so he pulled back and became distant, so i stopped then he started giving me more attention. i treated him like a normal friend and now he’s much nicer lol. yet he looks at me a lot and sometimes can’t look at me in the eye when we talk. we chat online and sometimes he texts me now (before he ignored them) but he does that with friends so…we went on break and came back…he seemed really happy to see me and when he came over my friend;s dorm while i was there i answered and his face lit up and he said hi to me in this really low/sweet voice, but much more animated and goofy when he greeted my friend, but he hugged her and not me! he seems more "serious" with me) lol i don’t know…then when I mentioned how i wouldn’t be around our senior society that we are in all that much, he seemed upset. WHY!? If he wants to hang out he knows where to find me lol.

edit: oh once i told him it would be "radical if he dated a black girl" only as a joke and he seriously said "that wouldn’t be radical, unless Iw ere racist.. haha. last night i was tipsy with a friend and thought it be a joke to text him that i wanted to make out and my friend added to it that i needed my sugar daddy (we kid like this…) he didn’t respond, but today i saw him and he was really nice and we all were hanging out watching football and he gave me his last beer and everytime he would talk he looked only at me, even when answering someone else’s question! He said i should watch the game with him next week. oh and he kept saying my name and looking at me when making fun of our friend in the room who called me the wrong name. sorry, i know im reading wayyy too much into this ugh
if u don’t have the time get off the fuking internet b itch

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The last 8 girls I’ve dated (no joke) were head-over-heels for me for some period of time…for the first date, for a few months of dating and passionate love-making, and time frames in between as well. Each time, whether I am the ‘nicest guy’ in the world, or if I act ‘rebelliously’ and typically just the same way I’d been acting while we were dating, they either change how they act towards me or completely tell me off and that I disgust them. Some of them I allow to string me along knowing they don’t care about me, but I’m desperate for them because of their looks or how society treats you when you’re in the company of a beautiful woman.

Regardless, why are there tons of guys who breakup with girls and those girls either can’t get over it or ponder what made him do it, yet I am always on the losing end of the stick. Like, if I try to tell a girl that we should cool down a bit because we’re moving too fast, she’ll assume I’m an a-hole when I really truly like her. I’m a good communicator, I’m bright, I’m not too bad on the eyes. I’m always smiling and I have a deep side as well..What could it be?

You psychobabble people, is it mother issues somehow involved? My parents got divorced and my mother was sort of absent as she had to be the head of the household, but I still really love her. I tend to date women who are totally opposite of my mother in most ways. And if I did have a parent who was ineffective in raising me because she was overextending herself or she liked my brother more than me, would this really cause me to be attracted to (and attract) women who are way off their rocker. What in God’s name could be the reason that the night before a woman asks me to "…be her man" and then the next day tell me that I’m a crazy idiot who doesn’t think well or speak well…? I’m at a loss, I really am…You psychologists maybe can help me, cuz I am starting to believe that either "all women are crazy" and those guys who can tame them are skilled craftsmen who know how to keep a crazy in her place, or "most" women are crazy and there are a "chosen" few who date only guys like Derek Jeter and David Beckham…Or, there’s something about "me" that has and will continue to prevent normal relationships with basically ALL women who I encounter more than once. Thoughts? Psychologists? Where are ya?

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the girl/or guy gets kidnapped by his/her friends and is put in the trunk as a joke because the friends are trying to surprise her/him for their birthday. and when they open the trunk she/he is dead because she/he swallowed the eight ball that they had put in her/his mouth.

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First off, I’m a sophomore. There is this girl Danielle who i really like. No joke, she is the most amazing girl i have ever met. she is smart, funny, athletic, one of the prettiest girls that i have ever seen. i think about her a lot, but not in a creepy way. okay so i don’t know how close to get before i should ask her out. i don’t want to become too close to her i don’t think because then she might think of me as just a friend. one of my friends likes her too though, but i don’t think she likes him that way because she already turned him down once. (is that wrong to like someone that your friend likes?) and i don’t know how much to talk to her. i don’t want to seem like some creep that talks to or texts her all the time. and another thing is the "touch barrier" what kind of touching is kinda flirty but not awkward for the girl to show that i care about her? o, and what kind of compliments and how often is it good to compliment a girl? and at what point is it not weird to hang out just one on one because whenever i hang out with her it is with a group unless if it is walking with her to class alone or after school to her car. any help on this is great. i need as much advice as i can get because sadly, i have never had a girlfriend, but neither have any of my friends really. (no i am not a geek, i am athletic, smart, and decent looking.)
o and for the record, i know her already and talk to her at school every day basically.
o update!!!!:
she told my friend who also liked her that she doesn’t like him that way.

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So at work,

Theres this girl there that I’ve worked with for 2 years and we always got a long. Never any problems what so ever we talked joked around a lot and so on. One day a co-worker and I ran to her car and asked her for a ride to our cars in the parking lot. She ran to her car locked the doors and said haha sorry. As a joke, we stood behind her so she couldn’t leave but she just reversed anyway and almost ran us over and we just moved out of the way. She purposely went slow and my friend chased her car (as a joke) we were all laughing and it was all good. The next day she accuses us for harassment! We were in shock and our boss barely let us talk and explain the situation and fired us. Me and this girl were joking around 5 minutes before the incident when she was saying to me that no one liked me and i had no friends (once again a joke). Do i have any chance of doing anything or am I screwed?

thanks for reading

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