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Well I am usually a very nice guy. I go out of my way to be nice to people, and especially the ladies. I mean I am not a suck up, I just am not a jerk usually.

My friends tell me to bulk up etc, and act like an ass to attract women, but when I tried that in the past, I ended up feeling as if I was trying to live as someone who is not me. Usually I am alittle quiet, but I am always smiling and extraverted, and get along with people just fine, but when it comes to picking up women and getting somewhere with them, I get lost in transition, and nothing happens. I have had encounters with women in the past where I was almost able to find someone, yet at the same time in a moment’s notice, everything changed, and she lost interest in me (Bar scenario).

Usually older women find me more attractive for some reason, yet I can never get anywhere with girls at my age. Here are some pics and transitions I have went through. Sometimes I think it has to do with my race and sometimes I think it has to do with the way I look or dress up. Personality wise the only bad thing I might have is strong headedness, but that rarely ever comes into play.

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Pics of my room for all it’s worth. Maybe you can judge my personality by that.

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I want you to tell me, what to do and how to fix it. If it can’t be fixed, i’d like to know that too (good to know where you stand), I can update info or answer anything through the details feature.
I am 21, and a virgin! see I have an issue.

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Now girls have told me that I’m too nice, and they would let their daughters marry me. But never themselves. I’m 21, and without a girlfriend or any idea on how to attract a girl. How can I become more of a jerk to attract women? What kind of man do women need? I’m already trying to act more selfish and more self centred.

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Now girls have told me that I’m too nice, and they would let their daughters marry me. But never themselves. I’m 21, and without a girlfriend or any idea on how to attract a girl. How can I become more of a jerk to attract women? What kind of man do women need? I’m already trying to act more selfish and more self centred.

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Now girls have told me that I’m too nice, and they would let their daughters marry me. But never themselves. I’m 21, and without a girlfriend or any idea on how to attract a girl. How can I become more of a jerk to attract women? What kind of man do women need? I’m already trying to act more selfish and more self centred.

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Do women actually like nice guys at all? and even consider them for dating?
I try to always be nice to girls, especially those of which i have liked in the past, and it has gotten me nowhere. I know all about book sources such as ‘The Game- how to pick up women’ and how they work and how to apply them, but i never use them because i want to try to establish a relationship (before i go crazy), on just being nice rather than a strategic mind trick most pick up artist would use. But i’ve had no luck so far.

But girls who i am not attracted to, i would say that i unintentionally wouldn’t treat as nice as i would otherwise, always seem to like me. Theoretically i should easily be able to establish a relationship with one of these girls, but i am just not attracted to them. They come off slightly, needy.

I’ve tried switching the tables and circumstances, by applying my attitude i would to girls i am not attracted to, to the ones i am – but this doesn’t seem to work either – because then they just think i am a jerk.

What should i do? I am great with conversations and at making girls laugh, and i am often commented upon as ‘cute’ (which i hate), so this is not my issue. Could someone please Analise me and my situation?

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AHHHHH The girl always, alwaaaays, falls for the total jerk. Like Go Mi Nam falls For Tae Kyung (when it SHOULD have been Shin Woo) in You’re Beautiful and Chae Kyung falling for Lee Shin (when it SHOULD have been Yul) in Goong. It just makes me angry, and it makes me soo sad cause the other good guys get their heart broken >.<
So is there an actual drama, Japanese, Korean, or Taiwanese, whatever, that the girl goes for the GOOD guy? Please, and thank you’s!!!

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I’m a 16 year old guy, and my mom wants to get me a Chevrolet Cruze because it is safe and gets good gas mileage. Is it considered a "girly" car? If so, do you have any other suggestions that are safe and get good gas mileage? Thanks!
It’s because I went on foreign study for a year and had to go back a grade because I missed a year of school, jerk. The Cruze was a suggestion and I’m just curious.

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I’m really really confused about how to walk up and talk to women. Women are usually very cold, aloof and not often very friendly to me and I don’t really understand why. I look nice, I’m not a jerk nor an overly nice guy. And I look and dress nice. I want to get over my fear of approaching women I don’t know, but I’m afraid women will be weirded out, since that’s how they often act if I ask them out.

Let’s say I’m at a nice mall, or on campus at my school, or a festival, just somewhere a lot of people are where it’s not unreasonable for a man to approach, but not a club or a bar. What is the best way to approach if I’m decent looking and dressed well?

The idea I had was if a girl is walking somewhere, to ask for directions, and if she in a friendly manner and I sense she won’t blow me off I’ll smile and say "Oh I know where it was, I just wanted to talk to you. But I had to see if you were friendly first!" and introduce myself. How would you respond to an approach like that? The other thing I want to do is just go up with a smile and say "Hi… you are just so cute, so of course I had to come talk to you."

I’m pretty shy so it’s going to be difficult for me, but I’m dead-set at getting over my fear of approaching attractive women. I hear from time to time that I’m handsome and should have a girlfriend but I just never approach anyone! I don’t want to meet girls at parties or bars or clubs because I’ve had nothing but bad luck with that. Any advice would be appreciated!
I know the obvious things, like hold eye contact, don’t stare at her breasts, smile, ask open ended questions, have a sense of humor, don’t be needy or beg for her number/a date, don’t talk about myself too much, etc. What else needs to be there for there to be chemistry?

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we have a weird relationship, she’s my best frnd’s sis and i asked his permission and he said i could date her. so i asked her out and she said she wants to be friends. we’ve grown closer ever since and she came to call me bro and i call her lil sis, but i just have a feeling its just a game i have to play, coz she laughs at most of my jokes and always gets physical like strangling me playfully n stuff, maintains eye contact, keeps telling me im cute all the time and takes pictures of me and also pics of both of us together, and smiles at me in a friendly way all the time. but i dont kno if she thinks its a game too, its just a feeling i get.

so i started getting more confident and i kno im loads better than that broken up shell she turneed down. ive known her for 4 years, and her bday was a few days ago, so i decided to go ahead and buy her a gift for the first time because we werent really close in her previous birthdays. Anyway i bought her a cute little necklace that i thought would fit the brotherly image, with no hearts or anything so as to make sure she wudnt "misunderstand me", and she has a thing for the twilight series so i gave her one of the books that used to be mine n told her i hate the series and that i dun want it back. she got all happy and blew me kisses, and said: i so wanna hug you right now, but she just stayed where she was and i just said bye and left coz it was time for me to go, but it wasnt the least bit awkward tho.

is there any way she might consider me for something more, or am i doomed to the friend zone? i really like this girl and i really need some good advice. (btw thats not how i think of her, i just listed all the hints i thought might help you guys judge, im not a jerk. ill be whatever she wants me to be, whether its her bro, her friend or her bf)

im really sorry this makes such a big read but its complicated and i had to write all that stuff

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