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Me and my buddy who is an expert on getting girls, were talking during lunch, and me mentioned to me that the reason why he is so good at picking up women is because he just doesn’t care about the outcome. basically, he’s not scared of rejection. i don’t think i’m scared of rejection nessessarily, but my main problem here is, i don’t have the balls to just go up to any random girl and talk to her. i know how to talk to girls in general like at bus stops or an employee somewhere, but i want to explain a couple situations where i just wanted to kick myself in the head afterwards.
the first situation was yesterday when i was sitting at a park on a very nice day reading my book on a bench under the shade. a girl was laying on the grass alone with one of those headphones that hug your ears on. she was drop dead gorgeous and i wanted so bad to go up and talk to her but there were several things stopping me. first of all, she was laying right in the middle of an open field of grass so i figured if i walked up to her, she would get the hint that i was trying to get with her and my main thing i avoid is not to look so desperate because that’s creepy even in my mind. secondly, she had headphones in her ears which would mean that i would have to make it obvious that i was talking to her because i would have to give her a signal and she would have to take them off to hear me. but she was alone, wasn’t with anybody.
the second was when i was walking around campus and saw this girl sitting at a bench by the pond. of course, she was drop dead gorgeous too. but again, i just didn’t have the balls to go up and talk to her and get her number or whatever because i figured if she saw me walk across that field towards her, she would get the hint that i’m trying to talk to her and to me, that sounds like desperation.
can anyone give me some help on this? thanks in advance.
-joe