Can't approach or talk to women!!?

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I really suck when it comes to picking up girls. When I see a girl I would like to talk to I wait for her to come and talk to me because I am kind of afraid to make the first move. It feels like as much as I want to get to know her, I just can’t like there is something inside of me that is stopping me. I think I might be afraid of rejection or the fear that I will run out of things to say and it will just get awkward because I am a shy person and I hate it. I have read a fair amount on how to approach women but I just can’t get over the first hurdle and actually put it into action. I’m almost 18 and still in high school and this happens at school and during parties also. Someone please help me take the first step.

Can't approach or talk to women!!?

I really suck when it comes to picking up girls. When I see a girl I would like to talk to I wait for her to come and talk to me because I am kind of afraid to make the first move. It feels like as much as I want to get to know her, I just can’t like there is something inside of me that is stopping me. I think I might be afraid of rejection or the fear that I will run out of things to say and it will just get awkward because I am a shy person and I hate it. I have read a fair amount on how to approach women but I just can’t get over the first hurdle and actually put it into action. I’m almost 18 and still in high school and this happens at school and during parties also. Someone please help me take the first step.

How should I approach girls at the mall….?

….without looking like a complete creep or weirdo?

I’m still young, I’m 21. But I don’t know how to approach women, how should I approach them at the mall? What can I use to start up a conversation and score her number at the end.

Falling for the wrong women is getting real old real quick?

Their seems to be a pattern, why do I fall for the same type of woman often? Im a genuine nice sincere man, I think my problem is im to nice. I want a woman that compliments my personality and qualities not the opposite. The crazy wild woman are not for me, not that I cant hang its just they tend to do what they want when they want. Any suggestions on what to do or how to approach women differently. Ladies Fellas help ya boi out cause this shit is really getting ridiculous!!

What are the things the pick up artist, Neil Strauss and mystery say to do to talk to women?

What advice did they give to ow to approach women and the signs that a girl is into you? Please no advice on what they do in clubs but how to approach women when out solo or a gym.

I am 20 and have never had a girlfriend. Will this be a turn off to women?

I have also never kissed a girl and had any experiences with women since elemantary school. I have never even had a female friend. Can you give me advice on how to approach women for a relationship? And when I do get into a relationship will my flaws be easily exposed?

Embarrassing question. How can I find a girlfriend by Christmas?

Just need a nice girl to bring home to show the folks. I don’t understand why it’s so hard since I’m really not even a bad looking guy.I just don’t know how to approach women.

And I’m starting to think my uncles think I’m gay…sigh.

how to approach a girl in public :p?

I’m having trouble ’bout how to approach women in public..because I dont know of her..I mean she’s a stranger…
whats the pick up line you know..?
have you ever felt the same..words even wont come out of your mouth….

What is the best way to approach a woman?

Whenever I see a woman I find attractive that I would like to go talk to, I freeze up. I can’t bring myself to go over and talk to her. I don’t know why this is but if anyone has any advice on how to approach women please let me know. Also any advice on what to say after "Hi" would be great. I am not exactly conversationally dumb, but I get nervous after I say hi and I just make a fool of myself.

Could women tell me if what my girlfriend told me about how to approach women is true?

First, let me clarify that my girlfriend is a friend that is a girl. She is a hot chilean model that has win several beauty pageants. I was kind of sad and decided to ask her, how to approach women. She told me that the secret is not to show interest. But by not showing interest, it does not mean being a snob. It means not showing her interest in a physical or provocative manner. I should show her interest in friendly manner and I should not talk that much. For example, if I see a beautiful girl working in a store or maybe being a host in a restaurant, a perfect way of winning her heart is the following. Just go towards her, calmly give her a chocolate and tell her "You look tired, I hope this can brighten your day!." She will be thrilled with the gesture, even if she responds to you or not. If she does not respond, walk away. If she does, STAY QUIET! and let her do the talking. The secret at this point, is not talking that much and let her do the talking. If you get her phone, call her after a couple of days, but do not let a whole week pass. In conclusion, just advance to a woman and give her a nice compliment that reflects friendliness. Do not mention her clothes, or how her smiles makes you happy, or how classy she is, or how seeing her has brighten your day. Anything that has to do with her body, clothes or gesture ignites her defensive mechanism. After reading this, could anyone answer the following questions"
1) Is this true,?
2) Could the previous example actually win the attention or heart of a woman?
3) Would you please give more examples to win the attention of woman in the following scenarios: a) working in mall
b)party or club
c) gym
d) university
4) Could you please give me your personal input and advice?
Thanks!
Please, give me input without using CHOCOLATE. I do not carry a candy bar wherever I go! LOL!
I suggested that maybe I could give a girl that I have seen that is working all day a bottle of water and tell her " You look tired, I hope this helps you cheer up a little bit!"

Shyness! I am a nice but shy 43 year old man. I don't know how to approach women to meet them. Advice?

I am decent looking, a professional, take care of myself and dress nice. I haven’t dated in almost ten years and have no nearby friends. I want to know how to approach women such as at a Starbucks or the gym. I smile but don’t get much response so I don’t pursue them as I feel like I would be bothering them. I feel helpless in this alot and worry that I may have missed my chance in life at falling in love. I would like advice from women on what they would suggest and any guys who have found ways to overcome this type of problem too. Thanks for your help!
Thanks for the advice. I know I fear alot with approaching women. I find it hard for them to even notice me and then sort of panick if and when they do. I will keep trying.

How to approach women with confidence?

Hi I am 26. I dont know how to approach women with confidence. Today I just say the most ideal girl standing right next in front of me staring at me and I was speechless. I just stared at her for a couple of minutes and I just did not know what to say. And then friends arrived and I went away with them. I dont understand why I get tongue tied.

how do i approach women i like?

i have never had a gf in my life…and its probly my fault because i dotn knwo how to approach women… i mean i can talk to them liek acquaintances..but thats all. otherwise i get nevrous and really shy….

i mean i jsut dont understand wh ya girl would say yes. usually i assume they are already taken…and if not….i figure they would rather be gay than go out with me. i mean lots of girls are really beautiful and nice or funny too….and wear sexy clothes too…

no matter how hard i try there is no way i will ever be able to compete with that kidn of beauty and appeal…being a guy…

what do i do?

How to get into the dating scene?

How exactly are you supposed to get into the dating scene if you’ve never asked anyone on a date before? I’m 20 and i’m in this situation where I don’t even know how to approach women let alone ask them out on a date. Any helpful and meaningful suggestions are welcomed.

How do I approach a woman? Women answers mostly please?

I am a young man and have never dated and I am a little unsure how to approach women. I am a Christian and I want to try to initiate conversations in a respectful manner. Where am I most likely to find true Christian women and how do they like to be approached? How do you know if a woman wants to be approached?

How to approach women in public places like bookstores, coffee shop etc?

Do women like to be approached by decent single men in public places like Bookstores, Coffee shop, Gym etc? If yes, then what is the best way for guys to approach them without freaking them out. The type of women I like are hard to find in clubs and bars, however its difficult to tell if women in other public places are open for relationships. So wondering if its okay to approach them in public places.

1. If its okay, then how to approach women in a public place?
2. If the person is interesting, how to ask for contact information for future meet-up?

thanks in advance for all answers! really appreciate it!

approach women???

how to approach women correctly without being turned down?

How to approach women in public places like bookstores, coffee shop etc?Mainly in universities?

How to approach women in public places
How can u approach a girl whom i had never met.
In a place like universities (I am an Uni student and i want to talk with girls whom i don’t even have the slightest relation i mean they are not in my classes)
Do women like to be approached by decent single men in public places like Bookstores, Coffee shop, Gym etc? If yes, then what is the best way for guys to approach them without freaking them out. The type of women I like are hard to find in clubs and bars, however its difficult to tell if women in other public places are open for relationships. So wondering if its okay to approach them in public places.

1. If its okay, then how to approach women in a public place?say something that i can start a conversation!!
2. If the person is interested, how to ask for contact information for future meet-up?

thanks in advance for all answers! really appreciate it!

should I wait longer for a woman to approach me?

should I wait longer, since they’re more women in this world than men. i’d wait to have them come up to me. i dont know how to approach women I dont know what to say or have a conversation for some reason with them what do I do? im 23 and had only 1 gf.

What is the best way to approach someone you like?

Seen many posts about how to approach women/men they like.

So, coming from women what would you like for a strange men to say if they are interested in you?

Coming from men what would you like for a strange woman to say if they are interested in you?

In my opinion, the woman should just introduce herself and just start a conversation and flirt as well to show the guy she is interested in her.

how do u approach women for one night stands?

Hi,
I’m a 27 years old guy and never had a 1ns. Most of my friends say they had at least one. I would really like to have one but don’t know how to approach women and if I’ll be able to handle it.

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