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,..shouldn’t this mean, by defintion, that there should be hope for all men to sexually attract women and make those women desire them?

it really pis#es me off when I see all this offensive garbage about many women thinking many are scum. Funny how girls liked boys more than vice versa in elementary school than it’s completely the oppsite when they grow up. I refuse to believe it’s hopeless for any man to get the women he sexually desires and sexually succeed with them as long as he’s not mentally retarded or horribly disfigured. If there’s no hope for the man in this lifetime, then it’s only fair God gives him women who desire him and want sex with him in Heaven to make up for the sex he missed out on due to anything wrong with his inability to attract women, which was God’s fault, not his. If he has a small penis and women laugh at that, it was God’s fault, not his. If men can’t sexually attract women physcially in Speedos, then he should be able to sexually attract her with his mind, his words, and his apporach reguardless of what he looks like.
Men are not scum, you idiots. Some of them, in fact, most of them, just often turn into the pathetic, sensitive loser type who try too hard to be something he’s not instead of trying to sexually seduce her, and women lose respect for women as a whole, as a result. Women prefer men who are flat out honest about their sexual desire for her than men who try to cover it with being sensitive and just a friend. I express my sexual desire toward them and they’re cool with me.
"First 18 replies",
That was one hell of a lot of variety among replies. Some good, some bad, some insulting, some agreeing with my message. Everyone truly has their own take on the subject.

It all ways gets me so angry. for example: Woman get over here, Woman stop that, Woman what the hell are you doing.

I hate that so much It’s degrading. Is it the same for any one els?

Do you know why some guy/girl do that?

It all ways gets me so angry. for example: Woman get over here, Woman stop that, Woman what the hell are you doing.

I hate that so much It’s degrading. Is it the same for any one els?

Do you know why some guy/girl do that?

i get a speeding ticket in a school zone its marked 20at all times. i admitt i was doing 30 but the cop said i was doing 45 no way i just pulled out of another street anyway. he doesnt give me a ticket because i cant find my license so he tells me to meet him back at the office after i get off work 3 hrs later. so i do. he shuts the door and proceeds to tell me that if he gives me a ticket for 45 in 20 i go to court but if he writes it as 30 in 20 its a fine only and did i want him to be nice or not? i said i guess i want the 30 since thats how fast i was going. and he said well its not just that easy. he said i could be really nice and throw the ticket away. (this cop has a rep for picking up women and letting them go for sex but i didnt believe it) anyway at that time i just said i think you should start writing that tick. he said but i could still be nice. and i said you do what you need to do and let me leave please he wrote it for 30 do you think he was offering me sex? or what?
i went to meet him because he is the law and he said to meet him and i dont want to go to jail
and as for telling on him what am i suppose to say he offered to be nice to me?
true i heard about his rep because we live in a very small town and everyone knows everyone
what the hell should i be arrested for?? for trying to follow the law and do what i was asked to do? its not like i get a ticket every day that was my first one.

I got called all kinds of things for asking what kinda car to buy to attract women.
And I don’t think it’s fair at all, here’s why:

I don’t give a damn about cars really, they do, so what’s another reason to bother with what kinda car I should get?

I don’t really care about how it looks, how safe or fast it is.
So what’s another reason to bother?

And I don’t like to approach women. When I display ‘nice things’ they approach me instead, that’s just a fact.

99% of women do this also (display ‘nice things’ to make life easier and not have to do the hunting themselves).

So if I’m shallow then 99% of them are too, no?
It’s a FACT about my own personal experience, not an assumption.
I would never spend any more than 30k on a car because it’s dumb as hell, and I don’t borrow money.
And yes it’s possible with something like a Peugeot RCZ 7 (in Norway), or a Honda whatever Accord I rented in the U.S.

Probably not to the same extent as more expensive cars though.

Sometimes I feel attracted to other women, they have much softer skin and I like their personality better, generally speaking. And men really turn me off sometimes, I know they shouldn’t because I am a woman, and should wait until marriage to have relations with my future husband.

By having feelings toward women, I know I am making baby Jesus cry and I will probably end up in hell. My family would never accept my attractions.

How can I turn straight? I have the will power Im sure I can do it if given direction, how can I do this?

Let me explain. You know how they say that in order to get girls to like you, you have to have a good self esteem, confidence, and be proud of yourself or whatever? Well my thing is I don’t feel like any of these things at all, but I think I fake them pretty well. Every time I’m around a female I speak with confidence even though I don’t feel it inside. And I act like I like myself even though I don’t.

My thing is why the hell do I still get blown to the side like I’m nothing? I act like it, I talk like it, am I REALLY suppose to feel it too? How can they tell if I’m lying about everything I say about myself? Can they or do I just suck in general and need to do some more work on myself. I’m getting older and older by the day. How much work do I need until I’m old and gray and alone? I’m 18 but I look like I’m 25-30. I feel like I’m aging quicker then others and won’t have much time. I’m not trying to rush things but I’m sick of sucking with talking to women. Especially when I think I fake having all of those things pretty well.

I broke a guys heart and my own how the hell do i move on because i cant seem to and its been awhile! HELP ME

If him wearing Speedos in front of her or him being naked in front of her doesn’t attract her sexually on the physcial level, then I don’t know what the hell will. Besides, if they laugh at instead of getting turned on by him if his pants are pulled down and he’s wearing boxers shorts, if not even THAT attracts her physcially, then I don’t know what will.

I just don’t think it’s fair that God didn’t program women to be physcially attracted to men like vice versa, because if they were, they’d sexually desire us in Speedos like we sexually desire in bikinis, and the way men would suddenly get turned on by a woman with her skirt torn off in public and her panties showing, that’s exactly how turned on women would be toward a man if his pants were pulled down and it turns out he’s wearing Speedos.

Seriously, it’s like God deliberatly made men ugly to women and because of that, the only way men can sexually attract women is by using their physcial approach, their words, and their personalites…
"I # my soldier",
I remember deliberatley wearing Speedos at poolsides and at the beach a few years ago to see if women like it, one said I looked sexy, and others seemed to notice with slight glee, but didn’t say anything or giggle. I guess a man has to use what he has inside to attract her, like his personality, afterall, since my demos didn’t work that well.
"Diana Just got married",
You shouldn’t have to be human encyclopedia on a certain gender or age just to be successful, I just think it’s sad that men can’t physcially attract women anywhere near as easily. And yes, a woman can easily dislike a man as easily as if he breaks her trust or cheats on her, that’s emotional.
"Poop Nose",
Just as I predicted, and I was right, it’s more his words, his promise of trust, and his personality that he has to use, just like you admitted to. See, you women are not so unpredictable afterall.
"Maria R",
I just think it sucks that the man has to get off his "keister"(or however you spell that word) and approach women to make anything happen. Women don’t have to do that, and therefore, they don’t have to risk rejection. Women have to so damn easy, in that case.
"Domestic",
Are you a guy or a girl?

On the radio this morning the dj had a topic about how "manwhores pick up women." Anyway, this one guy said that he pick ups MILFS at Walmart. He said his looks are below average and he is not very confident. So what he does is grabs a whole bunch XL magnum condoms and then proceeds to flirt with the women. He said that the women flock to him when he does this. However, when he has sex the women, they are very disappointed because he can not fit the XL magnum condoms because he’s too small. Hell he said that he’s almost too small to fit the regular size condoms. Needless, to say he never ever gets a callback.

On the radio this morning the dj had a topic about how "manwhores pick up women." Anyway, this one guy said that he pick ups MILFS at Walmart. He said his looks are below average and he is not very confident. So what he does is grabs a whole bunch XL magnum condoms and then proceeds to flirt with the women. He said that the women flock to him when he does this. However, when he has sex the women, they are very disappointed because he can not fit the XL magnum condoms because he’s too small. Hell he said that he’s almost too small to fit the regular size condoms. Needless, to say he never ever gets a callback.

If him wearing Speedos in front of her or him being naked in front of her doesn’t attract her sexually on the physcial level, then I don’t know what the hell will. Besides, if they laugh at instead of getting turned on by him if his pants are pulled down and he’s wearing boxers shorts, if not even THAT attracts her physcially, then I don’t know what will.

I just don’t think it’s fair that God didn’t program women to be physcially attracted to men like vice versa, because if they were, women would sexually desire men in Speedos like men sexually desire women in bikinis, and the way men would suddenly get turned on by a woman with her skirt torn off in public and her panties showing, that’s exactly how turned on women would be toward a man if his pants were pulled down and it turns out he’s wearing Speedos.

Seriously, it’s like God deliberatly made men ugly to women and because of that, the only way men can sexually attract women is by using their physcial approach, their words, and their personalites…

On the radio this morning the dj had a topic about how "manwhores pick up women." Anyway, this one guy said that he pick ups MILFS at Walmart. He said his looks are below average and he is not very confident. So what he does is grabs a whole bunch XL magnum condoms and then proceeds to flirt with the women. He said that the women flock to him when he does this. However, when he has sex the women, they are very disappointed because he can not fit the XL magnum condoms because he’s too small. Hell he said that he’s almost too small to fit the regular size condoms. Needless, to say he never ever gets a callback.

How do I get as thin as the rocker girl in Gives you hell? Serious answers, please. Please answer!!! I am 5’1" and 108 pounds. my thighs look to big for me and I have a little stomach fat and my arms are a little flabby too. Please help!

what the hell is wrong with people. how can people stand there and watch a girl get attacked like that. I wish I were there so I could have called the cops and helped. I wish there was a website or something where you could write get well messages for her. I think not only the attackers should go to jail, but the people watching and the principal should get in trouble to.

There is a girl in my grade (taylor) and she is considered one of the prettiest girls in my grade (im a sophomore). Concerning me, I am extremely quiet around girls and I get extremely nervous. Girls try to talk to me all the time and girls text me telling me im hot or sexy but i never know what to say. I asked a girl today what she would rate me on the 1-10 scale (she said 10) and she ranked me top 5 best looking guys in the grade. Im not bragging im just telling you what im working with. My problem is that i have never even spoken to her and she does not know I exist. What the hell do I do?

I am also extremely funny if that helps me at all.

I am not bragging. I have no reason to brag to random people on the internet i just want truthful advice.

ok so my parents dont like me surfing the net much. i can understand that.

but the thing is what the hell is wrong with me chanting or talking to girls.

and they dont get angry because i talk to girls they get angry cuz they think those girls might come out to be boys. just making fun of me.

i mean i only know saya , queen salma ,kiran , nuz and safiya and i can bet anything on that they are girls.

on the other hand what even if they are not. it is not like i flirt with girls like my cousins do.

and just to tell you he showed me and my sister that he is pretending to be a girl on orkut. and has made atleast 10 guys stupid.
i respect that cousin of mine cuz he thought me how to fight. but that thing is cheap.

and i mean why do they say they will be girls even if they will be what does it have to do with me.

and now especially my sister is pissing me off. giving that evil smile every time she passes by.

i mean why do they think i will do anything wrong. if i want to do some thing wrong i do it in front of every one. (just like my cousin) i am not afraid.

WHY THE HELL ARE THEY PISSING ME OFF. WHY ARE THEY MAKING FUN OF ME.
i am muhammad AHMAD siddiqui not
muhammad HAMMAD siddiqui or muhammad JAWAD siddiqui or muhammad IBRARr siddiqui or muhammad MOAZZAM siddiqui.

I AM MUHAMMAD "AHMAD" SIDDIQUI. I AM THE RELIGIOUS ONE. I AM NOT LIKE MY COUSINS.
@mashreql…
exactly from where do people get the idea that we cant even speak to girls? i never get that.

any ways i dont talk to anyone behind anyone. i am not afraid of anyone.

and they are only teasing me on this thing that they might be boys.

i mean what the hell what does it even mean?
@kiran , saya ,safiya ,queen salam , nuz (if they are gonna answer)

look i know you are girls. but i just got pissed of cuz they are making fun of me with no reason at all. i mean why would any of you pretend to be a boy. it is not like i flirt with you guys i talk to you just like i talk to all my friends.
@saya
hmmmm!!! lets see

1- cuz allah siad so. and cuz it cost too much. and i dont like to break some ones heart
2- because allah said so . and because i believe those who cant speak to women like they should they are not men.
3- cuz allah said so. and cuz it is cheap anda lowly thing to do. and makes your mind dirty.
@MUHAMMAD YOU
look who is talking the guy who left islam in Bangladesh. i think i know islam more than you.
and i will remind you of some thing.
"ina mal aamala binniyat"
the deeds depend upon the intention.

Seriously, what the hell is wrong with people nowadays, challenge yourself for once and stop gaining points answering questions with similar subheadings, questions that have already been answered millions of times. There is politics, medicine, religion, psychology, philosophy, and you are still pointlessly clicking to answer such questions.

  
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