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On the other half … I prefer a woman dressed in soft clothing.
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The main reason of me asking this question is because there’s this girl I’ve known for a year and a half now. When I started college, she was in my first class. I’m 19 by the way. Are teacher asked us all to get to know eachother. She said, hi my name is …. and I’ll make you laugh a lot this semester.

She did and we meet a lot in the halls of the campus and she still does and I make her laugh. We connect just so damn well. I’m not just infatuated with her I think I fell for her. I’ve put a lot of thinking into all of this. And, the thought of her now is just over taking me. Next time I see her I’m gonna ask her if she has a boyfriend and to hold her hand for that moment.

I’ve dated and gotten played between the time I’ve known her but she hit my heart and I feel like I hit her heart too. I just want are hearts to hit those notes at the same time. I want to be with her and there for her. It’s just so damn intoxicating. I don’t care how long of a distance she lives away from me, I’ve been through that and I’ll do it again. She’s breathtaking. I could write a book and make a song about her.

What should I do? I want my physical attributes to stand strong because what we have psychologically and emotionally and spiritually, I know already connects. I’m getting way to ahead of myself. But I miss her.

The whole clothing thing yeah umm.. I know she gets nervous a little when I put my "strong look on" lol. It’s gonna be a rainy week and I saw her yesterday morning. I was wearing my navy blue hoodie zipped up underneath my black "guess" bomber jacket. I was in my dark blue kenneth cole jeans and nike air maxes I got at a discount. lol. I wasn’t thinking of her that much that day when I decided to dress up. It was just that I had a free day to dress. I didn’t have to go t work after school.

Last time I spoke to her I felt like I numbed her out a little. I dampened my appearance like that. She was still joking and smiling though. I told her family stuff and we talked about school but I kinda kept it limited. Next time I see her though I’m going to tell her how I felt the last time we saw eachother. How I was keeping my guard up and limiting it. Than after telling her that, I’m going to jump boundaries. Asking her if she has a boyfriend and if I could hold her hand. =)

But, any advice just not on the clothing part would greatly be appreciated. Thanks

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we have a weird relationship, she’s my best frnd’s sis and i asked his permission and he said i could date her. so i asked her out and she said she wants to be friends. we’ve grown closer ever since and she came to call me bro and i call her lil sis, but i just have a feeling its just a game i have to play, coz she laughs at most of my jokes and always gets physical like strangling me playfully n stuff, maintains eye contact, keeps telling me im cute all the time and takes pictures of me and also pics of both of us together, and smiles at me in a friendly way all the time. but i dont kno if she thinks its a game too, its just a feeling i get.

so i started getting more confident and i kno im loads better than that broken up shell she turneed down. ive known her for 4 years, and her bday was a few days ago, so i decided to go ahead and buy her a gift for the first time because we werent really close in her previous birthdays. Anyway i bought her a cute little necklace that i thought would fit the brotherly image, with no hearts or anything so as to make sure she wudnt "misunderstand me", and she has a thing for the twilight series so i gave her one of the books that used to be mine n told her i hate the series and that i dun want it back. she got all happy and blew me kisses, and said: i so wanna hug you right now, but she just stayed where she was and i just said bye and left coz it was time for me to go, but it wasnt the least bit awkward tho.

is there any way she might consider me for something more, or am i doomed to the friend zone? i really like this girl and i really need some good advice. (btw thats not how i think of her, i just listed all the hints i thought might help you guys judge, im not a jerk. ill be whatever she wants me to be, whether its her bro, her friend or her bf)

im really sorry this makes such a big read but its complicated and i had to write all that stuff

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