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Let’s face it. I know ALOT of guys, who like myself spend MONTHS or occasionally YEARS without sex! And I’m even a fairly good looking guy. My one GUY friend is a 33 year old virgin. The movie the 40 year old virgin is about a MAN. There are TONS of books and materials circulating on the internet for MEN on how to ATTRACT, PICK UP, and SEDUCE women. There are some for women but not nearly as much. Woman seem to have MANY sexual options available to them.
For ME, i have to LITERALLY take time out of my schedule to go to the MALL, COFFEE SHOPS, BARS etc, to pick up women using the info from all the books i’ve read, and still, MOST phone numbers go NO WHERE. Women may not be aware, but the life of single men is FAR different than single women, and most are in a DISMAL state of longing and hurting for female attention, sexual gratification, and sexual angst. I’m GUESSING women don’t have to deal with this crap. So..question is
1.) Women: Do you get laid on a fairly regular basis? Do you ever have LONG stretches of time of MONTHS or YEARS of angst from not having sex?

2.) What is your age and number of sex partners?:(Yes you have to COUNT drunken one night stands and men from Vegas, FOREIGN men, and male strippers!)

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Let’s face it. I know ALOT of guys, who like myself spend MONTHS or occasionally YEARS without sex! And I’m even a fairly good looking guy. My one GUY friend is a 33 year old virgin. The movie the 40 year old virgin is about a MAN. There are TONS of books and materials circulating on the internet for MEN on how to ATTRACT, PICK UP, and SEDUCE women. There are some for women but not nearly as much. Woman seem to have MANY sexual options available to them.
For ME, i have to LITERALLY take time out of my schedule to go to the MALL, COFFEE SHOPS, BARS etc, to pick up women using the info from all the books i’ve read, and still, MOST phone numbers go NO WHERE. Women may not be aware, but the life of single men is FAR different than single women, and most are in a DISMAL state of longing and hurting for female attention, sexual gratification, and sexual angst. I’m GUESSING women don’t have to deal with this crap. So..question is
1.) Women: Do you get laid on a fairly regular basis? Do you ever have LONG stretches of time of MONTHS or YEARS of angst from not having sex?

2.) What is your age and number of sex partners?:(Yes you have to COUNT drunken one night stands and men from Vegas, FOREIGN men, and male strippers!)

I have a guy friend and he IMs me every night starting conversation and we have this inside joke about spanking… and every night somehow we get onto the topic of spanking and I’ll say something joking around and he’ll be like "You’re asking for a spanking… that’s it, I’m spanking you’ etc etc.

It happens every day. Is this normal?

I hate it when you get dumped or you lose a best friend, and then u go through the stupid ‘i miss them’ face. i mean ya, we all go through it but it sucks! i lost my best guy friend cuz we went out. can anyone help me out? is anyone going through the same thing? if u can, can you plz give me any advice? if ur going through the ‘i miss them’ stage too, tell me what happened. thx!

this hot girl i have crush on– and i am in her art class; we both have a lot things in common (i took her out to eat and we watched a movie in my bed together on my laptop for like the 3rd time this week– and just last night i kissed her several times on the lips, however, the first time i kissed her she said "We just met"– (and we were both drunk)– but as the night went on, i just kissed her and she didnt say nething after that, and i gave her one last kiss and she was willing to kiss me first—its been almost 2 weeks, and i have been hanging out with her everyday–she is very shy, wants to transfer from my college soon, and likes to party (with guys i guess) at other colleges over the weekends: anyways, i really like this girl and want to ask her out in the next few weeks..she might leave my college but we have so many things in common and i make her laugh everyday–i go to eat lunch/dinner with her etc.—so do you think she has interest in me as a bf and not a guy friend.. and when is the right time to ask her out?

Okay, so we have to admit that we all have a best friend of the opposite sex, but my question is why do we get along so well? I mean, in some girl-girl friendships you could fight over the most stupidest things [not all friendships are like that though]. And even my ex, who is now a great guy friend, says that he and his buddies fight about girls and dating…So really, I’d love to hear all answers: What makes guy-girl friendships so successful?

Ok, so I’m pretty confident that my guy friend (not my boyfriend, keep in mind) likes me. He shows lots of signs, ex. stroking my arm, teasing me, saying that I like him, etc. These two girls always go by him, though, and start to flirt with him. How do I get them to stay away from him? We’re pretty close to dating, and I don’t want some stupid girl to come along and try to steal him away from me.
I’m 13, he’s 12. The girls are 13 or 12, I’m not sure.

Ok so me and another single guy friend went to a club to practice our "Ahem" game… But we both got shot down, hard, that night. Its always discouraging, i have a harder time than my friend putting myself together and trying again. I think the whole time we were there, about 3 hours, i only managed to work up enough nerve to try twice (and nearly got my ass kicked on one of those try’s). Something has to be seriously wrong here.

As a man i feel that i am obligated to have at least some ability in seducing a woman on the dance floor. I say seduce because the goal is strictly sex, nothing more. I would never look for a girlfriend in a club.

So how much training or time does it take to be able to do this like the other guys i see on the dance floor? Some of those guys clearly don’t look like they deserve to dance with such beautiful women.

Also, for bonus points: Are there any other social settings besides clubs that work just as well for picking up women for a night? Of all social settings, i feel the absolute least comfortable in a club.

Sorry to sound like a creep. I’m usually not, but when your manhood is challenged like this, well, it makes you take progressively more drastic measures.

A few guy friends of mine said aloud in front of two girl friends of mine that I was a guy who wanted to get married and have a family as a dream of mine. They said I was messed up, but both girls have treated me differently since. I want to understand the change. What would such talk about any guy friend make a girl think about him?

  
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