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Well, I remember back in the summer, when I was getting ready for college at orientation, I found out only after going to it from one of my friends that some girl was checking me out heavily during it, and that bugged me. I am planning on avoiding relationships and sex my whole life. I don’t like making eye contact with anyone unless I am speaking to them and generally avoid it. I don’t like anyone looking at me without me giving them any indication that they have my permission and I feel insecure being watched when I don’t know it. Yesterday, another one of my friends told me at lunch after these two girls left that one of them was staring at me almost the whole time after we sat down to the time they left. On one of the first days, a really attractive girl started to flirt with me, and I didn’t even pick up the signs until after, when I was told that is what she was doing. One of my female friends told me that I am "very handsome" and told one of my friends that she has always thought that I am good looking, yet I think I am just normal looking. Another one of my female friends told me that I am "sexy" and told me after I promised her that I wouldn’t think badly of her that she wanted to have sex with me.

I don’t even know how to describe myself. I guess I could say I am tall, I have short and soft dark brown hair, green eyes, broad shoulders, etc, but that can only help so much. I would say I am noble looking, but not necessarily handsome.

Well, I remember back in the summer, when I was getting ready for college at orientation, I found out only after going to it from one of my friends that some girl was checking me out heavily during it, and that bugged me. I am planning on avoiding relationships and sex my whole life. I don’t like making eye contact with anyone unless I am speaking to them and generally avoid it. I don’t like anyone looking at me without me giving them any indication that they have my permission and I feel insecure being watched when I don’t know it. Yesterday, another one of my friends told me at lunch after these two girls left that one of them was staring at me almost the whole time after we sat down to the time they left. On one of the first days, a really attractive girl started to flirt with me, and I didn’t even pick up the signs until after, when I was told that is what she was doing. One of my female friends told me that I am "very handsome" and told one of my friends that she has always thought that I am good looking, yet I think I am just normal looking. Another one of my female friends told me that I am "sexy" and told me after I promised her that I wouldn’t think badly of her that she wanted to have sex with me.

I don’t even know how to describe myself. I guess I could say I am tall, I have short and soft dark brown hair, green eyes, broad shoulders, etc, but that can only help so much. I would say I am noble looking, but not necessarily handsome.

Hi, I’m 21 yrs old, 6 ft tall, muscular, brown hair, green eyes, and a "nice guy". I’m currently single, and would like to ask someone out. I don’t really know anybody, so it’s going to be a stranger. As a women, how would you like to be approached by a guy you don’t know. Lets say the setting is in a grocery store or something. Are there pick up lines that work? How should it be done? What I don’t want to do is get rejected over and over and just freak a bunch of women out. So if you were single, and open for dating, and a good looking guy came up to you, what would you want him to say, and how would you like him to ask you out?

I seem to have problem connecting with women in clubs/bars. I have a lot of social anxiety as it is, and some confidence issues. I just freeze up when talking to women, especially attractive women. I think it stems from fear of rejection, and just being to self consious. I am a very good looking guy, a little short at 5’9 but i have abs, green eyes, nice smile, a tan. Girls usually think im attractive off looks, but I just seem to have problems being myself. I feel just completely different, nervous, anxious when I go out on the weekends. I go to a college in san francisco, and there are no house parties so I have to go out with my fake to party. I just always feel too young and have trouble talking to people I meet, especially women. I have had a few girlfriends, all of them attractive but i would say in the last year i havent had many successes with women and its messing with my head. I hang with older guys but I feel left out in convo and attnt wise when we approach girls

The most that are attracted to me are overweight women and gay men! arghh! it isen’t fair to me.What could it be?Im not being racist but,im just not attracted to neither.And i dont do anything that would allure gay men.
Im 195lbs,green eyes,solid build 5/9 head shaven,and dress casual.
Good answer guy’s thanx.

  
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