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Eh I’ve basically never had a gf in my years of living. I’m going to be going to university nxt year and still haven’t had a gf in my life. I just don’t know why. At first, I thought it’s cause of the zits. I had loads in my middle school yrs and early high school yrs, took ‘em off. I’m clean now. Don’t have ‘em anymore. Next I thought I was too scrawny, started working out more and way bigger than I was in my early high school yrs. Still nothing…then I thought it was my short hair and my wide forehead so I grew out my hair and have it curly (i’m going to a salon or a barber for them to make it wavy. i know it sounds weird since i’m a guy but curly sucks)

but nothing works! i get some girls attention from other states or so. i’ve developed pretty much a horrendous reputation as the class weirdo from when i was younger. i’m not like that anymore. i changed. but you can’t get people’s views about you to change. i’m certainly not ugly. i’m a good looking guy (mind me i don’t want to have a huge ego).

is it because im shy? i never am comfortable in talking to girls at my school, EVER. i just don’t know why. i try and try and just completely forget what i say or just smile and don’t say nothing and i don’t know how to keep my discussions going on in tlking to them. i really need help on girls. i’m really clueless.

i guess its the shyness that turns them off eh?

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Let’s face it. I know ALOT of guys, who like myself spend MONTHS or occasionally YEARS without sex! And I’m even a fairly good looking guy. My one GUY friend is a 33 year old virgin. The movie the 40 year old virgin is about a MAN. There are TONS of books and materials circulating on the internet for MEN on how to ATTRACT, PICK UP, and SEDUCE women. There are some for women but not nearly as much. Woman seem to have MANY sexual options available to them.
For ME, i have to LITERALLY take time out of my schedule to go to the MALL, COFFEE SHOPS, BARS etc, to pick up women using the info from all the books i’ve read, and still, MOST phone numbers go NO WHERE. Women may not be aware, but the life of single men is FAR different than single women, and most are in a DISMAL state of longing and hurting for female attention, sexual gratification, and sexual angst. I’m GUESSING women don’t have to deal with this crap. So..question is
1.) Women: Do you get laid on a fairly regular basis? Do you ever have LONG stretches of time of MONTHS or YEARS of angst from not having sex?

2.) What is your age and number of sex partners?:(Yes you have to COUNT drunken one night stands and men from Vegas, FOREIGN men, and male strippers!)

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I’m a 21 year old caucasion male and I’m looking for the best way to attract older women. By older I mean late 20′s through 30′s. I think I’m a fairly good looking guy. 5’10”..brown hair brown eyes..What impresses them? Money, cars, looks?

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Let’s face it. I know ALOT of guys, who like myself spend MONTHS or occasionally YEARS without sex! And I’m even a fairly good looking guy. My one GUY friend is a 33 year old virgin. The movie the 40 year old virgin is about a MAN. There are TONS of books and materials circulating on the internet for MEN on how to ATTRACT, PICK UP, and SEDUCE women. There are some for women but not nearly as much. Woman seem to have MANY sexual options available to them.
For ME, i have to LITERALLY take time out of my schedule to go to the MALL, COFFEE SHOPS, BARS etc, to pick up women using the info from all the books i’ve read, and still, MOST phone numbers go NO WHERE. Women may not be aware, but the life of single men is FAR different than single women, and most are in a DISMAL state of longing and hurting for female attention, sexual gratification, and sexual angst. I’m GUESSING women don’t have to deal with this crap. So..question is
1.) Women: Do you get laid on a fairly regular basis? Do you ever have LONG stretches of time of MONTHS or YEARS of angst from not having sex?

2.) What is your age and number of sex partners?:(Yes you have to COUNT drunken one night stands and men from Vegas, FOREIGN men, and male strippers!)

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This is really getting me down. I can’t ever seem to find any girls that will even give me a chance. I have dated people, but it is almost impossible for me to meet women! I have some really good qualities. I play a couple of instruments, I can cook, I am thoughtfull and described by girls as a "really sweet guy". Physically I don’t know how I rate myself on looks. People say I am a good looking guy, but I am not sure if I am or not. Still I can’t meet anyone or get someone to show intrest. It is very fustrating when I can see everyone else pick up women yet I can’t.

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Hi, I’m 21 yrs old, 6 ft tall, muscular, brown hair, green eyes, and a "nice guy". I’m currently single, and would like to ask someone out. I don’t really know anybody, so it’s going to be a stranger. As a women, how would you like to be approached by a guy you don’t know. Lets say the setting is in a grocery store or something. Are there pick up lines that work? How should it be done? What I don’t want to do is get rejected over and over and just freak a bunch of women out. So if you were single, and open for dating, and a good looking guy came up to you, what would you want him to say, and how would you like him to ask you out?

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im a good looking guy, not going to lie, but I never know how to make a girl laugh. any help!?

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I know this question is pretty blunt, but why beat around the bush. Not looking for ones who charge a fee, but some young ladies that I could pick up at a bar and have a good time with and possibly head back to my hotel or a love hotel for the night. Ideas on where to go, how to approach them, etc. would be helpful. Roppongi seems like the place I hear the most about, but also like there’s a lot of "professionals" for lack of a better word. I feel like Shibuya may be best for me. Shinjuku seems similar to Roppongi. I think I’m a fairly good-looking guy, good personality, don’t mind buying a couple rounds, etc. This is my first time to Tokyo and I just want to be able to have a good time. This isn’t my only goal when I’m out there, but when I go out at night, it would be one of my main objectives. How approachable are women, any easy pick-up lines in Japanese to get a smile, etc.?? Many thanks.

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It’s been 3 months since I had my fallout with a girl I had been seeing off and on for three years and I have yet to find a new girl to hang out with. At first I didn’t mind being single because I was able to focus on finishing the college semester strong but now it’s summertime and I’m seeing beautiful women everywhere. I am frustrated with myself because I know I am a good looking guy and girls are constantly giving me ques to approach them but I’ve just become so gun shy and I hate it. My increased blushing problem is a big deterrent for me to approach women because all of my "cool points" get immediately eliminated if I have a stupid blush session. Does anybody have any good suggesstions for me to loosen up and just start trying to initiate conversation with women I see in the park, stores, and in public etc?

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Douchebags! Listen up, this question is for you. So this whole thing about hot women being attracted to douchebags has been baffling me as of recent (especially considering I recently graduated from a college, JMU, where there are a LOT of hot women and a LOT of douchebags, who always end up together), so I’ve been reading up on it a little. Thing is, a lot of the articles/postings written about that subject are written either by 1) women who AREN’T the type of girl to go after a douchebag, or 2) guys who aren’t douchebags who are also baffled by that question, or 3) women who are attracted to douchey guys but don’t quite have enough self-awareness to really know why.

So I wanna hear about it FROM the perspective of a douchebag– no more speculcation from dudes who are having trouble getting laid. I’ll often hear douchebags really know how to play the "game", say the right things to women, subtly attract them with certain actions, and know how to get them into bed. I wanna hear what those things are that they do, AND why they so easily attract women, often even when they’re NOT even running game (i.e. demeanor, personality characteristics, thinking process, etc); I wanna hear ALL of it, from their perspective.

And by the way, I am a very good looking guy, though I’m kind of slender (155-160 lbs), and am a really good dancer. However, I’m also a pretty nice guy, and really not that douchey at all. Despite my looks I have trouble bedding hot women and I wanna start changing that.

And please don’t tell me that "well if a hot girl would go for those kind of guys why would you want her, she’s just not good enough for you then"; I’ll be the judge of that. Furthermore, sometimes you just wanna sleep with a hot girl and aren’t looking for a relationship anyway, so the potential long-term headaches of putting up with the kind of girl who goes for douchey guys doesn’t really apply for a one-night romp in bed.

C’mon douches, I know you’re out there. Help me out, will ya? I wanna hear what YOU have to say.

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I am going on vacation to Hawaii soon. I am 17 years old. Can anyone give me any advice on scoring some chicks when on vacation? The beach wouldn’t be the best spot, not because i am fat or anything, im skinny, but i don’t have like a great gym body, you know, like huge pecs, or abs cuz im too lazy for that haha. anyway, not to sound cocky at all, but i am a very good looking guy. i get a lot of girls here at home, but ive always had problems like walking up to random girls and starting conversations, eventually leading to getting some, the girls i get, ive known for a while. So the ideal situation would be something like sitting in the lobby at night, looking stylin, and finding some hot girl to talk to. or even at a restaurant or something, but that would be hard cuz my rents would be around. anyway, could you give me advice on this? i have my own room for a few nights btw

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I seem to have problem connecting with women in clubs/bars. I have a lot of social anxiety as it is, and some confidence issues. I just freeze up when talking to women, especially attractive women. I think it stems from fear of rejection, and just being to self consious. I am a very good looking guy, a little short at 5’9 but i have abs, green eyes, nice smile, a tan. Girls usually think im attractive off looks, but I just seem to have problems being myself. I feel just completely different, nervous, anxious when I go out on the weekends. I go to a college in san francisco, and there are no house parties so I have to go out with my fake to party. I just always feel too young and have trouble talking to people I meet, especially women. I have had a few girlfriends, all of them attractive but i would say in the last year i havent had many successes with women and its messing with my head. I hang with older guys but I feel left out in convo and attnt wise when we approach girls

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hi I just find it hard to approach women.every one always says im a good looking guy but i have still manage to stay single for more than a year. some one help me

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Okay, so there’s this new girl on my X-country team and I realized I really liked her. I started talking to her, got her number, and we quickly became friends. The more we talked, the more she flirted with me, saying I was nice and cute and adorable. I told her she was nice and pretty, etc. Well when it came down to it, my friend said she told him that she liked me, but I was too short and I am more like a friend, and she couldn’t date me because she is bad with relationships and would lose me as a friend. All in all, we are just friends right now. I am a good looking guy, I am funny, always nice, and I am only like 2-3 inches shorter than she is. Shes 5’10-5’11 and I am 5’8. What can I do to make her like me more than a friend? All answers are appreciated, thanks!

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I get nervous and shy when I’m around a sexy good looking women. I’ve been told that I’m a good looking guy with nice dark features, so I have nothing to be shy about. But I still get shy around really good looking sexy women. How do you approach a sexy woman without looking nervous or shy?

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I recently got out of a 3 yr relationship and now that I am single I don’t really remember how to approach women anymore and I also can’t gather the confidence… I feel that I am a pretty good looking guy I just really dislike rejection… Help Please, I feel pretty shitty being 21 and not being able to talk to women…

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