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The last 8 girls I’ve dated (no joke) were head-over-heels for me for some period of time…for the first date, for a few months of dating and passionate love-making, and time frames in between as well. Each time, whether I am the ‘nicest guy’ in the world, or if I act ‘rebelliously’ and typically just the same way I’d been acting while we were dating, they either change how they act towards me or completely tell me off and that I disgust them. Some of them I allow to string me along knowing they don’t care about me, but I’m desperate for them because of their looks or how society treats you when you’re in the company of a beautiful woman.
Regardless, why are there tons of guys who breakup with girls and those girls either can’t get over it or ponder what made him do it, yet I am always on the losing end of the stick. Like, if I try to tell a girl that we should cool down a bit because we’re moving too fast, she’ll assume I’m an a-hole when I really truly like her. I’m a good communicator, I’m bright, I’m not too bad on the eyes. I’m always smiling and I have a deep side as well..What could it be?
You psychobabble people, is it mother issues somehow involved? My parents got divorced and my mother was sort of absent as she had to be the head of the household, but I still really love her. I tend to date women who are totally opposite of my mother in most ways. And if I did have a parent who was ineffective in raising me because she was overextending herself or she liked my brother more than me, would this really cause me to be attracted to (and attract) women who are way off their rocker. What in God’s name could be the reason that the night before a woman asks me to "…be her man" and then the next day tell me that I’m a crazy idiot who doesn’t think well or speak well…? I’m at a loss, I really am…You psychologists maybe can help me, cuz I am starting to believe that either "all women are crazy" and those guys who can tame them are skilled craftsmen who know how to keep a crazy in her place, or "most" women are crazy and there are a "chosen" few who date only guys like Derek Jeter and David Beckham…Or, there’s something about "me" that has and will continue to prevent normal relationships with basically ALL women who I encounter more than once. Thoughts? Psychologists? Where are ya?
Sorry I meant ‘psychobabble’ in a completely non-negative light. I’m a filmmaker and I’m shooting a movie right now where the script calls for the lead female character to recite passages that are supposed to help her deal with a loss of a loved one.
She says things like, "The gratitude of the love has conquered the loss" and then she just gets really upset and throws the anxiety workbook down that her psychologist gave her.
I honestly only referred to it as ‘psychobabble’ because that scene that I had written was on my mind. I actually see a shrink and have the utmost respect for LCSW people and psychologists and counselors, it was just a slip up 
The girl screams out "Psychobabble!" "BS!" "Psychobabble!" but it’s not how I feel at all…Sometimes people feel this way because counselors (ineffective ones) sometimes don’t show enough empathy but just tell victims to "move on" or "he would’ve wanted you to find someone new" but as my lead character says, "it’s easy to offer advice when it hasn’t happened to you." Ineffective help is worse than no help at all, IMHO.