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Everywhere I go, I can’t find a girl of my age and the same race to talk to. I want to have the confidence but they are always working, and I don’t have a current job, and I’m lost.

I wear glasses, a lot,so it doesn’t attract women.

I just want my first kiss.

I am a 25 year old black male.
It seem like glasses attract men instead of women. I just keep attracting men. I want to attract women.

Why do older men attract women at the bar?

I cant understand how 58 year old men attract 23 year old college women!!! I was at the bar and I saw this one guy who was old in his 50’s with glasses and gray hair and she was old enough to be this girl’s dad, he was hitting on her and she liked it and they were having a great time and great conversation and all the women were hanging around him!!!! Why? I seriously felt like going over to him and hitting him for that! I did even say to him in a jealous way: “I CANT UNDERSTAND HOW A SMART-A*S LIKE YOU GETS ALL THE WOMEN! WHY DO YOU TRY SO HARD AND ACCOMPLISH?!” And he gave me a dirty look!! And said: “You can have them if you wanted to but you are terrible with women! I have to show you how to get girls, haha!” and he was being a showoff and had both arms around the women’s shoulders and was rubbing their tits!!

What is with this prick? It makes me sick to my stomach that these damnn young women fall in love with older men!

High school nerd now the cool guy that gets girls left to right?

So I recently met my old friend from high school, a Nerdy Indian guy back then who was overweight and wore glasses. 12 years down the road, don’t know what in god’s name happened but he is perfectly fit (Bowflex body), has had so many girlfriends (currently dating a Brazilian woman), and makes a six figure salary.

How rarely does this happen?

I keep chickening out on approaching/talking to women. How can I approach them? How can I stop being chicken?

I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)

Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have "checked me out." I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.

How do I approach women? How do I "grow a pair"? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.

I keep chickening out on approaching women. How can I approach them? I hate being chicken!?

I am nerdy looking, though I’m not a nerd. I don’t play computer games, don’t do Dungeons and Dragons bullshit, don’t watch star trek, don’t go to game festivals etc. I go to the gym 4 times a week. Yet, I don’t have much confidence when it comes to women due to bad past experiences and I generally feel unnatractive to women, which may not be too far from what the reality is, due to my nerdy look (basically my glasses make me look like a god damn dork.)

Yet, still, sometimes I get attention by women. Since I’ve been going to the gym several women have "checked me out." I didn’t even bother trying anything. Worse yet, today I saw 2 girls who were really cute looking. They were working out on the machine beside me. I thought, nah, I’m just going to look stupid but whenever I changed machine (3 times) they kept going to one right beside me or the last one I went on. They looked very friendly and apporachable. This was a good opportunity for me to at least say something and I blew it. I bailed. I’m not good at reading signals but I think, just maybe, they wanted me to talk to them. I think they saw me looking at them. However, I could just be overthinking that and thus I’m full of bs. NONETHELESS, the fact that they kept going close to where I was gave me a good opportunity to talk. They looked nice and cute, not incredibly skinny (maybe a bit below chubby but attractive) and I blew it. I’m mad at myself. I hate doing this and then coming on here and whining about it like a god damn drama queen.

How do I approach women? How do I "grow a pair"? I’m not a chickenshit in anything but this and its lagging me down.
No money for contacts. Not an option.
I’m 20. X_X

How do I approach women if I'm the shy, nervous , nerdy type?

I’ve been single for 4 years now, and I really want a girlfriend. Here’s the problem: Every time I see a girl I’m interested in, I feel like there’s concrete blocks on my feet. I want to approach women, but, I just can’t seem to work up the nerve. I’ve always been kinda nerdy, both in looks, and personality. I get nervous talking to women, but, I think that if I can approach a woman, and talk to her with confidence, I should be able to do pretty well. I’m 6’1" tall, with a slightly muscular build, with short brown/blonde hair, grey eyes, and glasses. My friends tell me I’m funny, too.

Can anyone tell me how to build my confidence, so I can get myself a girlfriend?

How do you pick up women at a coffeehouse or bookstore?

What are the best techniques to use? How is it different than the bar/club? What are some signals to look for to know if she is approachable? Any advice?

I am early 20′s, out of college, some extra baggage, 5’11", dress neat, no glasses (if the detail helps)
Who said anything about "pickup lines"? Just asking how to pick them up, like getting their number, a date, etc.

What are some movies where the ugly girl gets the guy?

There are so many movies where the unattractive guy gets the girl….can you think of any where the unattractive girl gets the guy…Can you think of ones where the girl is actually ugly and it’s not just like take of her glasses and put her hair down and she’s attractive

These are ones I can think of…know anymore?
She’s all That
Shallow Hal
Hairspray
Pretty in Pink
16 Candles
Muriels Wedding
Penelope

Do middle school boys judge on how girls look?

All of the middle school boys at my school seem to judge on how girls look.Of course,they want hott,pretty looking girls,but I wear ugly looking glasses and average looking hair. I can’t get contacts until I’m a teenage.The boys focus on the blonde,stylish,hott looking girls,and me,I’m not that hott. I want to be hott,but how? Help me!

How can I get a date to prom If I’m ugly but smart?

I am rather smart, I understand chemistry, computers, physics, and chemistry very well, I’m nice, interesting, and I do care about people, but I am a giant nerd(with very nerdy friends), and have a high voice for a male and I often get teased for it. I am also by know means good looking. I wear glasses, a big nose, and have no muscles. I have never gone to a school dance before but one to go to my junior prom. Do have any tips on how I can get a date to junior prom?

P.S.: I do have friends that are girls but none that like me that way.

P.S.S: Yes, I do realize it’s month’s away. Just Thought I would get a head start.
P.S.: Though I would add that I defiantly do not want sex, kissing, or any thing like that. Just some one to go to junior prom and *maybe* dating after.

I like this girl, we go to the same skool. how do i get her to like me? im shy an she doesnt rly notice me?

I like this girl, we go to the same skool. how do i get her to like me?
im a junior shes a freshman, shes kinda friends with my sister. my sistter doesnt go to the same skool. i barely ever see her except on the bus but im too shy too really talk to her. i think she has a boyfriend but i really like her. what should i do. how do i indirectly hint that i like her? please help how can i get her too like me.
im kinda shy around girls an i really need a girlfriend but ive never hadd one. i have glasses and i guess im average looking an shes really cute

How to get a girl to like you?

I am Junior at high school. I weigh about 175 pounds and I am about 5’11”. I wear glasses and dress casually everyday. My hobbies are to play tennis, draw and go to chipotle for food.

There is a new girl at school and I like her. I want to make her my girlfriend. She likes narwhals, chipotle, watching football games and listening to music. She just moved from Sacramento, and she used to go to a private school. I have her with me in drama. She has been my partner several times. She does talk with me and I do talk with her.

How do I impress her to make her like me? How do I make her my girlfriend? Please help me because my goal is to make her my girlfriend before junior prom. Thank you.

how do i get a girl to like me (girls awnser are more wanted)[and no general awnsers either?

i like i girl but i cant provide a pic (sorry)!!! ive had like 8 accounts banned from yahoo awnsers so..yeah meh anyway what should i do? like i sit by here in 2 classes but like i cant look at her cuz i dont wanna look like im staring and if i have to i look like a freak id rate but this is a new account so ic ant do any thing ok tyvm!! btw yahoo awnser didnt give me a warning sooo cheap =[
EDIT!!
i just like the color black especially w/ red and she likes glasses with british sorta flannel type frames..lol i am getting glasses cuz my eyes are bad and note im not a pervert so that out of the way i cant rlly talk with her much cuz her friends are always there and at lunch she sits with ALL her friends so yea…and im in 7th grade so..and theres nothing to do unless you go for an hour drive to a place lol

How do i get girls to dig me?

I am 4’9” and have braces, bad acne, glasses, and no money. I look like a nerd but i’m not even smart. In addition to all this, i live in a camper. Is it possible to get the head cheerleader to like me?

How do you pick up women at a coffeehouse or bookstore?

What are the best techniques to use? How is it different than the bar/club? What are some signals to look for to know if she is approachable? Any advice?

I am early 20′s, out of college, some extra baggage, 5’11", dress neat, no glasses (if the detail helps)

How is it possible for the ugliest girl to transform into the hottest?

I knew a girl in middle school who was unattractive (just being honest). Bad skin and hair, glasses, really skinny, shy, no friends. Then after middle school she disappeared for 2 years, I heard she took homeschool.

Then I just started 11th grade and in class I saw literally the most beautiful girl I’ve ever seen. Not joking, she puts Megan Fox and Jessica Alba to shame. I was shocked to find she was the same girl from middle school. Now all the guys are obsessed with her. How is that possible??

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