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this is to all the guys, how do u go about talking to a girl when your either trying to make out or to see if shes a dateable type? i mean ive had very little luck with girls and i dont really have a clue as to how you go about getting a girl or gf. i mean i seem to only get girls when they want to talk to me or if they seem to like me without me trying. how many girls have u made out with? how man serious relationships have u had? i just feel incapable of attracting a girl. im not ugly by any means. any tips? do u flrit? or is it something that just happens naturally?

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not exactly…at first i was a loser and i loved women so i learned how to pick up women through videos books and tips…i mastered the method of getting to girls so i was able to hook up with a girl at a club (im 19) but i met one girl and i feel like there is no need for all the knowledge i trained for and that i dont care about other women anymore…heres the thing though….since i know her i dont know how to approach her…my method can get me girls ive never met but this is an akward position

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Hey, I’m not the best with girls. What are some things I can do to get this girl I like to like me? Or what are signs that she likes me back?

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I used to be really shy but now girls in my grade don’t seem to even notice me. Girls in the lower grades love me and girls in the upper grades think I’m funny. I’m 15 help me!

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Okay, so we have to admit that we all have a best friend of the opposite sex, but my question is why do we get along so well? I mean, in some girl-girl friendships you could fight over the most stupidest things [not all friendships are like that though]. And even my ex, who is now a great guy friend, says that he and his buddies fight about girls and dating…So really, I’d love to hear all answers: What makes guy-girl friendships so successful?

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I am sick of everyone thinking im gay and people spreading rumors about me not liking chicks.Even my friends a beginning to wonder.This is also causing the girls i do like to not even think of me.Instead most chicks think im their cute little gay pal, but im not.I need to really know some want i need to do to attract women.I don’t want to change myself to much but i do want to prove people wrong and get my life back the way i want.

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Im asking on this section because the Singles and Dating section is essentially always dead.

First off i am a very shy guy, so shy its almost crippling, in fact i suffer from Social anxiety disorder, and its only made worse around girls i find attractive. Secondly because of this i have never approached women, and they have never approached me, because of this i feel like i am hideous or boring or unattractive, and as a result have 0 confidence, which i know is a turn off. For me confidence comes from being liked by others, unfortunately no girls seem to ever like me. Long story short, how do i "connect" with a girl i like and not look either desperate, or bitter and jaded, or look like a boring dork quiet looser. After all most women like loudmouthed jerks, or so the general consensus is… Any suggestions?
also im 21 and have never had a date or a Kiss, that is NOT a plus for my confidence btw…given that everyone else my age who is normal has had experience

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o.k., so we’ve only been going out like 4 and a half weeks, but I’m not some crazy, jealous girlfriend. My boyfriends a football player, and was really "popular" with like the entire female population of the school, not like he dated everyone of them and was a player (he’s only had one girlfriend before, at his old school), but like every girl thinks he’s hot, and flirts with him and everything. This bothered me when we first started dating because I thought they all should immediately back off once he had a girlfriend, but I thought once we had been going out for a couple weeks it would definetly stop. But all these random, desperate and just ANNOYING (you can tell this is irritating me) girls are always trying to talk to him, hanging all over him, giggling stupidly whenever he says something, etc. And its not his fault, he doesn’t encourage or flirt back, but he doesnt want to be rude or something. I havent told him it bothers me, because I don’t want to make myself seem like a crazy, jealous girlfriend, and i know he’s just trying to be nice.
The last straw was today, when some little sophomore and her scantily dressed friend came up to US (i was right next to him!) and asked, all giggly, if he was going to homecoming in a couple of days and if they would see him there. He just kinda put his arm around my waist and said yeah, we’re going. …but they just ignored the hint and kept flirting! so please, advice on how to make this stop? i wanna have an amazing homecoming without other girls coming on to my boyfriend

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ok i like this girl alot since 5th grade(im in 8th) we talked all the time and we were realy good friends (notice i used PAST tense) so by 7th grade i manage the courage to tell her i like her(sadly first girl i ever told that)now im thinking that i was around to many people only like 1 or 2 though shes realy shy but now im in 8th grade and i still like her.now we barely talk so i think shes embaressed.and now i feel guilty of how i approched that situation. but heres the catch she never told me if she liked me or if she didnt!i dont know like i said this is my first crush and im not the sharpest tool in the shed when it comes to girls so any help (good or bad) will be accepted.ive got to get this settled or my heart will be ripped from my chest.

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I am fresh out of high school, and just moved to a different state for college. I am meeting new people, but am having trouble figuring out if a few girls are in to me. I wouldn’t consider myself an unnattractive guy, but I didn’t have much luck with the ladies in high school and am still a virgin. Any tips that I can get for determining how to get a girl to go on a date with me, knowing when to ask, or what to do on a date?

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Im a guy who’s over weight, but other than that i believe that i have few flaws. Im definitely not a bad looking person, and im really easy to get along with. People like me a lot and i am always told that im a great person and a good friend. So i guess i would like to know that since im over weight when girls meet me do they automatically put me into the "Friend" category rather than the "Potential Boyfriend" category?

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i have a sense of humor most of the time and always make girls laugh ( i admit i can get irritating sometimes too) but most of the time i make them laugh… i wouldn’t consider myself "hot" but i don’t think im ugly either… i have a lot of friends that are girls and even one of my best friends is… idk its either im in the "friend zone" with every girl i ever talk to… or im just not confident enough to ask them out( i always think that they’ll reject me way worse then a simple "no") im 16 and a junior btw

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So I went to the gym, dieted, etc. etc. I now have big muscles and abs.

I’m not so sure how that helps with the women though.. Sure they would like it, but it’s not like I can go up to a girl in a bar and say "hey guess what I have nice abs".
Oh just to clarify, I didn’t work out just to get girls, I do martial arts and work out for myself.. But I hear girls dig that sort of stuff so I’m just trying to figure out how I can use that to my advantage.

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I was looking how my friends dress and who the pick up. And noticed they all have their different styles. But when it comes to black and white. All the ones who date white guys dress with a similar fashion. And all the ones who are attracted to black guys dress in a similar fashion. Maybe it says more about those guys than it does them. Of what guys are attracted to. Or maybe its just with my friends.

But i noticed this with other girls i see from time and time!

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I always hear girls complaining that they called their boyfriends 5 times and he never picked up, that they want to know where he is at all times, just generally needy and clingy stuff like that. I’ve never been in a relationship, but I can’t believe so many guys are able to stand these kind of girls! It seems like so many women think having a boyfriend means spending all of your time together.

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I’m having no luck with girls my own age so i
think i will get with someone whose older I’m 23

is there anyplaces where old women hang out for young guys?
i tried the mall but when ever i ask for a number they give me weird stares
i wait at the supermarket carpark after work/school some nights and try to help mature women with their things
and start up conversations i remember one night i was turned down by 6 women at the coles carpark last time
I some times drive around during the weekends and pull over to chat up women jogging but its harder then it looks in the movies
cause they just keep jogging.
i’m on the verge of giving up
but where is their hunting ground duke mack

and I try the PUA stuff I’ve read the book twice and am reading a third time i do all the negs and stuff buts not working

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As a teenager growing up I was pretty good looking and confident with myself being healthy and athletic. As I got older mental problems crept up and then went all out. I used to just tell girls my interest straight up like "you look hot" or "you look really good today" so-and-so.. and then flirt after or whatever. Basically fearless in pursuing people I really liked. As I got older with all the madness I became really physically ugly. Now if I try to do it like I did before I just come off as creepy. I hide me feelings now and I am so unsuccessful with women. People find my disrespectful in general because I am so shy now. How can I improve myself again and get my confidence back? I’ve been alone for a long time now.

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I’m having no luck with girls my own age so i
think i will get with someone whose old I’m 19

is there anyplaces where old women hang out for young guys?
i tried the mall but when ever i ask for a number they give me weird stares
i wait at the supermarket carpark after work/school some nights and try to help mature women with their things
and start up conversations i remeber one night i was turned down by 6 women at the coles carpark last time
I some times drive around during the weekends and pull over to chat up women jogging but its harder then it looks in the movies
cause they just keep jogging.
i’m on the verge of giving up

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believe it or not how you stand or walk when approaching women is a difference cause women can read body language very well. So when talking to a group of girls how should i stand when talking to them?

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While I like this boy a WHOLE lot but I don’t know if he likes me back. He is always flirting with me but I think he does it with A lot of girls. Ive known him for along time but he never said anything about liking me. So i want a song that i can listen to when i get sad or think he doesn’t like me.

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Okay so I just got turned down by a girl that I really liked. I dont know where to go from here, dont know too many people as its a new school, and I can’t help but get this feeling that girls dont really like me. What do I do? Whats considered a turn off/ only wants to be friends gesture?

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