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if a guy sleeps with a bunch of diff girls, he just gets a high five ( or an std :] )
but if a girl sleeps with a lot of diff guys, shes a slut?
why is this?
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my friends name is chris, he gets girls that i like and they just follow him but my question is do i have to fight some boy to get popular?
i havent fought the last 3 years with anyone and havent got popular those 3 years. i am 13 years old
chris is my friend he never wants to fight me cause we are budds. i have noticed that when boys bully and get in fights get girls. but i dont want to bully .
can u help me?
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The girls at my school don’t even care about getting to know me as a person, they just want to hook up with me so they can say they got with the starting quarterback and an underwear model. I want to be seen as more than that and rejected several scholarship offers to play for division 1 universities and instead accepted a full academic scholarship to MIT. Last weekend I went on a date with the head cheerleader from our cross-town rivals only to discover she had lied about having an interest in string theory and in fact, didn’t know anything about physics at all and was only interested in making out. Other guys at my school seem jealous of me but I’m jealous of them because at least they can have a conversation with a girl without having her try to shove her tongue down their throat. The fact that I recently became an underwear model is not helping the situation but I only did it because my dad lost his job at the factory. Any advice for me?
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ok i know im not attractive (im 23, have tomboyish face/mannerisms and work out a lot) back at college for a facial attractiveness activity i got mainly 4′s out of 10 the lowest in the class the other girls were getting 7′s and 8′s. Then I dated a guy i met online (he was 23, a virgin and said he couldn’t get girls) anyway we had stuff in common so went on a few dates, I just didnt fancy him though he wasn’t my type so I gently broke up with him i honestly never insulted him once.
The first thing he said was ‘geez i must be seriously ugly’. I said that it was nothing to do with looks and that i just didnt want a relationship but he carried on saying how he lowered his standards for me and compromised cause he liked my personality.
He posted on a forum (which we both go on) that he was worried that almost any girl will reject him because he couldnt even start with me. He made a topic months later which said that he lowered his standards considerably for a girl (meaning me) and that he thought he was out of my league yet still got rejected which confused him. He said that its wrecked his self esteem that he was friend zoned by the ugliest of girls. Btw this guy believe it or not was actually decent in personality (my parents liked him lol) and he had an economics degree he was just insecure about himself.
Im not a looker, I dress plainly and my hairs always a mess but even so I don’t understand why Im supposed to be attracted to him just because he was better looking? Did he think he was entitled to me because he was better looking? I dont get it when he said ‘i couldnt even start with you’ does this mean that because im ‘ugly’ Im supposed to be easier to get?
Im probably one of the hardest girls to ‘get’ because i like my own company so much. Why am I meant to be easier to get? Id like a guy or someone to explain it to me.
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really need some advice on how to attract women. I’m not sure whether Im too nice, Im average, maybe decent looking. However, I lack that killer instincy in bedding girls. Only once every now and then. Generally I have a good talk and sometimes make them laugh but I want to up my strike rate, I can be quite shy at times.
How do you generally seduce a girl at a club? Are there some good ways to do it and things to say? Really appreciate the advice. cheers
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Hi, I’ve been single for a while, because of three reasons:
1. lack of confidence
2. not really having the best timing to be in a relationship.
3. Not meeting / knowing any girls I’m particularly interested in
I’ll know when I’m ready to put myself out there, but I have forgotten almost entirely how to pick up women I’m interested in. Any ideas on how not to lose my cool?
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Like when I go to parties with my buddies my friends love me but all the girls who are always at our parties are all stuck up and decide right off the bat that they aren’t gonna like me even tho I’ve known them for years and have done nothing bad to them. It’s like they all have some kind of vendetta against me for no reason.
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he does it all the time, his body language says he really wants to kiss me, but i am too catholic/traditional to do that in public, at a very full restaurant full of men. i have pledged no sex before marriage, but idk he realizes i don’t kiss in public places like that. i have a promise ring for a reason. i hate the bedroom googoo eyes. i think its weird. i have aspergers syndrome, diagnosed, and can seem a bit out of it or cold. i hate making eye contact, unless i am threatening someone down, like in a fight. he likes to grab my hands, kiss them, he used to do it while he was driving. we almost wrecked a few times for it. i started driving, and we have yet to have any problems with his touchyness while drivng. i drive really well, but i thnk i scare him, we had a really fast engine put in the car not too long ago. beats his little sports car. but i hate the bedroom "i’m-undressing-you-with-my-eyes-in-public" thats so bad i have had girls and guys both to tell me to watch my back. i do and will, i am a blackbelt and i carry pepper spray and he knows it. he’s seen me give lessons before at the judo and jiu jitsu dojo i learned at. any tips on breaking his habit?
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There’s this girl in one of my classes who I’d like to start talking to. Problem is that I don’t sit next to her and the two seats next to her are already taken, so I can’t move closer to her and in this class, we don’t ever do group projects or anything of the sort, so there’s no hope for that. I’m not sure how to get her number and I’m just not that good at "talking" to girls at all, please help?
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Why do girls like after he gets a girlfriend? This happen to my uncle he has a stuttering problem so girls didn’t like him just because he stutters but then after he got with the girl he wanted girls wanted him. Why do Y’all girls do that? Why can’t you like the guy with a stuttering problem? Why do girls want what they can’t have?
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i’m 21 and i like older women that are like basically 21-30 but it seems hard to attract them cause they think i want a one night stand. I really don’t to be honest i’m not bad looking either i got compliments the only girls that have an interest in me are like girls who are 15-20. Any ideas on how i can attract an older women like at clubs or bars of even college?
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i want to get in this girls pants i like what are some good techniques on how to do that?
i think ill get in her pants cause she has a crush on me so ill turn on my charm
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This is really getting me down. I can’t ever seem to find any girls that will even give me a chance. I have dated people, but it is almost impossible for me to meet women! I have some really good qualities. I play a couple of instruments, I can cook, I am thoughtfull and described by girls as a "really sweet guy". Physically I don’t know how I rate myself on looks. People say I am a good looking guy, but I am not sure if I am or not. Still I can’t meet anyone or get someone to show intrest. It is very fustrating when I can see everyone else pick up women yet I can’t.
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I know so many girls who like musicians just for the fact that theyre a musician. It doesn’t even matter how they look, or how talented they are.
Why is this?
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how can i get girls to like me… i am good looking but not the hottest guy ever… i have been rated a 8 before by a ex girlfriend. my longest relationship has only been a couple weeks. why dont girls like me more than a friend……. how can i chang this its really fucking depressing
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girls are non-stop asking me out (im 14 but eveyone says i look 16) they can be form 13 to like 19, its unbeliveble, i was in Mc donalds the other day this girl come up to me and says "my friend says you look really hot and if she can have your number" I DONT EVEN HAVE A PHONE!!! and she looked 21. i have a girlfriend and she nice and shes not a skank shes well manered and really cute but im sick of saying sorry no.
any help?
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i am 25 and i have slowly came to realize that i am really good at picking up women.but i am with a girl who i Truly love and i will never cheat on her.the only thing that i am having a problem with is all of the insecure guys on this page.so i will do for you guys what my older brother did for me and tell you how to have a great first date.
STEP 1
when you ask for a girls number understand that you are just asking for a number so if she says no then move on and ask someone else.make sure you have confidence.women are like sharks that can smell blood in the water.if they think you are insecure they will never take you serious.
STEP 2
Alright so she gave you the number.go ahead and call her that night.in my experience if you wait to call her then you lose all momentum you had.now on this first call relax she knows your going to ask her out.so don’t panic and chicken out.if you do that then you will never talk to her again.(once again confidence).talk to her for a while then ask her if she wants to go out.she will say yes.try to make the phone call short.you dont want to give her your life story on the first call.
STEP 3
now before you leave to go pick her up get rid of any dorkyness you have inside yourself.you want to be cool and relaxed.but dont be to relaxed she does want a date with a guy who looks stoned all night.Also make sure you look good women don’t want a date with a guy who looks like he hasn’t shaved in a week.also clean your car out.
STEP 4
now you are at her house.understand that this is just a date and she is not your girlfriend.this is suppose to be fun.when you leave dont be so shy talk to her on the way to were ever you are going.there is nothing worse then dead silence.
STEP 5
when you get to werever you are taking her make sure its a place were you guys can talk.NO MOVIES.if you take her to a movie then you will not get to know her.Also don’t talk her ear off and don’t show off.she likes you otherwise you wouldn’t be this far and dont be stupid and ask her questions like if she ever wants to be married or if she wants kids.she will run right out the door if you do this.
STEP 6
now as you take her home dont ask her if she had fun.you are not her dad.be confident that she had fun and when you drop her off walk her to the door and kiss her.and don’t do that panic delayed kiss that will make you look stupid.then tell her you had a good time and leave.if she had fun she will call you back.
so i know i have to ask a question or they will delete the question so my question is was this helpfull
i am not trying to change anyone.i am just trying to help some guys on here with no experience
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o.k., so we’ve only been going out like 3 and a half weeks, but I’m not some crazy, jealous girlfriend. My boyfriends a football player, and was really "popular" with like the entire female population of the school, not like he dated everyone of them and was a player (he’s only had one girlfriend before, at his old school), but like every girl thinks he’s hot, and flirts with him and everything. This bothered me when we first started dating because I thought they all should immediately back off once he had a girlfriend, but I thought once we had been going out for a couple weeks it would definetly stop. But all these random, desperate and just ANNOYING (you can tell this is irritating me) girls are always trying to talk to him, hanging all over him, giggling stupidly whenever he says something, etc. And its not his fault, he doesn’t encourage or flirt back, but he doesnt want to be rude or something. I havent told him it bothers me, because I don’t want to make myself seem like a crazy, jealous girlfriend, and i know he’s just trying to be nice.
The last straw was today, when some little sophomore and her scantily dressed friend came up to US (i was right next to him!) and asked, all giggly, if he was going to homecoming in a couple of days and if they would see him there. He just kinda put his arm around my waist and said yeah, we’re going. 
…but they just ignored the hint and kept flirting! so please, advice on how to make this stop? i wanna have an amazing homecoming without other girls coming on to my boyfriend 
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I don’t have too much trouble meeting women, it happens in random spurts when I meet them in a social setting. Sometimes this doesn’t come either, and I have droughts. I don’t try and hit on girls or just go up to random women, because I’m kind of an amateur in this area. Will me working, going to school, and just going through everyday life being myself enough? Or do I need to go out there and learn how to pick up women. And yes I’m trying to meet more women. I just want to see what else is out there then what I have already seen.
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I’d like it if the answers came from people with experience getting out of the friends zone. FYI this girls and I are "best friends" but I like her so much more then that.
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I am a subscriber to this seduction newsletter and it talks about using these things to attract women.
I mean, could it be for real? Can you imagine what it would be like to get girls just by talking in a different way? I can’t.
I used hypnosis to solve my confidence problems which allows you to approach more women, but I just can’t see how you can use it on other people without them knowing it as they claim it can be used.
My friend told me it’s real, but could he just be playing with me?
Oh, this is the newsletter, btw:
http://www.myspace.com/135105387
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