How do you get a girl to like you?

How do you get a girl to like you is a fundamental question in a guy’s life.

I bet you have encountered guys who got the most successful, beautiful girls and left you astonished by their success. You couldn’t find anything outstanding about them and you are absolutely sure it is not jealousy that has blinded you.

These guys weren’t extremely smart or successful. There was nothing you could have pointed out and say that’s the reason why women fall at their feet. Nothing unusual about them and yet they had the secret code for cracking the essence of the question how do you get a girl to like you in an effortless manner.

Now, I know the clichés, we all know them about guys who are tough, playing it hard to get and hurt girls who keep on chasing after them begging for another rejection.

But those guys, I must ask myself, are they enjoying this unfertile dance? Maybe they do but I don’t see the point of getting a girl to like you if in the following day you don’t have the slightest interest in her.

A guy told me once that when he passes near a girl he fancies he look through her rather than at her. “Do that and that will do the job” he told me. Now maybe it works, we all suffer from this psychological bug as Graucho Marx famous quote implies: I do not want to belong to a club that accepts people like me.

However, these methods are not for me. I prefer staying naïve and authentic and get girls who like guys like me, who hasn’t lost a romantic point of view.

Anyway, the bottom line is I want a girl who is mature enough to appreciate my respectful attitude, my honesty and my ability to show affection.

I don’t want someone who is masochistic; a type of girl that wants a guy just because he doesn’t want her. I want someone stable though I must admit unstable girls also have their charms…

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How to flirt with a girl

How to flirt with a girl is a question that occupies my mind every now and then, usually when I recognize an opportunity for an acquaintance, recruit all my wits and charms, gather my thoughts and go with high confidence towards my destination and still in spite all the efforts the opportunity often slips away because of some concealed ingredient in the communication equation.

First of all I must admit I don’t believe that flirting with a girl is a technical thing. Today you can find a book about everything: how to raise children, how to live well, ten ways to success etc…We want a manual for everything, a magic receipt so we can get what we want without sweating, without a changing process.

Well, everybody can write a manual handful of tips about how to flirt with a girl; telling you to be funny, smart, courageous, generous and charming.  I guess if you felt you possess these qualities you would be the one to write a booklet of tips and advices.

Now I am not saying those advices can not be helpful; awareness is an important thing and acquiring awareness will help one in each and every aspect of his life.

So of course when you want to flirt with a girl being aware of your messages, of your body language, of the feeling you evoke will help you transmit the right messages.

The thing is acquiring awareness is a long process of self observation, growing up, understanding your needs, knowing how to identify your own emotions and recognizing the person’s you interact with emotions.

Going through this process will buy you good communication skills: with your relatives, with your friends, employers and also with complete strangers; strangers, who can potentially become your intimate partners, if only you could learn how to communicate properly.

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First off, I’m a sophomore. There is this girl Danielle who i really like. No joke, she is the most amazing girl i have ever met. she is smart, funny, athletic, one of the prettiest girls that i have ever seen. i think about her a lot, but not in a creepy way. okay so i don’t know how close to get before i should ask her out. i don’t want to become too close to her i don’t think because then she might think of me as just a friend. one of my friends likes her too though, but i don’t think she likes him that way because she already turned him down once. (is that wrong to like someone that your friend likes?) and i don’t know how much to talk to her. i don’t want to seem like some creep that talks to or texts her all the time. and another thing is the "touch barrier" what kind of touching is kinda flirty but not awkward for the girl to show that i care about her? o, and what kind of compliments and how often is it good to compliment a girl? and at what point is it not weird to hang out just one on one because whenever i hang out with her it is with a group unless if it is walking with her to class alone or after school to her car. any help on this is great. i need as much advice as i can get because sadly, i have never had a girlfriend, but neither have any of my friends really. (no i am not a geek, i am athletic, smart, and decent looking.)
o and for the record, i know her already and talk to her at school every day basically.
o update!!!!:
she told my friend who also liked her that she doesn’t like him that way.

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My girlfriend is quite jealous every time a girl starts to flirt with me she thinks I somehow initiated it, how can i assure her that I am not one the one who is initiating these advances.

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I’m 27 m. never had a girlfriend ever, but at least i want to start meeting and connecting with women now. I’ve met women at work, … went to dance classes sometime ago. went to school for years and there was never any girl that would care about me. Well i never talk cause i’m quiet but still. I don’t feel anyone is ever interested. They may just interact with me BECAUSe they have to( example: group project at school) but doesn’t seem they have any interest in friendship or more.

Recently i met a girl at work. She’s really attractive to me, personality wise. But she’s one of those outgoing people.. she has a life already. and i’m only meeting her now cause the boss told her to come and help us temp workers. She is a permanent worker for years there.

So that girl really attracts me when i talk to her. She’s awesome but there’s no way for that to turn into anything. It’s just a temp job and it will end soon.

What else can i do? Is it just up to luck in getting friendships?

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how to be a player With Girls Not Too Many Girls.
Until Your Good To Flirt With Your Own Girlfriend

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Im a guy and i am looking for tips on how to kiss my girlfriend for the first time. We both want to kiss eachother.

Please Help.

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I’m 31 years old and have never had a girlfriend. I’m afraid I might die a virgin and not be able to ever have a baby. I just don’t want to end up like lockergnome.

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I like this girl, we go to the same skool. how do i get her to like me?
im a junior shes a freshman, shes kinda friends with my sister. my sistter doesnt go to the same skool. i barely ever see her except on the bus but im too shy too really talk to her. i think she has a boyfriend but i really like her. what should i do. how do i indirectly hint that i like her? please help how can i get her too like me.
im kinda shy around girls an i really need a girlfriend but ive never hadd one. i have glasses and i guess im average looking an shes really cute

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I am UNDERWEIGHT(5`9 tall and 105 pounds) and I want to get a girl to like me/get a girlfriend. But it seems like EVERY girl hates skinny guys like me. So how can I get a girl(and other people) to see past that appearance and see the real me inside? Is this even possible?

Here is a picture of me if you wanna see for yourself:
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=490877905&albumID=487352&imageID=6120495

And it seems like this appearance is genetic, so I can’t change it no matter how much I eat or exercise, and I do both A LOT.

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I am Junior at high school. I weigh about 175 pounds and I am about 5′11”. I wear glasses and dress casually everyday. My hobbies are to play tennis, draw and go to chipotle for food.

There is a new girl at school and I like her. I want to make her my girlfriend. She likes narwhals, chipotle, watching football games and listening to music. She just moved from Sacramento, and she used to go to a private school. I have her with me in drama. She has been my partner several times. She does talk with me and I do talk with her.

How do I impress her to make her like me? How do I make her my girlfriend? Please help me because my goal is to make her my girlfriend before junior prom. Thank you.

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i am a boy. I am one of the popular kids in my school and i am in 7 grade. i had a girlfriend in 5th grade but i cant get a girl to like me. Like there are 2 popular groups in my school. mine has more kids and the girls hang out with the other popular group more. ANY TIPS

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Hi all,

I need your help. I like this girl that just got out of a bad relationship she was in for 4 years. It has only been like 5 days that they have broken up. We used to hang out like a couple years back and she know that I like her and still does right now.

I always think about her from time to time and then a week ago while I was walking home. I saw here sitting there with her shoulder slouched and was just very emotional and depressed. The only thing that was going through my mind was that I was so very happy seeing her and just gave her big warm hugged. As we were sitting and talking. She told me she moved in right there, which is just a couple of walk from my place. She also said she just broke up with her boyfriend of 4 years 5 days ago.

As we went out to eat, she was telling how bad her ex treated her and that she’s always crying, even at work, constantly. She wrote me a letter after, thanking me for making her feel beautiful and appreciated. because she said she hasn’t felt that in three years. I really do think she very beautiful inside and out. We hung out a couple of time and it felt very nice. Feels like we were couple. I hugged her and she did the same. We hold hands. We kissed, etc.

So yesterday, she told me that she feel like we were rushing things and that she just broke up with her ex and didn’t have time to herself to reflect and heal. She said she really want that and hope that I can respect that. She know that I liked her alot.

Right now she is struggling with everything, emotionally, financially, and health. I do care about her very much and don’t want to be the rebound guy. I really want to start a long term relationship with her, because I really care about her, even more than myself. What should I do. How often should I call. How often should I check up on her. Can someone let me know step by step on what I should do to make her my girlfriend. I really like her and care about her deeply and it just feels natural for me to make her happy, Thank you for taking the time to read my story and any advice will help.

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I’m really bored cause its midnight so i’m posting random questions till i feel like going to bed.

So how can guys with money use it to get chicks. Should we buy flashy stuff to get your attention. Should we just buy you stuff. What about driving an expensive car? In all the movies the rich kids get all the hot chicks. I’m just wondering if its true and how they did it.

Like i said before, mean nothing by this question. Just bored. I have a girlfriend and a life so please, no haters

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Do most social guys approach women they are interested in?.If they don’t why?
For example the two of you have spoken once… all he does is stare at you when you are not looking.He is usually surround by girls but doesn’t have a girlfriend(yet) looks at you differently but doesn’t approach you.

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ok ok i am a little young to try and get girlfriends i am 13 years old but everyone i know has one and i had one for less than 4 weeks i wanna get a girlfriend i am nice and all so i deserve one.

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Hey, i have found out that the girl i really like, fancies me. How do i ask her to be my girlfriend ???

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my girlfriend broke up with me a few days ago and i just cant get over it we went out for almost 2 months and i’m even sure why she dumped me she wont talk to me i don’t even understand what i did and i cant get over us what should i do?

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My girlfriend always says it hurts just as much for a girl to get hit in her groin or breasts as it is for a guy to get hit in the groin. She has really big boobs (but she’s skinny) does that make a difference?

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I am a guy who has never had a girlfriend, never been to a dance with a girl, never dated, never kissed, nothing. I have been focusing more on career, but I want to be in a relationship. I at least want to date a girl. Whenever I see girls I try to make eye contact with them, stand up straight and look confident but it never works! I don’t think i’m hot or anything, in fact I think I may be a bit ugly. Now I want to try flirting, any advice?

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i am a bisexual female and i want a girlfriend but i dont know where to start looking. i go to georgia state university but im not sure what girls are or arent gay. how do i approach a woman and hint to her that im gay and looking for a girlfriend. i just told one girl i was gay up front and she said she didnt care but wasnt gay. people are different so this same tactic might not work twice. what do i say?

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