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A while ago I joined a sports club and met a bunch of girls through that. In July one of the girls had a party and invited the entire team. I was pretty depressed that day, so I was just sitting around by myself. Then another girl, "Marge", came and sat beside me. She asked me what the matter was and I told her my boyfriend had broken up with me that day, on our anniversary. She said she was sorry and asked if she could tell me a secret. I told her of course she could, so then she mentioned that she had been in a relationship with another girl from the team but no one knew. Since then I’ve been fascinated by "Marge".
Up until very recently I thought it was just a little girl-crush. But I’ve started to realize that I really her. However, a few problems; she thinks (I’m guessing) that I’m completely straight. Another "problem" is that she’s a few years older than me. Couple weeks ago we were sitting down talking and I asked her "what’s up?" ; she answered with "listen, I’m 25 years old and you’re 18.. " (dialogue was a little different as there’s a bit of a language problem as well- she speaks French and I speak English; we both understand both languages though so it isn’t really a problem, just a bit strange I guess)
Also lately we haven’t really been talking very much, today she even said I was a total introvert. It’s just because I’m so in awe of Marge so I don’t always feel at ease to be completely myself. I’ve heard a bunch of girls bitch about her but then they still hang out with her more than I do, I get so jealous but know it isn’t right to tell her..
Haha okay I think I’ve gotten my point across. Question is; how do I let her know I’m interested (without being too direct) ?
How do I find out if she might be a little attracted or something?
etc etc, how do you think I should generally deal with the situation?
Alright any help would be appreciated.. thanks 