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well me and my friends and him were hang out drinks and having fun. The topic of sex came up and one of my Friends ask my bf if he was guy and when is he going to come out of the closet. we a laughed at first but he did not find it funny .

Here is a little back ground , he told me he had social anxiety for most of high school and I was never real good at picking up women until college. He just work on it and push him self to talk to people. he did this with out meds so it must of been hard.

he did have a gf until he was 20 years old they did not have sex or any think put they fooled around but did not have sex they did not date long.he ask a few girls out but nothing clicked He lost his virginity at 24 to a girl he was Friends with. then he had sex with one other girl.

so people though he was gay and because he could get a girl for the longest time.

so he got up and he told me and my Friends that we are stupid and he does not heed this right now. he just got up and left . he went for a walk cuz i drove and i found him and we talk but he told me that is I can not accept me for me then i do not know what to tell you. he did not talk to me for the rest of the night.

he does not like to talk about him feelings much so it just got to him i think.

how do I mike it up to him? I do not want to lose him.

i have a gf but she and i dont have alot of time for stuff like that or hannging out .
or feel up a girl

I want to meet women, what do you suggest? I’ve been in a relationship for 3 years and mf GF broke it up, its been too long, so where/how/when do i approach women for dates?

Eh I’ve basically never had a gf in my years of living. I’m going to be going to university nxt year and still haven’t had a gf in my life. I just don’t know why. At first, I thought it’s cause of the zits. I had loads in my middle school yrs and early high school yrs, took ‘em off. I’m clean now. Don’t have ‘em anymore. Next I thought I was too scrawny, started working out more and way bigger than I was in my early high school yrs. Still nothing…then I thought it was my short hair and my wide forehead so I grew out my hair and have it curly (i’m going to a salon or a barber for them to make it wavy. i know it sounds weird since i’m a guy but curly sucks)

but nothing works! i get some girls attention from other states or so. i’ve developed pretty much a horrendous reputation as the class weirdo from when i was younger. i’m not like that anymore. i changed. but you can’t get people’s views about you to change. i’m certainly not ugly. i’m a good looking guy (mind me i don’t want to have a huge ego).

is it because im shy? i never am comfortable in talking to girls at my school, EVER. i just don’t know why. i try and try and just completely forget what i say or just smile and don’t say nothing and i don’t know how to keep my discussions going on in tlking to them. i really need help on girls. i’m really clueless.

i guess its the shyness that turns them off eh?

I rescued this puppy and thought that since I’m taking care of her I might as well attract me some hot women. I haven’t had a gf in a bit so I’m a bit out of practice.

i get is that in NJ white/black/spanish women are not attracted to south asian men. ive seen enough. i cant say all women but the majority dont. white/black/spanish girls in NJ cant even imagine that a south asian guy born and raised here can be a soulmate. ive seen brown skin guys get rejected all the time. myself included. no we dont smell bad, or bad accent. we are educated, clean cut….i guess they dont see as sexual or attractive. ive approached hundreds of girls all shapes and size but nothing. i go by the personality. actually women go by what they feel rather than what they say. makes me wonder y im even posting here. some people say keep on approaching, one will say yes. kind of hard to do that when the white girl says f-off before u even say anything, than u go to second girl and she ignores u, third girl tells u to get out of her country. all of this has happened to me. i get told i look colombian. so my point is how can one continue to approach when women talk back like that. the ones that dont and i show interest say no thanks and walk away. i see black guys get all types of girls way easier. maybe hollywood has given the stamp of approval for white women to date black men. black women just dont like me. we have a great connection and when i call them its no answer.
well im 30years old now. never had a gf. im not the loner type but became one not by choice. my prime years are gone. not in my 20′s anymore. ive learned to make friends with the lonlieness. gets easier. ive had a hard time finding a social circle so im usually by myself. from diners to movies to clubs i go by myself. get used to it. the hate just makes u numb after a while.

mine is i ask the guy i like out and he gets back wit his gf the next day >=(

i get is that in NJ white/black/spanish women are not attracted to south asian men. ive seen enough. i cant say all women but the majority dont. white/black/spanish girls in NJ cant even imagine that a south asian guy born and raised here can be a soulmate. ive seen brown skin guys get rejected all the time. myself included. no we dont smell bad, or bad accent. we are educated, clean cut….i guess they dont see as sexual or attractive. ive approached hundreds of girls all shapes and size but nothing. i go by the personality. actually women go by what they feel rather than what they say. makes me wonder y im even posting here. some people say keep on approaching, one will say yes. kind of hard to do that when the white girl says f-off before u even say anything, than u go to second girl and she ignores u, third girl tells u to get out of her country. all of this has happened to me. i get told i look colombian. so my point is how can one continue to approach when women talk back like that. the ones that dont and i show interest say no thanks and walk away. i see black guys get all types of girls way easier. maybe hollywood has given the stamp of approval for white women to date black men. black women just dont like me. we have a great connection and when i call them its no answer.
well im 30years old now. never had a gf. im not the loner type but became one not by choice. my prime years are gone. not in my 20′s anymore. ive learned to make friends with the lonlieness. gets easier. ive had a hard time finding a social circle so im usually by myself. from diners to movies to clubs i go by myself. get used to it. the hate just makes u numb after a while.

I want to know the best answer, because I dont know what I suppose to do to get her, when the first time that I saw her, she make my hearth aching, well I’m 17 years old, and untill now, I have no GF since three years.

im asking this question inspired by my ignorant ex-landlord who once asked who that woman was on my wallpaper, was it my gf? then her daughter said no, she’s a celebrity. He prompt to say, so what? you can’t date a celebrity? that really makes me think about myself.

so what’s the thing that you thought of that makes you insecure, scared, afraid, imcompotent that you can’t get the one guy/girl that you want.

how did you meet him/her (please give me more details on this)? and how long did it take before you went back out with this girl/guy, when you got his/her phone number? and did they have a bf or gf when you just met him him/her?

What would you do if this person was the hottest person that ever hit on you or was interested in you? Would you secretly set up a date for sexy time? How would you get away with it without your gf/bf finding out? If so, would you do it more than 1 time? honest answers let’s go..

i have never had a gf in my life…and its probly my fault because i dotn knwo how to approach women… i mean i can talk to them liek acquaintances..but thats all. otherwise i get nevrous and really shy….

i mean i jsut dont understand wh ya girl would say yes. usually i assume they are already taken…and if not….i figure they would rather be gay than go out with me. i mean lots of girls are really beautiful and nice or funny too….and wear sexy clothes too…

no matter how hard i try there is no way i will ever be able to compete with that kidn of beauty and appeal…being a guy…

what do i do?

I am 35. I have never had a gf and I am still a virgin. I am very ugly. I have a big nose, a skinny face and balding. I also don’t make a lot of money. I work two jobs. What can I do to get women to like me? Am I uttertly hopeless? I feel like I am and that I should give up ever finding love and just accept the fact that I will be alone for the rest of my life.

i’m sick of ugly girls bothering me all the time. i mean yeah, i could prob get a hot gf but right now i cant afford to get a gf right now in highschool (too many problems) and i do NOT want my first one to be an ugly girl. how do i show how uninterested i am?

What are some not to obvious LGBT symbols I can use to attract women? I’m in college and i’m not "out of the closet" and I want to get a gf.. the thing is I dont know that many gay people here, and i’m not that comfortable hanging out in the lgbt center, i’m bi black women but I don’t like hanging out in minority enclaves/centers.

Can anyone make suggestions on how to attract women? I’m somewhat reluctant to approach another woman since the last girl i hit on was straight and got creaped out.
odd question but can you also tell me where to find it?

I just started my first year of college two weeks ago. I’ve never had a gf, sadly, because I’m just a shy, nice guy. I’ve always fallen in the ‘friend’s zone’ right away. It seems like girls want the guy who is outgoing, confident, and they don’t seem to care that those are the guys who ALWAYS wind up cheating.

I just dont’ know what to do to make a girl start a convo with me. I can’t start the convo because I’m avg looking at best and I feel like I’m making a fool of myself because I know they aren’t interested in me. I’m a really nice guy, I’m pretty smart, I’m interesting.. but I’m just too nice and quiet. I would never cheat on a girl EVER, but it just doesn’t seem like that’s a quality girls want, sadly. I noticed so far one girl who was giving me a few smiles during our first speech once, but when I went to strike up a convo with her a different day, she seemed bored and uninterested in talking to me.

I find it hard to be confident because no girls give me the time of day.

I’m wondering why i can not seem to attract women. I’m a funny guy with a good sense of humor, (some people say i should be a comedian) Im def. loyal and dependable (sometimes to the point where people take advantage of me for it). Im only 21 and I have a regular 9-5 job where i make about 50 grand a year starting. I have my own car even though it is a junker. Im in the process of getting my own place. I associate with good, honest, hard-working individuals and I know how to have a good time.

The only reason i can think of is maybe my looks, im an average looking guy, not ugly by any stretch nor am i model handsome either. Just plain average. I know plenty of other average guys who have gf and whatnot. It seems every girl I am interested in either declines my advances or ignores me altogether, but then they seem to date an a**hole, who deals drugs,and usually treats them badly. Has the world gone mad or is it me?

btw i hate talking about myself…it feels wierd
Gme and confidence is not my problem, I know (or i at least think i know) how to act ….dont get it twisted i jus came off of a serious 2 yr relationship and it seems getting back into the game is harder for some reason

should I wait longer, since they’re more women in this world than men. i’d wait to have them come up to me. i dont know how to approach women I dont know what to say or have a conversation for some reason with them what do I do? im 23 and had only 1 gf.

I love my bf and he says he loves me. He is very good looking and there are not many at my school sad to say. Many girls flirt with him, some are downright sl***y about it. Why do guys flirt with other girls when they have a gf they say is "everything" to them and what would you say is crossing the line and should be the end of the relationship?

im having problems attracting women im not that good looking btw im also 21yrs old and never had a real gf i just need to know what can i do i got the personality and im very sweet and shy

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