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This girl who went to my old school now comes to the one im at now, but it’s not mixed. It’s boys and girls separate. She always says hi and i’ve always loved her, Anyway to show her that without interfering with our friendship?
Whenever I try to converse with women at the university, I always receive "are you hitting on me look". This is madness, I just want friendship! How can I approach women without them thinking that I am looking for intimacy?
I met this girl like 3 months ago, and at the beginning i was just about the only guy that didn’t like her, or rather the only guy obsessed with her. Long story short, she liked me, i liked her but i got back together with my ex. Blah blah, we broke up and now im still friends with the girl i liked, and now like again. She doesnt want to give up a friendship, how do i just get her to take a risk and go out with me?
I’m 27 m. never had a girlfriend ever, but at least i want to start meeting and connecting with women now. I’ve met women at work, … went to dance classes sometime ago. went to school for years and there was never any girl that would care about me. Well i never talk cause i’m quiet but still. I don’t feel anyone is ever interested. They may just interact with me BECAUSe they have to( example: group project at school) but doesn’t seem they have any interest in friendship or more.
Recently i met a girl at work. She’s really attractive to me, personality wise. But she’s one of those outgoing people.. she has a life already. and i’m only meeting her now cause the boss told her to come and help us temp workers. She is a permanent worker for years there.
So that girl really attracts me when i talk to her. She’s awesome but there’s no way for that to turn into anything. It’s just a temp job and it will end soon.
What else can i do? Is it just up to luck in getting friendships?
Hey everyone that answered my previous question, thanks for helping me out. but I how do I flirt with her? This is the previous question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20091008155311AAEe5ll I don’t want to destroy our friendship, and I really like her, but how do I flirt? or any other suggestions?
Like i really like and enjoy this guy’s company. He said he likes me too! But my friend told me he used to be a flirt, right now she’s not sure cos they didn’t really hang out much. The guy actually admited to me that he used to made up with a girl and whatever he did in the past. He said he is determined to change because he got toyed by a girl before and he knew how it felt.
Today he asked to hold my hand (we’re not attached cos i don’t want to.) and i agreed. We started to behave really intimidatingly where he put his hand on my waist, we even hugged. He promised he’ll never let me go, and he really will wait for me till i am ready. I don’t know if he’s really TRUE or he’s just trying to take advantage of me. What should i do? Really?
I want to believe him, but currently i just want to hang out with him as a friend. I don’t want touchy stuff (though i enjoyed it) because it complicates our friendship.
Guys, i need ur suggestion?
If i tell him i am not comfy with getting touchy, and he respects me, means he really likes me right? Can i request for that? since we are not even bgf.
I can make small talk with a girl, saying hi, making comments, so I guess I’m in. But the problem is you can’t just keep talking like hi, how are you, how was your class, how your summer. So how do i make the conversations more interesting and more meaningful to have some sort a real friendship with the girl?
In high school, all help is appreciated!
Thanks
I like this girl that I work with a lot, and we’ve been hanging out a little bit. To be more specific, I’ll talk to her one on one at work and we’ll have very playful conversations and stuff. Outside of work if I hang out with her, its usually with her one friend (who I also work with, which kind of makes it weird/hard to make moves) and we’ll go to the movies or something. To give you some background information, I’ve never been good at making moves on girls because I’m always afraid of how awkward it will be seeing them after. We’re both talkative, so we never have awkward silences or anything, but I need help on how to take it to the next level. Keep in mind, her friend is there who i also work with, so not only could things get awkward between me and the girl if she doesnt like me, but also between her friend and im sure word would spread around quickly to everyone else. I should be hanging out with her one on one sometime soon, so that should make things somewhat easier, but I’m looking for help with both scenarios. I know you’re probably going to say "just suck it up and ask her" but this is very complicated. I don’t want to ruin our friendship, and also I like my job and the people I work with and don’t want to kind of ruin that either. Any help is greeeeaaatttlllyy appreciated, thank you all.
