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So there was this absolutely gorgeous girl at the club. Best looking girl there. Any guy that comes up to her fails miserably. One guy normal looking everyday joe comes up to her and the next thing you see is she’s smiling and looks impressed and lets him buy her a drink and gets her REAL phone number. (it’s real because he calls her a few days later and it was her).

What he said he told her was. ONE LINE. He said he came up to her and said "my friend said i’d be really good for you". How is that an impressive pick up line? remember this guy is no brad pitt, no george clooney, no orlando bloom. This guy is an ORDINARY joe. How does that pick up line work? that’s ALL he said and then she smiled and laughed and giggled and absolutely LOVED that line.

WOMEN, how does that work? Please explain to me why that line is so great? i don’t understand it, what’s so special about it?

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I posted this question in a very unfair, demeaning, and inappropriate way a few days ago-for anyone who saw it, I apologize-it was a reaction to a handful of people, and I have deleted it. This is how the question should have been presented, and I would appreciate anyone’s input at this time:

I have noticed, as an African American female whose friends are mostly white girls, that men of all races do not approach me in the same way as they do my white female friends (or Asian friends, though I don’t know as many of them).

Men, especially the black ones, talk to me as if they are a ‘hard thug (even if they aren’t one) ‘-I am assuming this is because they think that this is what I want. I have witnessed the same guy speak to one of my white friends in a softer, nicer tone, with more sophisticated vocabulary and much more gentlemanly posturing or gestures. I get a sideways sneering Snoop Dogg grin with a comment about my butt (hey, ma, ya gotta man?), while my white friend receives a more respectful smile (hi, you are really beautiful).

As a result, I really can’t tell the difference between the thugs that I don’t want and the nice guys that I do (because they seem to try to impersonate ‘thugs’). When I turn down the guy, I am told that I am doing so because I am looking for a thug….when in actuality, these guys have confused me to the point that I just have to pick one and hope that he is the nice guy.

So my question is-do you act differently depending upon a girl’s race, and why?

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Ok the problem is this, ive met this girl on facebook through a mutual but we have never seen each other face to face. im 21 and shes 17

we’ve been chatting for a while now, 2 weeks minimum.

i like this girl and ive told her and that i would like to meet her, as a joke i said who ever gets the highest in the theory test we are both going to take soon, will bring the other winner out, where the winner wants to go.

i said to her i like to and i want to get to know you better, facebook and whatsapp isnt the best way to get to know her. i said i dont wana waste your and my time, do tell me if ur not interested, and said so are we kool about this ? she said yes

then i told her a few days ago lets meet up i cant wait for the theory thing and she said she didnt feel comfortable going out with someone she doesnt know.

before i said im going to a strip club for a mates birthday and she said she wished she could come with me, i had another birthday and she was interested in coming with me before.

i told her if shes ever going to come out with me and she said she may spontaneously decide to go out with me one day, i told her tha our first date will be so fun n will have the best time of her life ‘wikid’ lol

whats her problem ? how could i get her to go out with me on a date ?

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we just broke up a few days ago and were together for a year and 4 months almost five. He said he wants to be my friend and just wants to find who he is since i have been his only real girlfriend i believe that but he is saying we might get back together one day he just needs time to himself but still wants to talk to me… i wanna stop feeling so sick when he talks about other girls how can i

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I am 14 years old, and i like this girl Tiffany. I don’t know if she likes me, but i don’t think she dislikes me. She is 15. I want to ask her out, but i am nervous. Should i ask her out, or should i get a friend to do it for me? Should i start just by saying hi for a few days. We never get to talk, because she is in a different grade.

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I’m a sophomore in high school. A few days ago I met a cute freshman. I think she can tell I’m interested in her, but I can’ t tell if she’s interested in me. Is there anything I can do to kind of get her interested in me? I’m not talking about like changing, but subtle things I can do that will make her crave my attention. thanks!

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my girlfriend broke up with me a few days ago and i just cant get over it we went out for almost 2 months and i’m even sure why she dumped me she wont talk to me i don’t even understand what i did and i cant get over us what should i do?

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I am trying to get pregnant and I would like to have a girl, so can I use the ovulation test kit in order to know when is the best day to have a girl?I know that in order to conceive a girl, intercourse should be few days before ovulation because female sperms live longer. Also, what is the best ovulation test kit for this poupose?

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we have a weird relationship, she’s my best frnd’s sis and i asked his permission and he said i could date her. so i asked her out and she said she wants to be friends. we’ve grown closer ever since and she came to call me bro and i call her lil sis, but i just have a feeling its just a game i have to play, coz she laughs at most of my jokes and always gets physical like strangling me playfully n stuff, maintains eye contact, keeps telling me im cute all the time and takes pictures of me and also pics of both of us together, and smiles at me in a friendly way all the time. but i dont kno if she thinks its a game too, its just a feeling i get.

so i started getting more confident and i kno im loads better than that broken up shell she turneed down. ive known her for 4 years, and her bday was a few days ago, so i decided to go ahead and buy her a gift for the first time because we werent really close in her previous birthdays. Anyway i bought her a cute little necklace that i thought would fit the brotherly image, with no hearts or anything so as to make sure she wudnt "misunderstand me", and she has a thing for the twilight series so i gave her one of the books that used to be mine n told her i hate the series and that i dun want it back. she got all happy and blew me kisses, and said: i so wanna hug you right now, but she just stayed where she was and i just said bye and left coz it was time for me to go, but it wasnt the least bit awkward tho.

is there any way she might consider me for something more, or am i doomed to the friend zone? i really like this girl and i really need some good advice. (btw thats not how i think of her, i just listed all the hints i thought might help you guys judge, im not a jerk. ill be whatever she wants me to be, whether its her bro, her friend or her bf)

im really sorry this makes such a big read but its complicated and i had to write all that stuff

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