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2. You must understand how women REALLY think, and what it takes to build REAL attraction Read more...

I’d like some guys to answer this question so that girls & women see how we handle "matters of the heart" when it comes to a situation like this. I think we do it a lot simpler (without any drama) than the females do, but my opinion alone doesn’t count. It’s my belief that we guys can still be friends regardless of who ends up with the girl. I just want to see if I’m on the same page as most other guys.
I can see that the girls are already making this a drama case. I’m not talking about deciding "who the girls gets", I’m talk about 2 male friends (just like 2 girls) who are interested in the same person, how do the friends decide what they should do. Why do women choose to complicate EVERYTHING? Please cut the drama, ladies.

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I mean. While a man is dating a women, she knows everything he’s thinking, and she also undertstands why he thinks that way.

But men "including myself" usually have no idea why females are attracted to men. And we men have no idea what to do when we actually want to attract women.

But it’s like women were born understanding exactly how men think. But men where born only knowing that they women are vastly different.

Understand what I’m saying?

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So ive got this problem where I cannot for the life of me walk up and talk to women. I cant even say "Hi" to one walking by!
If by chance one comes up to me and makes an attempt to flirt I generally screw it up by not knowing what to say and they lose interest because I draw blanks and cant be myself.

Ive read books on how to seduce women and all that crap, ive seen psychologist, ive done it all. Ive been diagnosed with personality disorders effecting my social communication ability, I guess its all because of that.

But the reality of it is, is that my peacock feathers are broken, I cant attract females. And im getting aggrivated. Any advice?

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is it really that diffrent ??? i never had a girl outside my own race is it ok to approch them the same way i know some people are gonna think this question is crazy but im pretty clueless on this one females and guys who have done it only please

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So for some I’m attractive. I also work out, not because i want to be muscular but because i love the pump. I spend most of my time reading books and studying and what not.. the other time i spend working out or at work (im in my 20s).
When I go out, I tend to attract women, as I am relatively attractive and confident. However, once I get into conversation, I flop.. evidently few females really want to talk about the latest technological advances or engineering feats or how the theory of relativity can be used to prove much more than we though and the accuracy of it is outstanding.. just like how gravity as we know it is actually an incorrect theory..
anyways.. i suck at speaking to girls.. what sort of topics should I practice and use when I converse with them? Any tricks?

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It always seems like I attract the women that never want to get into a relationship with me. I guess part of the reason why is because I never talk to females that don’t send me any kind of signs. I will see females that I might be interested in but they act like they are not interested in me. Which I have also had from other people that women are intimated by me and I need to make the first move or they think I am stuck up. What do I need to do differently and how can I attract the right kind of girl

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I think they are a bunch of BS. I’ve tried some of their tactics, as well as some provided by therapists and none of them work. I’m in my 40′s and still getting the same kind of treatment from females I got in elementary school.

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I’ve tried being all that "be yourself" stuff but that only gains me females as just friends. How can I turn it up to be more than friends?

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Females also display this syndrome as well.

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They say "a closed mouth don’t get fed", do most of you feel you make good on your opportunities with all the females out there? Or do you feel you let some slip by that you probably shouldn’t?

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I just finished reading an article about Wilt Chamberlains alleged claim of sleeping with 20,000 women and it got me thinking, wow how does he do it? I mean he is 7 foot, athletic, and rich, so I suppose that is his main ingredient to get women. But here I am a 20 year old college student, struggling with academics, money, and so forth. I know I can’t compete with Chamberlain’s league and I’m not really interested with sleeping with 20000 women. So my question is before I start digressing even further, what is the proper trend of clothing to wear today? How should one style his hair to attract the proper attention from females? Personality, self-esteem, confidence are all inner self characteristics so I know many of you cannot help me with that, but I am interested on what I can do to improve my outer surface to get the female attention.

Thanks everybody

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