Firstly I want to clarify the difference for all the women out there. There are two types of men who learn this kind of thing:
Players:- Simply say and do whatever makes a woman attracted to them quickly, only temporarily and build no emotional connection essentially just to get laid.
Pick up Artists:- Learn how to be perceived as attractive by women on a deeper level and learn how to interact with women effectively so they can date the women they want to and build a working relationship.
I used to be terrible with women, one girl straddled me and I still wasn’t sure if she liked me and had no idea how to react or what to do. I was sick of always being stuck as just friends, I had enough friends. I wanted someone to show my affection towards and to be close to emotionally, I’m not going to lie, the only difference between your best friend and your boy/girl-friend is you have sex with your boy/girlfriend so that was a factor but I do not want to shag every girl and have meaningless sex, I want as most if not all “pick up artists” do; to find a special girl who is worth sharing my life with.
I was sick of it being up to fate putting me in a situation where a conversation would start with a girl and we might "click", I wanted to be in control so if I met the girl of my dreams or saw her I could go and get her or at least know how to have a go and maybe not crash and burn instantly. You have no idea girls how terrifying it can be for a guy to approach a girl, the fear of rejection was crippling.
I have read so many questions like this and all the answers are guys saying "its bull****, none of it works you are either attractive or not" and women saying "you sicken me tricking women like that just to get laid".
Guys who think its all crap; there is allot of bull**** out there written by guys who are naturally successful with women but have no idea why and make up bull**** theories. I learned by reading a few select books written by guys who have studied evolution, biology, psychology and sociology and been out and tested their theories, their stuff is correct at a fundamental scientific level. I have tried it and what they say is true. It’s not "say or do this and she will be yours", It’s "this is what women find attractive, this is why they find it attractive this is how to communicate that attractive trait to a woman".
For women who think we are tricking or manipulating you. It’s not like that. I HAVE NEVER TRICKED A WOMAN OR FAKED AN INTERACTION, everything that happened was real, we met, had a conversation and every feeling she felt was a real emotion. I just learned how to convey the positive aspects of my personality effectively. Like now i know that bragging about my car won’t do much.
Have you ever worn a push up bra, low cut top or a short skirt or worn makeup to attract guys? That is manipulating men, you are pushing our inbuilt attraction mechanisms, women are far more complex than men so why is it wrong to learn what women’s attraction mechanisms are and how to push them? You do it to men all the time, most men just don’t know how to do it to women because they are so much more complex. When it comes to attraction, men are like whistles, a couple of buttons, easy to work out, but women are like accordians, or a harp or a piano, far far more difficult.
Don’t get me wrong, I am me and I won’t change because someone doesn’t like me but I will and have changed to become a better more successful person in general which in turn has made me more attractive to women. I am not the same as every other pick up artist; I am myself I just know how to tell women who that is now.
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So my question is, now you know what a pick up artist is, what is your opinion of them? And what do you think about guys who actively tried to learn it?
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