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he does it all the time, his body language says he really wants to kiss me, but i am too catholic/traditional to do that in public, at a very full restaurant full of men. i have pledged no sex before marriage, but idk he realizes i don’t kiss in public places like that. i have a promise ring for a reason. i hate the bedroom googoo eyes. i think its weird. i have aspergers syndrome, diagnosed, and can seem a bit out of it or cold. i hate making eye contact, unless i am threatening someone down, like in a fight. he likes to grab my hands, kiss them, he used to do it while he was driving. we almost wrecked a few times for it. i started driving, and we have yet to have any problems with his touchyness while drivng. i drive really well, but i thnk i scare him, we had a really fast engine put in the car not too long ago. beats his little sports car. but i hate the bedroom "i’m-undressing-you-with-my-eyes-in-public" thats so bad i have had girls and guys both to tell me to watch my back. i do and will, i am a blackbelt and i carry pepper spray and he knows it. he’s seen me give lessons before at the judo and jiu jitsu dojo i learned at. any tips on breaking his habit?
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Let’s say there is this girl at a bus stop you see often; you have made eye contact with her a couple of times as well. How exactly do you go up to her/what do you say?
Oh and I’m 17, she’s 19 or 20 (probably)
Just so you know I’m pretty mature for my age.
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This doesnt have to be for relationship, I still have hard time appraching women even when I am not looking for relationship ( I am not).
Alot of times I just stare for couple seconds and then look somewhere else, sometimes girls smile back when they walk past me, what should I do when this happens?
Please give me general tips and behavior I should do and maybe not do.
I am very direct and confident person (my friends tell me this all the time). I am usually quiet, I look older then I am (i am 19 but look like 25 
usually wear nice clothes (classical no ghetto).
Also, I get this feeling that when I look to make eye contact with a girl, they turn their head away. It looks like they are shy but I just dont know what to do and it gets awkward cuz I dont do anything
Anyway, sorry for grammar and writing I am very tired
also posted little info about me at my profile
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Well, I remember back in the summer, when I was getting ready for college at orientation, I found out only after going to it from one of my friends that some girl was checking me out heavily during it, and that bugged me. I am planning on avoiding relationships and sex my whole life. I don’t like making eye contact with anyone unless I am speaking to them and generally avoid it. I don’t like anyone looking at me without me giving them any indication that they have my permission and I feel insecure being watched when I don’t know it. Yesterday, another one of my friends told me at lunch after these two girls left that one of them was staring at me almost the whole time after we sat down to the time they left. On one of the first days, a really attractive girl started to flirt with me, and I didn’t even pick up the signs until after, when I was told that is what she was doing. One of my female friends told me that I am "very handsome" and told one of my friends that she has always thought that I am good looking, yet I think I am just normal looking. Another one of my female friends told me that I am "sexy" and told me after I promised her that I wouldn’t think badly of her that she wanted to have sex with me.
I don’t even know how to describe myself. I guess I could say I am tall, I have short and soft dark brown hair, green eyes, broad shoulders, etc, but that can only help so much. I would say I am noble looking, but not necessarily handsome.
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After coming across so many guides, and would-be experts claiming they know exactly how to pick up women, I figured it would be refreshing to present something of the complete opposite, “How to Effectively Repel Women.”
Now, in my research, I found that many of the tips given in pick-up guides could be grossly overdone to achieve the exact opposite of that goal.
As we see on many television commercials, emitting the right scent can be important in attracting a woman. So what do you do? Instead of spending a lot of money on fancy and expensive cologne, buy the really cheap stuff from the dollar store. Use about half of the bottle, just to be sure. The stench of cheap cologne can be so offensive, it will be an immediate deal-breaker and you’ll find the night ending extremely early.
Most people agree, that eye contact can be very effective in attracting a woman. However, the complete opposite affect can be achieved if it is overdone. Instead of merely achieving eye contact, try staring at them uncomfortably for a good two or three minutes. This tactic can really be even more effective if you can keep a straight face, and rarely blink your eyes. Think “stalker” here.
If you are unfortunate enough to be caught in conversation, do your best to speak as little as possible, almost to the point where it seems to be a bit creepy. Assume that she is able to read your mind, and if you do have to talk, only speak in quiet mumbles, and stutter if you can, for this shows extreme nervousness.
Now this next method, I happened to find online, from another individual with many of these same arguments. Girls are normally not impressed with a real skill such as being able to use martial arts, such as jiu jitsu or kung fu. So a good method would be to randomly punch or kick things; it does not matter if you really know kung fu or not, she won’t know any better. This is more effective in public; for example, if you’re in a restaurant and the food or service is bad, just start breaking tables and crushing glasses. It effectively repels women, at the same time; it also effectively displays your masculinity.
Take some time to explain to her what you like to do in your spare time. Tell her that you’re a trekkie, and that you enjoy going to conventions, or say you’re really into dungeons and dragons, and that you have an array of costumes at home for effective role-playing. Most girls would probably find this as a big turn off, except for the really weird ones.
Another one of my favorite methods to use, is to display to her your vast knowledge of movie quotes. Girls really like that…just kidding. Impress her by showing her how good you are at reciting quotes from movies such as Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, or the Monty Python films.
Another method, is too keep your conversations, should you choose to have them, about your own interests as much as possible. Talk only about what interests you. If you like fishing, talk only about fishing, go into great details about finding the rights spots and using the right baits. If she tries to change the subject, barely acknowledge it whatsoever, and continue on with your own conversation. Remember, you’re the one in control here.
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I’m the infamous 20 year old virgin and I’ve only dated once, back in high school, and I live off campus. I’m getting better at making eye contact, but every time I try to smile, my loser *** looks away
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Well, I remember back in the summer, when I was getting ready for college at orientation, I found out only after going to it from one of my friends that some girl was checking me out heavily during it, and that bugged me. I am planning on avoiding relationships and sex my whole life. I don’t like making eye contact with anyone unless I am speaking to them and generally avoid it. I don’t like anyone looking at me without me giving them any indication that they have my permission and I feel insecure being watched when I don’t know it. Yesterday, another one of my friends told me at lunch after these two girls left that one of them was staring at me almost the whole time after we sat down to the time they left. On one of the first days, a really attractive girl started to flirt with me, and I didn’t even pick up the signs until after, when I was told that is what she was doing. One of my female friends told me that I am "very handsome" and told one of my friends that she has always thought that I am good looking, yet I think I am just normal looking. Another one of my female friends told me that I am "sexy" and told me after I promised her that I wouldn’t think badly of her that she wanted to have sex with me.
I don’t even know how to describe myself. I guess I could say I am tall, I have short and soft dark brown hair, green eyes, broad shoulders, etc, but that can only help so much. I would say I am noble looking, but not necessarily handsome.
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I’m the infamous 20 year old virgin and I’ve only dated once, back in high school, and I live off campus. I’m getting better at making eye contact, but every time I try to smile, my loser ass looks away.
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I’m really really confused about how to walk up and talk to women. Women are usually very cold, aloof and not often very friendly to me and I don’t really understand why. I look nice, I’m not a jerk nor an overly nice guy. And I look and dress nice. I want to get over my fear of approaching women I don’t know, but I’m afraid women will be weirded out, since that’s how they often act if I ask them out.
Let’s say I’m at a nice mall, or on campus at my school, or a festival, just somewhere a lot of people are where it’s not unreasonable for a man to approach, but not a club or a bar. What is the best way to approach if I’m decent looking and dressed well?
The idea I had was if a girl is walking somewhere, to ask for directions, and if she in a friendly manner and I sense she won’t blow me off I’ll smile and say "Oh I know where it was, I just wanted to talk to you. But I had to see if you were friendly first!" and introduce myself. How would you respond to an approach like that? The other thing I want to do is just go up with a smile and say "Hi… you are just so cute, so of course I had to come talk to you."
I’m pretty shy so it’s going to be difficult for me, but I’m dead-set at getting over my fear of approaching attractive women. I hear from time to time that I’m handsome and should have a girlfriend but I just never approach anyone! I don’t want to meet girls at parties or bars or clubs because I’ve had nothing but bad luck with that. Any advice would be appreciated!
I know the obvious things, like hold eye contact, don’t stare at her breasts, smile, ask open ended questions, have a sense of humor, don’t be needy or beg for her number/a date, don’t talk about myself too much, etc. What else needs to be there for there to be chemistry?
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After period 1 I pass a girl and we always have eye contact. She Has been begining to smile at me. I know her name and she knows mine but we have no classes together and I want to talk to her. How can I manage to do this since she is going the opposite direction?
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I am a guy who has never had a girlfriend, never been to a dance with a girl, never dated, never kissed, nothing. I have been focusing more on career, but I want to be in a relationship. I at least want to date a girl. Whenever I see girls I try to make eye contact with them, stand up straight and look confident but it never works! I don’t think i’m hot or anything, in fact I think I may be a bit ugly. Now I want to try flirting, any advice?
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I am a new single (23 years old) and have always been in a serious relationship so not much experience picking up chicks. I wanted to know from the ladies how you want to be approached at clubs, like to dance or talk or whatever. Are there certain signs I should look for like if a girl makes eye contact with me? Help me out ladies please!
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we have a weird relationship, she’s my best frnd’s sis and i asked his permission and he said i could date her. so i asked her out and she said she wants to be friends. we’ve grown closer ever since and she came to call me bro and i call her lil sis, but i just have a feeling its just a game i have to play, coz she laughs at most of my jokes and always gets physical like strangling me playfully n stuff, maintains eye contact, keeps telling me im cute all the time and takes pictures of me and also pics of both of us together, and smiles at me in a friendly way all the time. but i dont kno if she thinks its a game too, its just a feeling i get.
so i started getting more confident and i kno im loads better than that broken up shell she turneed down. ive known her for 4 years, and her bday was a few days ago, so i decided to go ahead and buy her a gift for the first time because we werent really close in her previous birthdays. Anyway i bought her a cute little necklace that i thought would fit the brotherly image, with no hearts or anything so as to make sure she wudnt "misunderstand me", and she has a thing for the twilight series so i gave her one of the books that used to be mine n told her i hate the series and that i dun want it back. she got all happy and blew me kisses, and said: i so wanna hug you right now, but she just stayed where she was and i just said bye and left coz it was time for me to go, but it wasnt the least bit awkward tho.
is there any way she might consider me for something more, or am i doomed to the friend zone? i really like this girl and i really need some good advice. (btw thats not how i think of her, i just listed all the hints i thought might help you guys judge, im not a jerk. ill be whatever she wants me to be, whether its her bro, her friend or her bf)
im really sorry this makes such a big read but its complicated and i had to write all that stuff
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