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or is it just a personality type that draws it out? how to avoid making your boyfriend angry? i’ll admit i’m not the most completely sane person ever, but I don’t ask for an overload of bad emotions coming at me…. i try to be compassionate too but it’s not especially my forte…… I want to learn better habits to make my bf happy and get away from the vengeful moods!! So what do I do?

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Here’s my dilemma. I’m a 20 year old virgin… that’s pretty much it. But lately I’ve been hating women like a AFC. I worked on my game by using materials by PUAs like David D and others. I used to have NO game whatsoever last year… so that means I’ve never even been kissed :X. It ******* sucks. I party 3 times a week. Approach around 10 girls at each party. I’ve been improving my game for months, and I WAS patient, thinking it’s just a matter of time, but this is ******* ridiculous, it’s taking too long. I see girls going home with guys who talk to girls like it’s a job interview, no vibing. That’s when I just feel unlucky as ******* and try to start fights.

The first few weeks of college I put my new game to use. I was ******* with girls emotions, making them think I liked them, then swatting their hands away when they put it on my thigh and what not, embarrassing them and making them feel bad, it was just too much fun being an asshole because I never had the confidence to be one. It was like I wanted to make girls feel less attractive and it gave me power. But now I feel bad, it was fun while it lasted, can’t be shallow all the time…

One minute I’m a hopeless romantic wishing I had a girlfriend and fantasizing about doing all these things, then the next minute I wanna rape someone. It’s like I’m bi-polar. My emotions are all out of whack. I know the answer to all my frustrations is to get laid, MMMMMMM SEX!! NOM NOM NOM. It’s all I think about. PLEASE HELP AHAHAHAHHAHAHAH I’m going crazy… I truly believe that if I don’t get laid soon, I will go crazy and rape someone… years ago I knew this would happen…

So basically I’m getting impatient about getting laid, I have all this knowledge from videos like 2 Girls Teach Sex. I study how to pick up women more than I study for my classes for christ sake! It’s literally ruining my future! I’ve been doing PE so now I have a pornstar penis. I have fake confidence. I’M FU*KIN READY MAN! BEING MYSELF JUST WASN’T CUTTING IT. I attempted suicide because I hated myself so much so don’t say "Just be yourself" because I was literally a chick repellent!

Tell me how you got laid in college. AND DON’T SAY "get drunk, take girl home, done" please, that’s what everyone does on these topics. A few nice words that will pick me up will be much appreciated too

PEACE
I asked this question because these stressful thoughts of mine give me insomnia and I had to vent somehow. And yes I do have a psychiatrist and no, I will never rape anyone.
ty for the answers

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While I would much rather meet someone with whom to begin an actual relationship, the fact that, despite my best attempts, I have been unable to attract the romantic interests of a girl in over three years has convinced me that it is illogical for people like myself to hope for such a thing.

Based on this observation, I have recently begun attempting to meet women in bars/clubs but have had no better luck there.

Other guys seem to be able to easily approach women in these establishments, introduce himself, and the girl immediately lights up and begins socializing with him.

On the other hand, when I walk up to girls in these establishments, say ‘hi’ and ask them how their doing, they usually appear to be either annoyed that I dared to talk to them or just uninterested.

I was wondering if any of you might have any advice on how to approach and talk to women in bars.

The more specifics you could provide, the better.
I’d appreciate it if only individuals offering legitimate answers responded to this inquiry. I posted it earlier and only received answers from sarcastic individuals.

Also, if any information about me would help in this assessment, I’m 23 years old (24 in a month), Caucasian, 6’3, average build, clean shaven, well groomed, and suffer several physical defects including a genetic hearing impairment which requires that I wear hearing aids.

I always try to dress well when going to one of these clubs and, while my emotions don’t automatically show on my face, I always put on a pleasant deposition.
The only response thus far is nothing more then an advertisement for a commercial dating web site that is little more then a scam.

I’m not going to select it as a ‘best answer and would appreciate it if anyone who rates this post select ‘no best answer’ if no-one else posts.

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Me and this boy I live with have been recently spending time together. We’ve gone out for drinks, I’ve gone out with him and his friends, we hang out at home (actually, we live together). We have been going to bed together (no sex, just cuddling/some kissing) for about 5 nights now. I have a feeling that he may like me, but I’m also not really sure. We cuddle on the couch when we’re watching tv, and he always initiates it by putting his arm around me or rubbing my back.
On wednesday, I asked him what was going on, because I’m not sure if he just wants someone to cuddle with and be close to, and isn’t really interested in me. He didn’t answer my question very well, I made it clear I didn’t want to be played with, and I don’t want a cuddle buddy, I want something more than that. Apart from not answering my question very well, he told me he thought I was the sweetest girl, and am extremely cute, and cant help himself from wanting to be close to me, but he wasn’t sure he could commit to anything.
We’ve spent the night together every night since then, as well as we’ve spent time with each other during the day. On thursday, he invited me to come out with him and two others for a plane ride over the city at sunset, and later took me on a ride around town on his motorcycle, and we stopped and got frozen yogurt. So, we do cute/fun things together. That same night we watched a movie together and when we were going to bed, he told me I could leave if I didn’t like him. I reassured him that I should stay then.
I’m wondering if maybe he is realizing that he likes me? Or is entertaining the notion. Should I be the first one to come out and say that I like him?? Or would that push him away??
I just don’t want to end up hurt by forming emotions for someone who doesn’t like me.
I feel like he isn’t ready to show his affection towards me in front of friends or our room mates. Maybe that is because he is unsure of what is really going on with us?

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as we all know…guys think with logic and girls think with emotions!

So in order to try and get a girl to like you, it it best to try and talk about emotions? I just read this and I have no idea if it is accurate!

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Is it true that if you spend enough time and slowly work hard enough at being able to share your emotions and daily events with each other, she’ll realize that you > her boyfriend?

What sort of aggressive strategies do you have to not be in a "friend zone" and to seduce her to you?

Finally, is it a smart move to cut her off later on, when you become close friends with her, and she won’t be with you? That way, she’ll feel like she lost more by not being with you?

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