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im 21 and Iv never in my life had a girlfriend nor have I ever talked to girls before and I want a girlfriend so bad but Im afraid I will look like a creep and scare her away if I approach her. What would you tell someone like me with no experience talking to girls or approaching girls? Girls especially answer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
im 21 and Iv never in my life had a girlfriend nor have I ever talked to girls before and I want a girlfriend so bad but Im afraid I will look like a creep and scare her away if I approach her. What would you tell someone like me with no experience talking to girls or approaching girls? Girls especially answer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
im 21 and Iv never in my life had a girlfriend nor have I ever talked to girls before and I want a girlfriend so bad but Im afraid I will look like a creep and scare her away if I approach her. What would you tell someone like me with no experience talking to girls or approaching girls? Girls especially answer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
….without looking like a complete creep or weirdo?
I’m still young, I’m 21. But I don’t know how to approach women, how should I approach them at the mall? What can I use to start up a conversation and score her number at the end.
Ok, so I want to try and portray myself as being more friendly and approachable. And id like to try and talk to more women – but I’m not too sure what to say
People tell me to just grow up and say ‘hi’ to the girl your interested in. However, in practice I never ever see guys do this – for the most part they all look just as unapproachable as me. And someone asked a question about this not long ago and a lot of the girls said they might be creeped out by random guys saying hi to them.
So I guess I’m not sure what to say to them. And I’m always worried if I say something they are going to think I’m a creep trying to pick them up or something
I have not been single since high school, I’ve always been in long steady relationships, I’ve never needed to try to pick up women (I’m not a stud or anything, I’ve just been really lucky). I’m very respectful of women and I don’t want to come off as a creep at the bar or grocery store or anything like that. How do I walk up to woman that are beautiful and just strike up a conversation withou her getting her mace out?
Hey guys how are?
I am actually very flattered to see that many girls on that site are REALLY committed to trying to help all kind of guys to get over their shyness and start meeting the women of their dreams it is really sweet now it is my turn to get some advice!
I met more than one women in bookstores or shopping centers and most of the women are really nice and polite some interested some not, no problems. However, I have a hard time approaching in the bus because there are many people around and on the street because I hate creeping out girls, I am not a creep, I am not a stalker so I want to know what approach scares you and what approach doesn’t scare you, I am not interested in what to say as it is different from girl to girl as long as it is not a pickup line but I am interested in knowing how to make her feel comfortable when I approach in those scenerios thanks?
Guys thanks for answer, it was great! However I am interested in the positive aspects of approaching not negative, I don’t ever go on the bus or in the street and use sexual comments or shower a woman with a compliments. Also I am talking about approaching a woman on the street in the day time when there are lots of people around (City and shopping streets)! Thanks. One more thing I am interested in the answer of girls who are Comfortable talking to strangers, not the answers of the ones who get freaked out by it.
Sorry for what I wrote in the additional details, just ignore it and say whatever you wanna say! Again I am sorry for writing it.
Ok so me and another single guy friend went to a club to practice our "Ahem" game… But we both got shot down, hard, that night. Its always discouraging, i have a harder time than my friend putting myself together and trying again. I think the whole time we were there, about 3 hours, i only managed to work up enough nerve to try twice (and nearly got my ass kicked on one of those try’s). Something has to be seriously wrong here.
As a man i feel that i am obligated to have at least some ability in seducing a woman on the dance floor. I say seduce because the goal is strictly sex, nothing more. I would never look for a girlfriend in a club.
So how much training or time does it take to be able to do this like the other guys i see on the dance floor? Some of those guys clearly don’t look like they deserve to dance with such beautiful women.
Also, for bonus points: Are there any other social settings besides clubs that work just as well for picking up women for a night? Of all social settings, i feel the absolute least comfortable in a club.
Sorry to sound like a creep. I’m usually not, but when your manhood is challenged like this, well, it makes you take progressively more drastic measures.
Okay, this has happened a few times. I go to college and between class, I relax at one of the rec rooms we have, and every once in a while a cute girl will sit at the one of the other tables, and I feel so inclined to say hi, but I feel like I will come off as a creep. What are some good ways to approach these girls and just say Hi?
First off, I’m a sophomore. There is this girl Danielle who i really like. No joke, she is the most amazing girl i have ever met. she is smart, funny, athletic, one of the prettiest girls that i have ever seen. i think about her a lot, but not in a creepy way. okay so i don’t know how close to get before i should ask her out. i don’t want to become too close to her i don’t think because then she might think of me as just a friend. one of my friends likes her too though, but i don’t think she likes him that way because she already turned him down once. (is that wrong to like someone that your friend likes?) and i don’t know how much to talk to her. i don’t want to seem like some creep that talks to or texts her all the time. and another thing is the "touch barrier" what kind of touching is kinda flirty but not awkward for the girl to show that i care about her? o, and what kind of compliments and how often is it good to compliment a girl? and at what point is it not weird to hang out just one on one because whenever i hang out with her it is with a group unless if it is walking with her to class alone or after school to her car. any help on this is great. i need as much advice as i can get because sadly, i have never had a girlfriend, but neither have any of my friends really. (no i am not a geek, i am athletic, smart, and decent looking.)
o and for the record, i know her already and talk to her at school every day basically.
o update!!!!:
she told my friend who also liked her that she doesn’t like him that way.
I only have one class with this girl and I really like her…she flirts with me alot and she touches me quite alot in places like my thigh and stuff. seems like she wants to get closer, but I don’t want to come off as a creep…
I am a junior in high school and I like this senior girl I have been talking to recently. How should I begin to flirt with her? I don’t want to come on as some creep though.
