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how can i get girls to like me… i am good looking but not the hottest guy ever… i have been rated a 8 before by a ex girlfriend. my longest relationship has only been a couple weeks. why dont girls like me more than a friend……. how can i chang this its really fucking depressing

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First off, I am 21 and never had a girlfriend, I have never been on an official date. I am really shy, but when I open up, I talk alot more. My problems is that when I like a girl, she tends too only see me as a friend. I can respect that, but there is this one girl that I have liked for 6 years, and my feelings for her is unlike any feelings I have had for any other girl. I want to be with her, but she dont feel the same way. For more details, read the next paragraph

About 6 years ago, I met this girl on a fieldtrip, and I have been crazy for her since. I was shy at first, we talked but I eventually asked her out. She said no, and went with her exboyfriend. They dated for about 3 years, and then they broke up. At that time, I still talked to her, and my feelings for her never went away. When she was single, I felt like I should tell her how I felt again. I pussied out, and I wrote a letter expressing my feelings, and I gave it to her. A couple days later, she wrote me back, but on facebook, telling me that her feelings have not changed. A couple weeks later she went back with her ex. Since writing her the letter, we did not speak, until about a year later. She broke up with her boyfriend, and has not been as avoidant, because she becomes more avoidant when she is with that guy. When she told me, she said that Im the only guy she feels like she can hang out with, because I am not expecting anything. Through our interactions, my feelings have grown back. She also told me that, she does not want to get back with her ex, but still texts him from time to time. My car broke down, and when I called her to come help me out, she came with that one guy she always ends up with. I decided then I need to tell her how I feel again. So I texted her telling her that we needed to talk. We made plans for it the following week. When the time came, and I told her, in person, that I always liked her, and that I was thinking about breaking off our friendship, but I decided not too. I told her that I would prefer continue liking her and just being her friend than not talk to her at all. When I gave her a chance to talk, she didnt really say anything about it. What does that mean?? I told her this about a week ago, and I have not been in contact with her since, but I really miss her. I want to see her again. I know that it is best to move on, but I dont want to move on. Is there a way that I can still make all my dreams come true, and be with her. Because she is the only one I really want.

So how can I get girls to like me? Is there any way to get the girl I talked about in the above paragraph to like me? Any help will be appreciated, I am tired of being single

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o.k., so we’ve only been going out like 3 and a half weeks, but I’m not some crazy, jealous girlfriend. My boyfriends a football player, and was really "popular" with like the entire female population of the school, not like he dated everyone of them and was a player (he’s only had one girlfriend before, at his old school), but like every girl thinks he’s hot, and flirts with him and everything. This bothered me when we first started dating because I thought they all should immediately back off once he had a girlfriend, but I thought once we had been going out for a couple weeks it would definetly stop. But all these random, desperate and just ANNOYING (you can tell this is irritating me) girls are always trying to talk to him, hanging all over him, giggling stupidly whenever he says something, etc. And its not his fault, he doesn’t encourage or flirt back, but he doesnt want to be rude or something. I havent told him it bothers me, because I don’t want to make myself seem like a crazy, jealous girlfriend, and i know he’s just trying to be nice.
The last straw was today, when some little sophomore and her scantily dressed friend came up to US (i was right next to him!) and asked, all giggly, if he was going to homecoming in a couple of days and if they would see him there. He just kinda put his arm around my waist and said yeah, we’re going. …but they just ignored the hint and kept flirting! so please, advice on how to make this stop? i wanna have an amazing homecoming without other girls coming on to my boyfriend

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o.k., so we’ve only been going out like 4 and a half weeks, but I’m not some crazy, jealous girlfriend. My boyfriends a football player, and was really "popular" with like the entire female population of the school, not like he dated everyone of them and was a player (he’s only had one girlfriend before, at his old school), but like every girl thinks he’s hot, and flirts with him and everything. This bothered me when we first started dating because I thought they all should immediately back off once he had a girlfriend, but I thought once we had been going out for a couple weeks it would definetly stop. But all these random, desperate and just ANNOYING (you can tell this is irritating me) girls are always trying to talk to him, hanging all over him, giggling stupidly whenever he says something, etc. And its not his fault, he doesn’t encourage or flirt back, but he doesnt want to be rude or something. I havent told him it bothers me, because I don’t want to make myself seem like a crazy, jealous girlfriend, and i know he’s just trying to be nice.
The last straw was today, when some little sophomore and her scantily dressed friend came up to US (i was right next to him!) and asked, all giggly, if he was going to homecoming in a couple of days and if they would see him there. He just kinda put his arm around my waist and said yeah, we’re going. …but they just ignored the hint and kept flirting! so please, advice on how to make this stop? i wanna have an amazing homecoming without other girls coming on to my boyfriend

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Ok, I basically asked this girl out a couple weeks ago but haven’t been able to actually go out with her yet because we both have been so busy. Her birthday is this weekend and she invited me to go, I need to get her something that won’t make me look like a super weird creeper, but also something that says I want to be a little more than just friends. What do you guys think? Thanks.

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A while ago I joined a sports club and met a bunch of girls through that. In July one of the girls had a party and invited the entire team. I was pretty depressed that day, so I was just sitting around by myself. Then another girl, "Marge", came and sat beside me. She asked me what the matter was and I told her my boyfriend had broken up with me that day, on our anniversary. She said she was sorry and asked if she could tell me a secret. I told her of course she could, so then she mentioned that she had been in a relationship with another girl from the team but no one knew. Since then I’ve been fascinated by "Marge".

Up until very recently I thought it was just a little girl-crush. But I’ve started to realize that I really her. However, a few problems; she thinks (I’m guessing) that I’m completely straight. Another "problem" is that she’s a few years older than me. Couple weeks ago we were sitting down talking and I asked her "what’s up?" ; she answered with "listen, I’m 25 years old and you’re 18.. " (dialogue was a little different as there’s a bit of a language problem as well- she speaks French and I speak English; we both understand both languages though so it isn’t really a problem, just a bit strange I guess)

Also lately we haven’t really been talking very much, today she even said I was a total introvert. It’s just because I’m so in awe of Marge so I don’t always feel at ease to be completely myself. I’ve heard a bunch of girls bitch about her but then they still hang out with her more than I do, I get so jealous but know it isn’t right to tell her..

Haha okay I think I’ve gotten my point across. Question is; how do I let her know I’m interested (without being too direct) ?
How do I find out if she might be a little attracted or something?
etc etc, how do you think I should generally deal with the situation?

Alright any help would be appreciated.. thanks

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There was this girl I use to work. Well some of the things that make me wonder if she liked me are as follows:

-She asked if she made me a little bracelet, would I wear it so I told her yes. And she made it for me and I still have it.
-When I would go to sit down to take a break, sometimes she’d follow and sit with me and talk to me.
-When I burned myself at work, without me even asking for anything, she went to the nearby store and stole some burn-aid stuff just for me.
-When her boyfriend would visit her at work, she’d sit with him. But sometimes as she would start to walk away with him, she’d look back at me for some reason.
-She told me one day she had a dream about me. Not a wet dream or anything, but a dream.
-When I was feeling kind of jealous one day about her boyfriend and stuff, it’s like she knew even without me really showing anything and she asked me if something was wrong. I could tell she wanted me to say something there but not sure what.
-A few weeks after she had to quit, she went back to get her last check and she hugged me when she came in. But while she was there, we talked some and she asked for my number and hugged me again before leaving.

The thing is though, she did call once, but for some reason she didn’t again. During that phone convo though, I was a little bit shy and not talking much, so that could have something to do with it. So overall, what do you think? Just being friendly or was there something there?
I wore the bracelet for a good couple weeks. But like I said, I USE TO work with her, so it’s off now. But I do still have it.

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